We are all ordinary ordinary people, and in our mediocre or open-minded lives, we often have to face four major problems: ability is not worthy of dreams, income is not enjoyable, appearance is not worthy of hypocrisy, and knowledge is sorry for age. These difficulties and challenges will be encountered by all of you, and instead of being troubled by them and restless, it is better to have some courage to face them head-on, maybe it will be more decent.
Here I have to mention my second uncle, who once cherished the "arrogant" dream of a young man, and very much wanted to become a well-known entrepreneur, at least in their village. Let's put it directly, I just want to make a lot of money, return to my hometown, and enjoy the awe of the villagers.
However, after years of hard work, he finally realized that his strength was far from his dream, whether in terms of background, vision or other aspects, he couldn't say that he was picking his feet, but he was not at all at the level of being alone. Frankly speaking, I watched that after he messed around, he was able to leave the house and not owe anyone money, which was already quite level.
He used to be an idealist, but the harsh reality made him have to learn to accept his ordinariness. Then unfortunately, his son became a poor worm who pinned his father's dreams, and was forced to study and excel every day.
In addition to his dreams becoming more and more distant, limited income is also another problem that plagues him. I didn't seize the development opportunities of the times, I didn't have an iron system, the harder I worked, the more I worked, but my income was always stretched, especially when my son had to go out to study.
He often recites the custody of his family's assets in his study alone, and rejects invitations from friends to parties, just to save some money. After all, one less meal and less money are enough for him to eat in the canteen for a week.
As time passed, he gradually became "cautious", unusually concerned about every penny of income and expenditure, happy every time he took a small advantage, and satisfied with every expenditure he reduced.
The issue of mediocrity is completely irrelevant to him. He is not handsome, but he is in no way inferior to him. A person who came out of the countryside, pragmatic and simple is where his virtue lies, as for his appearance, people of this age are full of wrinkles, who cares?
He has won the respect and trust of others by running business sincerely, and has become the spiritual pillar of his family by relying on a positive attitude towards life. This kind of appearance distress is common in young people, so they often opt for cosmetic surgery. The second uncle made a high comment on this, thinking that it is more practical to start a business and make money as well as money (don't listen to him, he almost lost his pants), because there are still too many places to use money in the future.
As for the problem of lack of knowledge, even though he has a lot of experience, he still lacks experience and experience in some aspects. But fortunately, he did not stop the follow-up, but continued to learn, constantly strengthen himself, and even took the initiative to ask his son how to use the mobile phone app, and bought a bracelet to record the body's movement data.
Therefore, when we are faced with the difficulties and struggles of life, we should think from a different perspective, these challenges are not the torture of life, but the opportunity to hone our character!
Just like my second uncle, he faced all kinds of problems in life with honesty and courage. Although he has not achieved much, and in the secular definition of society, he is just an ordinary person, but in the eyes of his family, he is the best relative and family pillar. Over the decades, he has gone through the vicissitudes of life, bravely challenged, faced himself, and defeated himself, in fact, this is also a victory, isn't it?