Author: Zhou Zhengsheng
A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, and when he looks back, he finds that he is being looked up to and envied.
We are always in our own world, desperately looking at other people's lives.
But sometimes what you envy may not be the best.
There are thousands of definitions of happiness, and the best one is called suitable for oneself.
Some people say that when the official was added to the knighthood, after buying a house and a car, he was in good health;
Some people say that it is the parents who are both complete, the lovers are safe, the children are happy, and the leaders are welcome.
Some things don't know when they will happen, and if you can spend your life in an ordinary way, it is of course a gratifying thing.
There is never a set standard for a good life.
Some people like to pursue a glamorous life, and some people indulge in their ordinary little days and are content.
A perfect life does not necessarily mean how happy it is, and ordinary days are not necessarily unpleasant.
Life is ordinary, but it's good to be satisfied.
No matter how good other people's lives are, they may not be suitable for them.
It's like a good-looking garment, no matter how expensive it is, but it doesn't fit well, and it loses its value to you;
A pair of gorgeous shoes, no matter how beautiful, but when you walk and grind your feet, it becomes meaningless;
An inappropriate person, even if you like it no matter how much you like, but it always makes you feel tired, you will choose to let go.
For the rest of your life, you might as well choose shoes that suit you and go your own way.
Life, as long as you like it and live comfortably, you can experience happiness from it,
What's right for you is the best life.
The author is a reporter, director, deputy editor-in-chief, vice president, editor-in-chief of central media, deputy secretary-general of the China Commercial Law Research Association, director/researcher of the National Legal Public Opinion Monitoring Center, director/researcher of the National Legal Research Center, senior consultant of the cooperation and exchange platform of diplomatic missions in China, and chief media and legal consultant of state-owned enterprises and private enterprises.