As the saying goes, men should marry women when they get married, from ancient times to the present, this is an eternal law, and this is the case in every country regardless of borders, men must marry wives and have children when they reach a certain age, and women must marry when they reach a certain age.
With the development of society, people's concept of marriage will change, the demand for marriage is no longer the previous generation, from the feudal arranged marriage, to the current free love, all said that the history of marriage is also constantly developing and changing, which is the result of social progress.
#你为什么而焦虑#有人说人结婚的最黄金的时期是30岁之前, after the age of 30, you will be included in the ranks of leftover men and women, and you will encounter a lot of trouble when you go to find the other half, a 35-year-old lady in Anhui deeply realized this, and took a selfie when she was in a bad mood to express her depressed mood.
Coordinates Anhui Province, in a room where she lives alone, the girl looks at herself in the mirror, her mood has been extremely low, this year is the fifth blind date, but whenever she is full of confidence to comb herself carefully and go on a blind date, the result after coming back is disgusted with her age, and she can't help but hide her face and cry.
According to this lady, she is a post-90s generation, and now she is 35 years old, and she was not too anxious to marry herself at the beginning, and she did not meet the right one, but when she saw that her friends around her had become a family one by one, and she had children, she began to be a little anxious in her heart.
Looking at the quiet room, thinking of the scene of taking the subway alone, she walked to the balcony to look at the night scene in the distance, and looked at every bright light that leaked out of the high-rise buildings in the distance like a star, which represented a family, and I don't know when I can become one of the stars.
She lamented that girls should get married on a blind date to find the other half as soon as possible, and it is really uncomfortable to wait until her age, every time she comes back from a blind date, she says that she is old, and her psychological pressure is very great, and her parents are also more anxious, and they have been asking people to introduce objects everywhere. Marriage really can't wait, don't wait until you want to get married before finding a partner, your current situation is a very realistic example.
Netizens also have different opinions on this lady's situation, this netizen said that men can't find a daughter-in-law, and there are girls who dislike the age, those who refuse this girl may not necessarily find a better one than her, age is not a hard standard, fate can't stop anything, come on, girl, sister I only got married at 34.
Some netizens analyzed that others who fancy her don't look down on her, others who look down on her can't look down on others, and this is the status quo after the age of 30, so parents still have to marry their children as soon as possible, and it's just right to be around 25 years old.
This netizen comforted and said, don't worry, fate hasn't arrived yet.
Author's point of view:
Marriage is not compromised, after all, this is a lifelong thing, looking for a partner is also to be calm, you must seize the opportunity when you meet what you like, sometimes some external factors do not consider too much, you are asking others at the same time, others will also ask you, everyone has a standard in their hearts.
It should be said that fate has not arrived, fate has arrived, age is not a problem, you have to have confidence in yourself, this is the most important thing, you will definitely find someone you like, and I believe that you will meet a man who understands you and loves you.