Love is a beautiful and mysterious journey.
In this journey, we all want to be able to find the person who truly loves us and walk hand in hand with them for the rest of our lives.
However, how to tell if a man's heart is in you is something that confuses many women.
In fact, a man's heart is not in you, you can see it from these two places.
1. His time
Time is the most precious resource, and where a person's time is spent, his heart is there.
If a man is always making all kinds of excuses for not wanting to spend time with you, then his heart is most likely not with you.
On the contrary, if he is willing to take time out to accompany you to do the things you love, then his heart is likely to be on you.
As Mr. Lu Xun said: "Time is like water in a sponge, as long as you are willing to squeeze it, there will always be it." ”
A man who truly loves you will be willing to carve out time for you because he feels that you are more important than anything else.
He will be willing to chat with you, go shopping, watch a movie, or even just sit quietly together.
He will cherish every minute and second with you and make you feel his company and love.
Second, his money
Although money is not everything, a man's willingness to spend money for you can reflect how much he values you.
If a man is always thinking about you when it comes to money, then his heart is most likely not in you.
On the contrary, if he is willing to spend money for you, or even give everything for you, then his heart is likely to be in you.
As Yishu said: "The grievances that can be said are not grievances, and the lover who can be snatched away is not considered a lover." ”
A man who truly loves you will be willing to give everything for you, including his money.
He will be willing to buy you what you like, and he will be willing to create better living conditions for you because he feels that you deserve the best. He will be willing to spend money for you, not because he has a lot of money, but because he loves you.
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A man's heart is not in you, it can be seen from his time and money.
If he is willing to take time out of your time and is willing to spend money for you, then his heart is likely to be on you.
Of course, this is not to say that a man who is not willing to spend money for you does not love you, everyone expresses it differently, but if a man is stingy with you in both aspects, then you need to think about your relationship well.
Finally, I would like to give you a famous saying: "Love is not seen with the eyes, but felt with the heart." "I hope everyone can find the person who truly loves them and walk through life hand in hand.