At the age of 60, I feel more and more that my life has been in vain, and the specific performance is like this

Born in 1965, I am 60 years old this year. Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, I will be 60 years old.

Looking back on the road I have traveled in this life, I feel more and more that I have lived a very failed life in this life, and I am not willing to eat, drink, or use all my life, so I know that I can earn money and save money, and in the end, I will not enjoy anything when I am old, is it in vain?

Never been on a plane

I never knew what it was like to fly in my life. When I used to work in the south, I would take the train home for two nights a day, and even though it would take me a few hours by plane to get home, I was reluctant to do so.

Generally speaking, I only have annual leave to go home for the New Year, and the air ticket at that time is quite expensive, I go with my husband and I for a trip, and it costs 5,000 yuan to go back and forth, how can I give it up?

I can't wait to break a penny of working outside to spend it in half, so I don't know what it's like to fly all my life, do you think I'm living in vain?

Didn't go abroad

I've never been abroad in my life, I don't know what it's like to go abroad, I haven't had a passport, I've never seen what a passport looks like.

The furthest I've walked is to Guangzhou in the south, and I've never been anywhere else.

I went to Guangzhou because I went to work, and I didn't want to go around everywhere, because I went out to work to earn money, and I knew how to earn money in this life, and I was not willing to spend money for myself, was it in vain?

I didn't wear clothes worth thousands of dollars

I have never worn more than 1,000 yuan of clothes in my life, and the most expensive clothes I remember are more than 800 yuan, and that is also because my son bought them to support his face when he got married, and the shoes are the same, I have never worn shoes of more than 500 yuan. It's all because my son bought hundreds of dollars of clothes and shoes when he got married, and never bought thousands of dollars of clothes, so you say that I lived in vain?

I have never eaten sea cucumber or abalone

I've never eaten sea cucumber and abalone in my life, but I did see what abalone looks like.

I remember one time when I saw abalone in the market, I asked the vendor, and I said what it was and it was colored, and they told me it was abalone.

At that time, I felt ashamed, I felt that I had never seen abalone at such an old age, I often saw sea cucumbers, I knew them, but I had never eaten them, and I didn't know what they tasted like.

Haven't taken any supplements

Like what people say about cordyceps sinensis or bird's nest and other high-end supplements, I haven't even seen them, let alone can afford to eat these things, am I a failure?

Haven't been to a 5 star hotel

In my life, let alone going to a five-star hotel, I have rarely been to an ordinary hotel.

I have been to a few times once in a while for the children's birthdays or under special circumstances, only once in a while, and the number of times I go to a small restaurant is very few, let alone a five-star hotel, so high-end places I have never been, do you say I lived in vain?

I've never been to a beauty salon

I've never been to a beauty salon in my life, and I've never put on a face mask, which is just a little bit of simple skincare.

Like people say what kind of beauty card to do a full body massage, or open the back, I have only heard these words, but I have not enjoyed them.

I sometimes hear my colleague say there that it costs 10,000 yuan to recharge a card in a beauty salon, but I just listen silently, of course, I only have envy in my heart.

But I've never enjoyed it, do you think I've lived in vain?

Haven't been to a bar

I've never been to a bar like that in my life, and I don't know what the people who go to a bar are doing, just drinking, or dancing and talking? Because I've never been to that kind of place, anyway, I think I've really lived in vain.

I haven't used a mobile phone for more than 2,000 yuan

The most expensive mobile phone I have used in my life is the mobile phone I am currently holding in my hand, which my son bought for me, less than 2,000 yuan.

I bought it myself for about 1000, anyway, none of these mobile phones I have used in my life are more than 2000 yuan, looking at what people are using mobile phones that cost six or seven thousand yuan, I am also very envious, but I am just envious, I am reluctant to buy, am I living in vain?

Haven't lived in a big house

I have an even more pitiful side, which is that I have not been able to live in a big house in my life.

When I used to live in my hometown, the house was more than 50 square meters, but then I went to work in other places and sold the house.

Now I live in the provincial capital city with my son, I bought a house of more than 80 square meters for my son, and I bought a small house of less than 60 square meters for myself.

In short, I think I'm 60 years old now, and I'm also half of the people who are buried in the soil, and I'm not willing to eat in this life, and I'm not willing to drink in the west, and I haven't been to a place where I've never been, I've never eaten, I haven't played, and there are too many things that I haven't used.