We met on the Internet, and after a long chat and contact, I felt that we were a good fit, so I decided to be together.
But after we got together, I realized that I wasn't a good fit with him, and I knew that he liked the kind of girl who was very quiet, and I wasn't.
In order to keep up with him, I started studying. I read every morning when I wake up, and I read a book at night before going to bed. Slowly, I got better and better, and he wasn't interested.
In a relationship, the more a woman does these 3 things, the less a man loves you:
- Speaking ill of men in front of outsiders
Everyone has their own little secrets, and in relationships, women are even more so. When a woman falls in love with a man, she treats the man as her whole world.
Although a woman loves this man very much in her heart, she will not easily expose her emotions, let alone share her inner world with this man.
In fact, speaking ill of a man in front of outsiders is just a manifestation of a woman's love for a man. If a woman tells someone about her relationship with this man, then she will definitely be considered by others as a woman with a watery poplar.
Maybe she doesn't say anything in front of outsiders, but when she gets home, she will tell her husband these things. No matter what kind of person your husband looks like, he will not change his opinion of you because you do this.
A wise woman will never speak ill of a man in front of outsiders, even if that person is the closest person to her. They don't get angry at home because a man says a bad word, but communicate well with him.
Such a woman is a smart woman.
- Always complaining about men
People have their own shortcomings and advantages, when you encounter unsatisfactory things in life, will you choose to confide in your friends, or choose to confide in the person you like? I believe that many women will choose the latter.
However, there are some women who always complain about men, and in the process of dating men, they will always complain to men about men's shortcomings and advantages, no matter what men do is wrong, and if men do wrong, women will feel that it is because men don't love her enough.
In fact, this kind of complaining is meaningless, because how can a person who doesn't love you change because of your complaint?
Even if she changes, he won't be happy because of your change.
Therefore, women should not always complain about men in their relationships, but learn to express their inner feelings and thoughts to the person they like. When you become better and better, men will be proud of you.
- Playing with other men a lot
I've always felt like a very single-minded person because I feel like I'm just treating him as a good friend, not a lover. But after I was with him, I found that I couldn't live without him.
I take him with me every time I go out, every time I eat, and every time I go to see a friend.
When people ask about our relationship, I always say we're just friends. But with a look at him, I knew what he wanted to do.
In this relationship, I always considered us lovers. But later I found out that when I was playing with other men, I was mistaken for a lover by him.
In his eyes, I am not a good girlfriend, but a good friend. When I heard that, I finally understood why he wasn't interested in me anymore.
Men will always have all kinds of careful thoughts, so as women, we must pay attention to our words and deeds. Don't let yourself be too casual, or you'll regret it too late!
Today's topic: What do you think women should do to make men love you more?