"Multiple Friends, Many Paths"!
People live for a lifetime, from childhood to adulthood, and it is inevitable to have interpersonal interactions.
And if you want to shorten the distance between people, adults are more commonly used to have dinner and give gifts, as if you can achieve twice the result with half the effort at the wine table.
However, this method may have worked well in the past, but in today's pursuit of a high quality of life and friends, it is outdated.
Now to really do a good job in interpersonal relationships, it is not as simple as inviting guests to dinner and giving gifts, and smart people are doing the following three things......
Let's talk about hearts first, then about gold
In today's society, interests are tied to each other, and it seems that the relationship will be strong, and when one day trust collapses and interests dissipate, it is easy for the two to break up.
Therefore, the feelings and relationships maintained by interests are always changeable and unreliable.
When people only have money in their eyes, and everything else has to give way to money, the relationship between people will become cold.
And the other party can be tied to your interests, and you can also be tied to the interests of others, anyway, it is based on money, whoever makes him earn more will choose whom, like a ruthless money-swallowing machine.
However, nowadays, it can only be said that the richer people are, the more willful they are, and the more healthy they are, when they choose partners, they usually no longer consider the set of wine table culture, nor is it vulgar gift-giving.
It is more about examining whether the other party is worth the heart, whether it is worth the investment, and whether it is like-minded.
That's why a lot of business is now done at fishing grounds, golf courses, and cafes.
And this is by no means just for business, as long as it is social interaction between people.
Friends and friends should also have a heart-to-heart relationship, rather lack than abuse, if blindly with material things bound to the relationship, called plastic friendship, when one day you don't bring them benefits, it will be like a stranger.
Therefore, emotional value is very important for everyone now, and your partner happens to be your bosom friend, so you can rest assured that you will get twice the result with half the effort.
Hold the bottom line
The so-called bottom line is the dividing line between things and the warning line for people and things.
And when people are socializing, these two lines must not be stepped on and crossed.
Whether people are good or evil is often decided between the lines, and we must not hurt others and not consume the kindness of others when we socialize.
But at the same time, you must also have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong and not be hurt by others.
If you are not allowed to hurt others or calculate others, that does not mean that you have to be a good person.
There must also be a bottom line for paying, no matter who you are, if you blindly pay, others will get used to your good, and your good will become less precious.
Therefore, when socializing, we must learn to grasp that degree, and we can do less of the icing on the cake, and we can do more of the things that are the icing on the cake.
In this way, those who have received your help will remember your goodness, and when he soars one day, he will not forget your goodness.
This is also similar to "burning incense in the cold temple".
Of course, don't think about reciprocation everywhere when you give a helping hand, just do as you like.
Flower Fragrance Butterfly Coming
A person's life is a process of moving to a high place, and don't be affected by some factors such as your education and family background.
You must learn to constantly improve yourself in life and make yourself better.
When you have nothing, when facing someone stronger than you, you will usually make compromises, curry favor, and your waist will not be straight.
It seems that everything is inferior, and everyone is superior to you, and the feeling of powerlessness arises spontaneously.
Others can look down on you, but you must not look down on yourself.
So at that time, you must not be discouraged and give up on yourself, but make yourself stronger.
If you are not born into a wealthy family, you will become a wealthy family, and when you are at a low point in your life, you will turn things around.
And when you become excellent yourself, of course, this is not only about material excellence, but also spiritual, ideological, and mental excellence.
Then good luck will come, this is also the principle of excellent people attract, when you are excellent, you will find that there are more and more excellent people around you.
And the connections you have accumulated are far more useful and reliable than the connections you have accumulated when you are down.
In response to that sentence, networking is not about how many people you know, but how many people know you.
Good friends are hard to find, and they must be cherished when they meet.
And we ourselves must learn to treat social interaction correctly and create good interpersonal relationships.
Although it is said that money is not everything, it is impossible to do without money.
But after all, money is something that you don't bring with you in life and don't take with you in death.
Therefore, in this life, we can say that it is long and short, and we should do our best and be worthwhile.
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Reference Sources:
[1]. Official media reader "Do a good job in social relations, dinner parties, and gift-giving are outdated, and the "new three" are needed" 2024.04.24
[2]. Official media, Chinese and foreign management media, "What is the real network?" (after reading the second to understand), 2018.04.20
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