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My name is Li Li, I am 40 years old and I am an ordinary office worker. I have a very traditional family, my parents are in the country, and I work in the city. My life has always been very simple, I go out early and come home late every day, and I live every day step by step. Until one day, a piece of news that made me feel upset broke my peace.
It was a normal weekend, and I had just finished my week's work and was ready to relax. I was supposed to be in a good mood, but I received a phone call from my daughter Xiaoying.
"Mom, I need to tell you something. Her voice sounded anxious.
"What's the matter? "I'm a little nervous, Xiaoying usually doesn't call me easily, it must be something important.
"Well, I recently checked my bank account and found that I had less than five figures in my deposit. Xiao Ying said very heavily, and seemed a little embarrassed.
I was stunned for a moment, and then I felt a nameless fire swelling up. As a mother, I always wanted to give my daughter the best life, but her words left me disappointed and worried. I tried to control my emotions and asked, "How can this be? Where did your salary go after working so long?"
"Mom, I don't know, maybe it's a bit expensive. Xiao Ying's voice sounded a little aggrieved, but with a hint of unconvincing.
"Don't you think you should control it? You're still young, and you still have a long way to go. "I was a bit stern in tone, and I didn't want my daughter to be too financially struggling.
"I see, Mom. I'll take notice. Xiao Ying sighed softly, seemingly helpless.
I took a long breath and tried to calm down. "Well, you have to be careful, you can't spend money arbitrarily anymore. ”
"Well, I see, Mom. Xiao Ying's voice sounded a little low.
I hung up, feeling a deep exhaustion in my heart. As a mother, I always wanted to be able to give my daughter the best of everything, but the reality made me feel powerless. I know that my daughter has grown up and needs to face everything in her life on her own, but as a mother, I still worry that she will be hurt. Perhaps, I should think carefully about how to let my daughter learn to be independent, instead of blindly relying on me.
I struggled to break free from my heavy emotions and decided to give myself a short time to relax. I walked out to the balcony and watched the traffic outside the window, trying to calm my mind. However, my daughter's words stuck in my heart like a needle, and I couldn't really relax.
Suddenly, I felt my phone vibrate and a WeChat message popped up. I took one look, and it was an old friend I hadn't been in touch with in a long time. She was my best friend from college, and we used to be best friends who talked about everything, but as our busy lives grew, we gradually drifted apart. Looking at her news, I felt an inexplicable emotion in my heart, as if to remind me that there are still many important things in life that I need to face.
I clicked on the message, and it was a long text: "Hey, Lily, long time no see! How are you doing? I heard that your daughter has also graduated from college, is she ready to start her marriage? I remember we once said that our daughter must marry a good man and live a happy life in the future." I recently met a nice guy from a good family and a nice person, if you are interested, I can introduce you to him. ”
Looking at this passage, my heart was moved. This friend is a friend who cares so much about me and my daughter even though we haven't been in touch for a long time. Her words also reminded me that my daughter's marriage was indeed an issue that I needed to consider.
I remembered what my daughter looked like when she was a child, and that lively and cute little girl has now grown up. I have always wanted to give my daughter a happy future, but I also know that her happiness should not depend on just one man. I decided to give my daughter some freedom to choose her own way of life instead of just going according to my expectations.
I decided to have a good talk with my daughter, tell her what I think, and listen to her opinion. I believe that as long as we understand and support each other, my daughter will be able to find her own happiness. I took a deep breath and was determined to make the right choice for my daughter's future.
So, I picked up my phone and sent a text message to my daughter: "Xiaoying, mom wants to have a good talk with you, do you have time?"
After a while, my daughter replied to my text message: "Mom, I have time now, are you home? ”
When I saw my daughter's reply, I had mixed feelings. I knew it was going to be a rough conversation, but I decided to be honest about it. I replied to my daughter: "I'm at home, you can come over." ”
It didn't take long for my daughter to come to my house. She looked a little nervous, but did her best to keep smiling.
"Mom, do you have anything to do with me?" the daughter asked, her voice slightly hesitant.
I invited my daughter to sit down, then sighed heavily. "Xiaoying, I just received a call from you and know something about you. I want to talk to you about your future and your marriage. ”
My daughter's expression was a little complicated, but she nodded and motioned for me to continue.
"I know that as a mother, I always want to be able to give you a good future, but I also understand that your happiness should not depend on just one man. I said in as gentle a tone as I could, "I don't want to impose anything on you, I want you to be able to choose your own way of life and find the happiness that truly belongs to you." ”
My daughter looked a little surprised when she heard my words, but then showed a smile of relief. "Mom, thank you for your understanding and support. "Actually, I've been thinking about my future lately, and I don't want to force myself to get married." ”
When I heard my daughter say this, I felt an inexplicable sense of relief in my heart. I know that my daughter has grown up and started to have her own ideas and choices. As a mother, I just need to support her and accompany her through every stage.
"So, what are you going to do?" I asked curiously.
The daughter pondered for a moment, then smiled and said, "I want to work hard first and lay a foundation for myself." As for marriage, I don't think about it until I actually meet the person who catches my heart. ”
When I heard my daughter's words, I was moved in my heart. I know that my daughter has begun to have her own thoughts and plans, and I am sure that she will live a happy and fulfilling life.
"Okay, I've got your back. I said, "As long as you're happy, mom is satisfied." ”
When my daughter heard my words, she smiled brightly. "Thank you Mom, I'll try. ”
I chatted with my daughter for a while, and my mood gradually became lighter. Looking at my daughter's smiling face, I feel that everything is worth it. I decided to give my daughter more freedom from now on so that she could choose her own lifestyle instead of being limited by me. I believe that as long as we understand and support each other, my daughter will be able to find her own happiness.
I had a great chat with my daughter about her work, her life and her plans for the future. Time passed quickly, and before I knew it, it was already evening.
"Mom, how are you doing?" the daughter asked with concern, abruptly changing the subject.
I smiled and nodded. "I'm fine, but I've been a little busy lately, and sometimes I feel a little tired. I replied frankly.
"Well, it's really tiring to work. The daughter said sympathetically, "However, you have to remember to take care of yourself more and don't get too tired." ”
I looked at my daughter with emotion, and her words made me feel warm in my heart. The relationship between mother and daughter is not only to support each other, but also to care for and care for each other.
"Thank you, Xiaoying. I said, "You're right, I'll take care of it." ”
We continued to talk for a while, talking about some light-hearted topics. My daughter's smile gradually spread over her face, and I felt happy.
Suddenly, the doorbell rang, interrupting our conversation. I got up to open the door and found that it was my friend who had come to open the door.
"Lily, long time no see!" my friend hugged me excitedly, "I've been a little idle lately, so I'll come and see you." ”
"It's really rare, come in and sit. I warmly invited.
My friend was also pleasantly surprised to see her daughter. "Oh, Xiaoying, why are you here too?
My daughter smiled and said hello to her friends before sitting down to chat with us. I think it's a beautiful and heartwarming moment.
We chatted for a while, and my friend suddenly remembered something. "By the way, Lily, I met a boy recently, it's very good, would you be interested in meeting him?"
When I heard my friend's words, my heart moved. My daughter also looked at me curiously, seeming to be interested in the proposal.
"Oh, is it?" I asked with a smile, "and what kind of man is he?"
My friend started to tell me about the boy, and it sounded good. But I was a little hesitant in my heart, after all, my daughter had just expressed her views on marriage, and I didn't want to put any more pressure on her.
"Thank you, friend, for the introduction. I interrupted her with a smile, "But I don't think my daughter is in a hurry to get married now, let's let her develop freely first." ”
When my daughter heard my words, a flash of gratitude flashed in her eyes. She knew that I supported her in making her own decisions.
"yes, Mom was right. The daughter said approvingly, "I still want to work hard for myself for a while longer." ”
My friend looked at us and smiled. "Okay, okay, then listen to you. However, I still think that your Xiaoying is a good girl, and she will definitely meet the right person. ”
We continued to chat for a while, and the atmosphere became lighthearted and cheerful. I think the company of family and friends is the most important part of life. I decided that I would spend more time with my family and friends in the future and share the good times of life.
We chatted with our friends for a while, and the atmosphere became pleasant and relaxed. Time flies, it's already night. My friend glanced at her watch and got up to say goodbye.
"Lily, I have to go, I'm so happy today. My friend said with a smile.
"yes, come back to me next time. "I said goodbye to my friend, and my heart was filled with gratitude.
After my friend left, my daughter and I continued to talk in the living room for a while. My daughter told me about her recent work and some of her plans and plans. I listened to her and felt very relieved.
"Mom, I really appreciate your understanding and support. The daughter suddenly said, "I know that with you by my side, I will feel very grounded." ”
When I heard my daughter's words, my heart was filled with happiness and satisfaction. The relationship between mother and daughter is one of the most sincere emotions in the world.
"Xiaoying, you know that your mother will always support you. I shook my daughter's hand and said, "As long as you're happy, I'm satisfied." ”
The daughter smiled and nodded, her eyes full of gratitude and warmth.
We continued to talk for a while until the dead of night. I think that life at this moment is the best state, and being with my daughter and sharing each other's joys, sorrows and sorrows is my greatest happiness.
Finally, I sent my daughter out of the house, and looking at her distant back, I felt an indescribable feeling in my heart. I know that no matter what happens in the future, I will always be there for my daughter, praying for her, and cheering for her.
Back at home, I sat quietly on the couch and remembered everything that had happened today. I feel grateful and happy in my heart, and I know that with my family and friends, I can face any difficulties bravely.
I looked out the window at the stars, and my heart was full of emotion. Life is like this, full of ups and downs, but as long as the heart is full of love and hope, everything will be beautiful. I decided to live a more positive life from now on, cherish each day and be grateful for everything around me.
I closed my eyes and quietly enjoyed the peace and happiness. I believe that tomorrow will be better and the future will be brighter.
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