Marriage is a romantic feast in life, but also a challenging test.
In this trial, the bride price is often a hurdle that cannot be ignored.
There was a woman who boldly challenged tradition in the face of the bride price.
Her actions are not only ridiculous, but also make us re-examine the relationship between marriage.
The story takes place on a sunny morning, when a couple of lovers walk into the hospital to prepare for a premarital medical check-up.
They have good expectations and hope to get good news from the doctor.
No one expected that it would be a blow that was not considered at all.
Upon diagnosis, the woman was told that she was suffering from "infertility" that was difficult to cure.
Literally, you should not be able to have children in this life.
Chinese pay attention to "no filial piety has three, no queen is great", who wants to marry a girl who will not have children?
This news was like a shock bomb, which instantly tore the hope in the woman's heart.
Her tears rolled down like pearls with broken threads, and the only thing she could do was accept the reality in front of her.
She did not run away, did not choose to fall into despair, and did not feel ashamed of it, but faced the reality more courageously.
Because she knows that this is a challenge they face together, not her responsibility alone.
Because she understands that procreation is not the whole of marriage, but a part of it.
When her boyfriend heard the news, he did not show disappointment or blame, but silently shook her hand.
With a powerful look and sincere words, he gave her the greatest support and comfort.
They began to explore various treatments, including IVF, etc., and although it was hard, they did not give up hope.
Love has become more and more tenacious in the trials again and again, supporting each other and supporting each other, and they have gone through difficult days one after another.
Although they have faced pressure from their families and society, as well as incomprehension and accusations, they have finally chosen to face it bravely.
They believe that with the support of love, no matter how difficult they encounter, they can overcome it together and create happiness for both parties.
The woman is grateful and knows the support and understanding of her boyfriend and his family, but she wants to give something in return.
After personal consideration, she decided to return the bride price on her own initiative.
In the eyes of the girl, this money does not have to be used for wedding expenses, but more importantly for the difficulties and challenges faced together.
She is willing to use this gesture to express her respect for her boyfriend's family, and also hopes to show her sincerity and openness in this way.
So, on a weekend evening, the woman and her boyfriend went to her boyfriend's house together.
She did not hesitate to send the 600,000 bride price back to her boyfriend's parents in the form of a red envelope, expressing her thoughts and decisions.
Everyone present was touched by her actions, and this kindness and sincerity also made her more recognized for her commitment and responsibility to her family.
The boyfriend's parents were a little surprised, but quickly accepted the woman's sincerity and said that the money would be used for them to cope with future difficulties together.
They are well aware of the woman's difficulties and understand her good intentions.
This move not only demonstrates the woman's noble character and family values, but also adds more trust and tacit understanding to their relationship.
But the old couple has suffered all their lives, and at the same time they were moved, an idea suddenly flashed in their minds:
How can this kind of money be returned voluntarily? It should be impossible.
Then there were various expressions on his face, some were stunned, some were surprised, and some were at a loss.
After all, this is a large amount of money, and according to traditional customs, the bride price is given by the man to the woman, and it is generally not returned.
The boyfriend's parents immediately began to carry out an emergency "brain attack" - what is the origin of this woman?
Could it be that she has some purpose? Could it be that there is something unspeakable?
They begin to wonder if the woman's motives are that the other party wants to get rid of the relationship, or is there some other ulterior motive?
In addition, they also feel that women will cause discussion and criticism in society, affecting the face and reputation of their boyfriends and families.
When the time comes, it will be spread as "a family bullying girls", causing unnecessary trouble and trouble, what should I do?
At this point, the ending was drawn, and the woman took the bride price money back to her home.
After the news spread, people talked about it and expressed their opinions.
Some people think that the woman's approach is brave and upright, and she chooses honesty and conscience regardless of tradition and face.
Some people praise women for their noble character, and this rare behavior is a kind of promotion and demonstration of social morality.
But there are also those who disagree, believing that the woman's actions are too bold and unwise.
They think that the woman does not take into account her own interests and the face of the family, and seems to be too simple and naïve.
Some even suspect the woman's motives, believing that she may have other motives or have been influenced by others.
In terms of public opinion, although some people support the woman's approach, many more still have a wait-and-see attitude.
Such a situation was considered to be rare and that further information was needed before an evaluation could be made.
Others expressed disapproval of the woman's approach, arguing that she should be considerate of face and customs, and should not return the bride price at will.
Such a move has caused some controversy in society, but it also reflects the society's thinking and discussion of honesty, integrity and harmony.
Perhaps, true bravery is not manifested in impulsiveness and radicalism, but in sticking to inner beliefs and principles.
Even in the face of pressure and adversity, we must be brave enough to choose what we believe is the right path, free from external interference and temptation.
At the same time, the clash and fusion between tradition and modernity is inevitable.
On the basis of respecting traditions, we also need to adapt to the development and changes of society and find our own position and position.
This story of the return of the bride price is just the tip of the iceberg, but it has sparked a lot of thought and discussion.
In the spotlight, we see a variety of values and humanity, as well as the progress and change of society.
May we all keep a clear head and a brave heart in the face of difficulties and challenges, and find our own bright path.
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