In the workplace, every girl wants to be able to show her best and gain the respect of her colleagues and the recognition of her leaders. However, relying solely on strength is not enough to cope with the complexities of the workplace. Sometimes, we also need to learn to "pretend" and protect ourselves and avoid unnecessary troubles by cleverly setting up personas. So, what kind of wisdom do girls have to "pretend" to go to work?
1. Pretend to be selfish and keep the boundary
In the company, we need to learn to pretend to be selfish appropriately. It's not your job, don't take it lightly. It may be a good idea to help at first, but over time, people may become accustomed to it, and even become a fault when you stop helping one day. Therefore, pretending to be selfish is not really selfish, but to protect your time and energy and ensure that the boundaries of your work are clear.
2. Pretend to be stupid and avoid the edge
In the workplace, sometimes pretending to be stupid is also a kind of wisdom. There are some things that we don't see as if we don't see them, and there is no need for us to take the lead on some topics that everyone avoids. Colleagues who are too shrewd are often the target of public criticism, so playing dumb and deaf can avoid unnecessary disputes and contradictions.
3. Pretend to be busy and control the rhythm
Whether work is really busy or not, we should give the impression of being busy. Because once you show a relaxed and laid-back appearance, it is likely that you will be assigned more chores, resulting in your own work rhythm being disrupted and the space for growth being compressed. Pretending to be busy is to better control your work rhythm and ensure that you can complete important tasks efficiently.
Fourth, pretend to be strong and build prestige
In the workplace, when encountering things, you must dare to fight based on reason, and you can't lose your aura. We have to tell others that we are not easy to mess with, and pretend to be strong, so that people dare not bully easily. In this way, you can not only protect your own rights and interests, but also establish your own prestige and win the respect of your colleagues.
Fifth, pretend to be confident and show strength
Everyone has their first time, and the first time you try it can be uneasy and lack confidence. But we must learn to pretend to be confident and use the company's resources to train ourselves. Over time, you'll find that you're really getting more and more confident and you're getting better.
Sixth, pretend to be optimistic and scatter light
An optimistic attitude can contag the people around you and make everyone want to deal with you. Even if you feel sad or dissatisfied, you have to pretend to be happy when you arrive at the company. Because no one likes to be around people with negative energy, we must pass on our happiness to our colleagues and make the workplace full of sunshine and positive energy.
Seven, pretend not to care, keep the hole cards
There are some things, even if we care very much in our hearts, on the surface we have to pretend that we don't care. This will prevent others from grabbing you on your weaknesses and using them to pinch you. In the workplace, we must learn to protect our hole cards and not easily expose our weaknesses.
In short, workplace work is not a simple task, but also requires us to learn some wisdom of "pretending". By skillfully setting up personas, protecting ourselves, and earning respect, we can be invincible in the workplace. I hope that every girl can master these wisdoms, grow together, and be the light in their own lives!