Taking care of one's words and deeds is an excellent practice Issue 521
【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
Each of us lives and practices in our practice.
【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
Cultivate words and deeds
I have read a saying: "Taking care of one's words and deeds is an excellent practice." ”
Bright appearance and decent dress are easy to make people happy at first sight.
But if you want to keep people alive for a long time, it's more about how you talk and behave.
Some people will make people feel very uncomfortable to get along with, and some people can always make people feel like a spring breeze.
A person's words and deeds are his best business card.
The so-called high emotional intelligence is not about the left and right, but about having others in mind.
A truly cultivated person knows people but does not judge them, and the governor does not make a statement.
Be kind, thoughtful, and comfortable everywhere.
To get along with others and to be considerate of others is to be kind to yourself.
Those who are gentle with the world will also be treated gently by life.
【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
Repairability
It is often said that appreciating a person begins with appearance, talent, and loyalty.
Walking in the world, character is a person's best pass.
A person of bad conduct is happy for a while, but he loses for a lifetime.
Only by being innocent and being kind can we be stable and far-reaching, and feel at ease.
As the old saying goes: "Only the virtuous can do their best, and only the character can stand for a lifetime." ”
Trees are afraid of hollowness, and people are afraid of being productless.
Rather than being exquisite, it is better to be a man, and than to be opportunistic, it is better to do things in a down-to-earth manner.
Don't follow the crowd, don't follow the crowd, and always keep your own heart.
When you fix your character, all the good luck and surprises will come as promised.
【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
Cultivate the mentality
As the old saying goes: the environment is created by the heart, and the things turn with the heart.
If the heart is full of gloom, there is pain everywhere, and if the heart is clear and the sky is clear, there is scenery everywhere.
If you want to walk easily and live freely, you must learn to cultivate your mentality.
When you suffer a loss, smile calmly, and when you encounter a bad situation, deal with it calmly.
If you are optimistic about everything, there is no mountain that cannot be crossed.
Go and stay at will, meet is fate, and there is nothing to regret about leaving.
The gains and losses are more bearish, and the gains are fortunate, and the clouds are light.
Those who can afford to let go are the winners in life.
A life is not long, don't let life lose to mentality.
No matter how dark it is ahead, light a heart lamp, and everything will suddenly become clear.
Life is a practice, and we don't meet anyone along the way, but to meet the best version of ourselves.
Only by constantly refining and precipitating can you cultivate into what you want.
Only by becoming a better version of yourself will the life you want will come to you.
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【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
Reader Xu Jiawei is a member of the Poetry Recitation Branch of the Sanming Writers Association, the anchor of "Jiangle News".
【Night Reading】Cultivate yourself
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