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My name is Liang Shiping, and I was 24 years old in 1999 when I was working as a Chinese teacher in a town-level middle school.
When I was studying, I had already talked to a person until I became a teacher, and I had this relationship with her, but she and I were in a different place.
She's also a teacher, but she's working in another county, so if I want to fall in love with her, I'll have to take a car there.
But all along, my relationship with her has always been good, every Saturday and Sunday, try to meet and fall in love.
But neither she nor I considered marriage until the age of twenty-four.
Because the conditions didn't seem to allow it, I started a family with her.
There is no house, and it is separated by two places.
Besides, her and I were not high salaries at that time, and if we had children, we might not have enough financial foundation.
I was born in a rural area, and I have two older brothers at home, who came out to work early, but both of them worked as factory workers in coastal areas, and the income was not high and unstable.
My parents were ordinary farmers, and they could still farm at that time, so they didn't need to be taken care of, but my brothers and I both knew that one day, our parents would be too old to move and need to be taken care of, so we all wanted to find a daughter-in-law, and at the same time start a family, we could also let the daughter-in-law do some work to take care of the elderly.
My two brothers and I have an agreement that if anyone starts a family first, they will let their parents come and live together, so the daughter-in-law who marries must be filial to the elderly, and it is best to take care of the elderly.
In the end, both brothers came out to work earlier than me, but their jobs and financial income were not satisfactory, and it was even more difficult to find a daughter-in-law.
But I really didn't dare to tie the knot, because the subject was not mentally prepared enough.
My object is called Zhao Fang, she is quite understanding and sensible women, personal culture and cultural heritage, are very good, after all, like me, they are all reading Chinese, teacher training.
I also took Zhao Fang, went to my hometown, met my parents, at that time she behaved very filial to my parents, first cleaned up the house where my parents lived, and then helped my parents wash clothes, quite diligent, my parents also liked her.
At that time, I was also worried that Zhao Fang disliked my family background and that my parents were farmers and needed to be taken care of. Because of her family situation, she is better than me.
Although her father died early, her mother was a doctor, had a house allocated by a unit, and her pension was very good, while my parents did not buy social security, so they did not get a pension, and when they were farmers, they became sick from hard work, and they were sick when they were old, and they looked unsteady when they walked.
In the end, I found out that Zhao Fang would not alienate me or break up with me because of my family situation.
She remained in a very close relationship with me for the next two or three years, and I was in a relationship with her for three whole years.
And I had the most conversation with a female teacher in my workplace, which is this town-level middle school.
She is the leader of our Chinese subject group, her name is Liang Qingrou, some of our teachers call her Liang Qingrou, and some of our teachers call her Sister Rou, because she is not too young, five years older than me, I was 24 years old at the time, and she was 29 years old.
When I came to report to this school, I noticed her.
I just think that her temperament is very unique, wearing a gentle glasses, which is quite attractive to me, and the arc of her body can show the charm of a mature woman.
And what surprised me even more was that she was unmarried and never had a boyfriend.
But because I already have a partner and am in a state of love with Zhao Fang, I know very well that I must keep a distance from Liang Qingrou, the leader of the Chinese subject group, no matter how much I throb with her in my heart.
The reason why I can talk to Liang Qingrou is not only because of her maturity and her talkativeness, but most importantly, she and I both like to discuss literature and have endless topics.
What I have never understood is that a good woman like Sister Rou has never had a boyfriend and can't get love.
I once had a certain thought in my heart, that is, if I had known Liang Qingrou before I met Zhao Fang, then I might choose Liang Qingrou, even if she was five years older than me, I didn't care at all.
However, since I have a deep relationship with Zhao Fang, and both of them are rushing to get married, although I have feelings for Liang Qingrou, I have always buried this emotion in my heart, not letting Liang Qingrou know or Zhao Fang.
I agree that Liang Qingrou is very serious in teaching and she is full of love for her students, and I always think that she is a role model for me to follow.
The office of our language department is in the same department, that is, all the language teachers are concentrated there.
Liang Qingrou's desk and I are opposite, so whenever I have any questions and need to ask her, I can ask her directly, and she will answer me quickly.
After I became more and more familiar with Liang Qingrou, I talked about her personal relationship problems, and I asked her why she was still single at such an age, because she was too demanding, so she couldn't look down on any man, or some other reason.
Liang Qingrou said that there are too few men who can make her heart, and there are too few people who can talk to her, so that she is fortunate to meet her, but it makes her feel helpless, because the other party already has an object, she will never rob someone else's object, and she has a very clear moral boundary in her heart.
Therefore, she has never had a boyfriend and has been single.
When she said these words, the helplessness and sadness in her eyes were visible to me, and she was avoiding my gaze, which made me feel even more sympathetic and uncomfortable, just thinking that she wouldn't say it was me.
I didn't show the same helplessness, although I did have some in my heart, I just smiled and told her that I would help her find a match, introduce her to her, and maybe pick one out of my classmates.
She just smiled at the time, and maybe in her opinion, I was just coaxing her, or joking with her, so she didn't take it seriously.
Liang Qingrou knew about having a female partner for a long time, when I first entered this middle school for internship, I went to Zhao Fang from time to time, and Zhao Fang also came to me from time to time.
Once, when Zhao Fang came to the school to look for me, she was met by Liang Qingrou.
I generously introduced Zhao Fang and Liang Qingrou to each other, and at that time, I only felt that Liang Qingrou, as the leader of our subject group, was quite friendly and humble, and had a good conversation with Zhao Fang, and the two quickly became good friends.
And every time I came to Zhao Fang, I would go to the snack bar outside with her and eat something together, and this time I met Liang Qingrou, so Zhao Fang and I invited Liang Qingrou to go together, so the three of us went to a dumpling restaurant and sat together to eat dumplings.
Zhao Fang and Liang Qingrou also talked very well, which made me happy.
And in the days to come, whenever Zhao Fang came to the school to look for me, she always asked me to call Liang Qingrou, the eldest sister, out, and the three of us would be happier when we went out to eat together.
Whenever this happens, I also call Liang Qingrou.
Liang Qingrou sometimes pushes back, she smiled and said to me, after all, I am in love with Zhao Fang, if she is also mixed with me and Zhao Fang, it is not suitable for the three of them to be together.
However, Zhao Fang and I both warmly invited her out, I just felt that there was nothing inappropriate about it, anyway, the three of us were together, eating happily, chatting happily, and Zhao Fang and I both regarded Liang Qingrou as a confidant big sister, and there was nothing wrong with it.
But one day, I don't know what I did wrong, Zhao Fang was quite depressed.
When she returned to her school, she sent me a message.
When I saw the content of this message, I only felt a bolt from the blue, quite suddenly, and I didn't understand why Zhao Fang would make such a decision.
She said to me in this message, "Let's break up!"
I was immediately shocked, just thinking that over the years, my relationship with Zhao Fang has been so good, and she has never disliked my bad conditions or anything that is not to her liking, she has never quarreled with me, let alone proposed to me to break up.
But now, she actually sent me such a message quite suddenly, wanting to break up with me?
I thought she was just joking.
However, when I seriously called her, I asked her in a panic out of breath why she suddenly broke up, whether she was impulsive, or was she angry to make such a decision?
She told me that she didn't make a decision on the spur of the moment, that she had thought it through, and that she had only made such a decision after struggling for a long time and sent me such a message.
She only felt that what I had in my heart was Liang Qingrou, the eldest sister, and I loved Liang Qingrou more than her Zhao Fang, so she made such a decision rationally in order to fulfill me and Liang Qingrou.
"Sister Rou has no object, if you are good with her, you and she will be happy!"
Zhao Fang finally sent me such a message, saying that she would not want to contact me again in the future, because since she had made such a decision, she would not change.
Then, no matter how many times I called her, she didn't answer, and no matter how many messages I sent her, she didn't reply.
I fell into an unprecedented period of depression all of a sudden, and I only felt quite painful, and it was difficult to get rid of this emotional pain, after all, I have been in love with Zhao Fang for several years, and this relationship is quite deep.
I've never tried to fall out of love, this is the first time I've fallen out of love, so I didn't expect that this taste is really as bitter as drinking bitter wine, and even more than that.
I didn't sleep that night, and I thought about it for a long time.
But the next morning, I still had to drag my tired body back to work and continue my teaching work.
When I faced Liang Qingrou, I tried my best to pretend that nothing happened, but she could see my haggard face, the pain and loss in my eyes, and the obvious dark circles under my eyes, showing that my mental state was quite poor.
"What's wrong? Shi Ping, what's going on?"
Liang Qingrou looked at me with concerned eyes, just trying to figure out why I was so depressed.
I didn't want her to know, but in the end I couldn't hide it, so I had to tell her that Zhao Fang proposed to me to break up, and I really couldn't figure out what the real reason for Zhao Fang to break up with me was?
Liang Qingrou was surprised, she said to me, I must try my best to redeem it, after all, this relationship is not easy for me, and it also needs to be cherished, she will help me to save Zhao Fang's heart, so that Zhao Fang can reunite with me, if Zhao Fang is impulsive, then she will persuade Zhao Fang to withdraw this breakup.
After listening to Liang Qingrou's eldest sister, I only felt that she was very right.
I really cherish the relationship between myself and Zhao Fang, and I only feel that Zhao Fang broke up with me just for a moment, or because I did something wrong, which made her angry, and I didn't know it at all.
I have to try my best to save this relationship, after all, I also loved Zhao Fang deeply, and I only thought that if she broke up with me, maybe she would not be able to meet the right person in the future, and she would not be able to marry, and she would only be lonely for the rest of her life.
In the end, Liang Qingrou and I couldn't talk anymore because we had to devote ourselves to our work.
But when we all finished the lecture and waited until the lunch break, she discussed with me what she could do to help me win back Zhao Fang's heart.
She tried to call Zhao Fang's phone, just to see if Zhao Fang would answer her call.
As a result, Zhao Fang answered at the beginning, but in the end, under Liang Qingrou's persuasion, Zhao Fang said that she had made up her mind, so no matter what Liang Qingrou said to her, she would never change her mind again.
Liang Qingrou asked Zhao Fang if the reason why Zhao Fang broke up with me was related to her.
Zhao Fang immediately replied that it had nothing to do with it, she was just her own personal decision, and in her heart, Liang Qingrou had always been a good big sister, and she didn't blame Liang Qingrou for anything.
Immediately afterwards, Zhao Fang hung up the line and didn't say any more.
And Liang Qingrou called Zhao Fang again and sent a message to Zhao Fang, but she couldn't get a response.
At this moment, Liang Qingrou looked at me quite helplessly and lost, but she said that she would definitely work hard to help me recover such a relationship, she only felt that Zhao Fang was a good girl, so it was a lifelong regret that I missed Zhao Fang's words.
After thinking about it again and again, Liang Qingrou suddenly thought of something, and seemed to have made up her mind.
She said to me, "Shi Ping, didn't you say before that you were going to introduce a partner to me? ”
Immediately afterwards, she told me that as long as I can arrange a blind date for her and let her have a partner, then the chance that Zhao Fang and I can successfully get back together will greatly increase.
When I heard this, I thought that Liang Qingrou had not been in love for so many years, and she would never accept an object easily.
But now in order to help me save the relationship between me and Zhao Fang, she actually proposed that I arrange a blind date for her as soon as possible, and listened to her tone, as if no matter what I introduced to her, she could accept it, and was going to talk about such a relationship.
I couldn't help but be full of doubts, and asked her, "Sister Rou, do you really want to fall in love?"
What I didn't expect was that Liang Qingrou seemed quite sure.
Her face had never looked so resolute, and she nodded vigorously, saying that she could accept it in order for me to successfully reunite with Zhao Fang.
I ended up hurriedly searching in my circle of alumni classmates, just to see which of my classmates was still single, and who could accept a mature female teacher who was a few years older as a partner, so as to have a blind date and talk about such a relationship.
As a result, one of my old classmates, Gu Chengjie, after seeing this message I sent, told me that he was willing to come to my school for a blind date, and after he saw the photo of Liang Qingrou I posted, he only felt that it was completely fine, it was the type he liked.
I arranged for Gu Chengjie and Liang Qingrou to meet at the dumpling restaurant outside the school, and also posted the news on the message column of the alumni directory, I guess Zhao Fang will definitely see it.
And Liang Qingrou also sent a message to Zhao Fang, letting Zhao Fang know that she, the eldest sister, was going to participate in such a blind date.
The result of the blind date was indeed quite smooth.
Liang Qingrou immediately agreed, you can develop slowly with Gu Chengjie, if you feel it, then the two of you can become lovers and fall in love.
Gu Chengjie is very grateful for my introduction as a matchmaker, because he has never had a girlfriend, and Liang Qingrou is indeed the type he likes in his heart, and it can even be said that he is like the lover of his dreams, which makes him meet his eyes at first sight.
However, in the process of this blind date, there was an unexpected accident that we all expected:
I may have added some spicy seeds in the process of eating the dumplings, which caused a pain in my stomach, and I don't know why.
When I was holding my stomach, and my face was red, and I couldn't hide the pain, all of which made Liang Qingrou see that she immediately turned pale, showing her extreme concern for me.
"What's wrong?Shi Ping, what's wrong with you?" Liang Qingrou hurriedly walked over to my side and held me up.
If she hadn't held me, I might have ended up falling to the ground because of the severe pain in my stomach, because I couldn't predict such a gastrointestinal problem, and I don't know how severe it was, and it might even endanger my entire body, and there would be real danger.
Liang Qingrou looked at me in such a painful way, knowing the seriousness of the situation, she couldn't help but tell me, immediately picked me up, and then rushed to a nearby health center, I could see the concern and worry she showed along the way.
And Gu Chengjie was next to me, supporting me, and asked Liang Qingrou, Liang Qingrou will feel too hard to carry me as a man, if Liang Qingrou feels too hard, he can carry me on behalf of Liang Qingrou.
But Liang Qingrou shook her head, she said that she had enough strength to carry me to the health center.
I only felt that the warmth of Liang Qingrou's body ignited a force in my heart, although I was tormented by gastrointestinal problems at that moment, and I had never faced such severe pain, I gave birth to a willpower that allowed me to hold on, so as to wait for the moment of being treated.
Eventually, the three of us quickly arrived at the town's health center, and when Liang Qingrou carried me to the doctor and put me down, she was already sweating and her face had changed from exhaustion.
I was soon examined, and the doctor told me that it was acute food poisoning and therefore needed gastric lavage, and he told me that if I wasn't brought in time, the consequences would be dire.
I can't help but be full of gratitude to Liang Qingrou in my heart, and the feelings I once had for her have been completely sublimated.
I just thought that if I can't experience the love she gave me, then I am insensitive, and her deep affection is something I can fully feel.
In the end, after receiving the treatment, I finally stopped feeling the pain in my stomach and became a lot calmer, and the moment Liang Qingrou saw that I was okay, her face also relaxed, and she was no longer as nervous as she was at the beginning.
After Gu Chengjie saw that I was fine, he said goodbye to me, and put down the money for the dumpling, and when he said that, we could go to the boss to settle the bill.
And he felt that this blind date just gave him a life experience, he knew that Liang Qingrou already had someone he really loved in his heart, and this person was me, so his blind date, no matter what, was a failure, and he would not talk about this love again, even if Liang Qingrou said that he wanted to fall in love with him, he was just deceiving himself.
After he left, he sent me a message, asking me to become lovers with Liang Qingrou, the eldest sister, because he could feel that between me and Liang Qingrou was the real existence of true love, since this was the case, he would no longer join in it, hindering the development of me and Liang Qingrou.
I finally established a relationship with Liang Qingrou the next day, and I only felt that she and I could no longer deceive ourselves, because she and I did have love.
The moment we established our relationship, we all sent a message to Zhao Fang, letting Zhao Fang know about it, and Zhao Fang gave us a solemn reply, which roughly meant to bless us to grow old.
Later, Liang Qingrou and I were going to get married. On the day of the wedding, we both invited Zhao Fang and Gu Chengjie to come to our wedding.
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