We often say, "How big a belly is how big a rice bowl is, how big a butt is how big a pants to wear." "We can't talk too much about what we can, we can't do too much.
The same applies to the choice of mates. If a man has a house and a car, he can find a young and beautiful woman, and if the woman has a good appearance and good image, she can consider a handsome, humorous man, so as to have a happy life.
In real life, there are always some people who have average conditions but feel good about themselves, when they fall in love, they have unrealistic fantasies and make some excessive demands, which is laughable and generous in the eyes of others, he takes it for granted, he is not only difficult to find a satisfactory marriage partner, but also becomes the laughing stock of others, and the results are usually not very good.
The 56-year-old uncle has a pension of 2,600 yuan, and he has failed more than 20 blind dates, he only considers young and beautiful, gentle and considerate, kind and simple women, and he feels that women who meet these conditions are qualified to marry him. He doesn't want to lower the criteria for choosing a mate, and only considers good women with good looks and figures.
Uncle Wu is healthy, cheerful and talkative, has good popularity, and is a good man in the eyes of his neighbors. Uncle Wu is 56 years old, retired for many years, has a 60-square-meter house, and a pension of 2,600 yuan, which is enough for his daily expenses.
When he was young, Uncle Wu was conscripted into the army, he was handsome, had good physical fitness, and worked in a steel factory after being discharged from the army. Uncle Wu has a strong sense of responsibility, hard-working, hard-working, and is a model employee in the eyes of leaders and colleagues.
The ex-wife is honest and thrifty, and the relationship between the husband and wife has always been good, they respect each other like guests, they are inseparable, and they are the envy of others. However, it is such a good woman, but Uncle Wu is not satisfied.
Uncle Wu dislikes his ex-wife's lack of words, has no interest in life, and also dislikes his ex-wife's strong personality, and does not know how to care about him and be considerate of him, because Uncle Wu always quarrels about these things, and the relationship between husband and wife is getting worse and worse. Their relationship was very stiff, to the extent that they were on the tip of the needle, and Uncle Wu chose to divorce after thinking about it repeatedly.
Uncle Wu has experienced the pain of an unhappy marriage, the hardships of working alone, and the taste of loneliness. He longs for romantic love and a happy marriage, and envies other couples who fly in harmony with each other, and Uncle Wu has the idea of remarrying.
Uncle Wu wants to find a woman in her forties and fifties, slender and outstanding, and requires her to love to talk and laugh, have fun and understand life, so that she can feel the warmth of the family and the happiness of marriage, and having a young and beautiful wife is Uncle Wu's greatest wish.
As the saying goes, "money is a man's guts", Uncle Wu's pension is not high, in order to increase the bargaining chips for marriage, he found another job as a cleaner, and he has an income of more than 3,000 yuan per month. Uncle Wu plans to find a satisfactory woman with his appearance and income of more than 6,000 yuan and live a happy life.
Over the years, Uncle Wu has been on a blind date more than 20 times, and he has never met the woman he likes, he either dislikes the other party's appearance is not good enough, or he dislikes the other party's unmarried son, the financial burden is very heavy, Uncle Wu also dislikes the other party's honest friendship is a stuffy gourd, because of these reasons the blind date ended in failure.
Some people persuaded Uncle Wu to lower his standards appropriately, find a woman with similar conditions to get married early, and live a normal life, but Uncle Wu couldn't listen to it at all. He felt that his conditions were very good, and he could find a woman with excellent conditions in all aspects, if the other party's appearance was not high enough and his figure was not good enough, he would not consider it at all.
Uncle Wu and Aunt Li were introduced on a blind date. Aunt Li is 58 years old, has a pension of 2,300 yuan, and has a 70-square-meter house. Aunt Li loves to talk and laugh, has a lot of friends, her retirement life is arranged wonderfully and fully, when she has nothing to do, Aunt Li likes to sing and dance, and she also likes to do live broadcasts, she has a lot of fans, and she is the goddess in the minds of many men.
Aunt Li is widowed, her son is about to get married, she has no burden or financial pressure, and she enjoys her free and unrestrained old age. In order to find an ideal partner, Aunt Li plans to fulfill this wish through blind dates. Aunt Li's mate selection standards are not high, as long as he is healthy, has no bad habits, knows how to be considerate and cares about people, and can give Aunt Li a happy old age.
After meeting, Aunt Li had a very good impression, she felt that Uncle Wu was handsome and handsome, well-behaved, and very manly. It's no wonder that Uncle Wu has a noble temperament, he is very handsome, and he can be regarded as a leader among his peers. In contrast, Uncle Wu's impression is not very good, he feels that Aunt Li is not beautiful enough, her figure is not good enough, it does not meet his aesthetics, and Uncle Wu is not very satisfied.
The matchmaker tried her best to persuade Uncle Wu not to care too much about a woman's appearance, and to learn more about a woman's inside, maybe Aunt Li could enter Uncle Wu's heart, and they could achieve a beautiful marriage. That being said, Uncle Wu regards a woman's appearance as very important, and he must find a young and beautiful woman, and he thinks that marrying such a woman will save face.
Uncle Wu reluctantly talked to Aunt Li, they have many common interests and hobbies, and they also have a lot of common pursuits. Aunt Li's favor doubled, she fell in love with Uncle Wu and wanted to further associate with Uncle Wu. Uncle Wu's attitude is diametrically opposite, he dislikes Aunt Li for having no interest in life, and also dislikes Aunt Li for not being able to take care of people, not being considerate, not speaking softly, and not feminine, Uncle Wu's attitude towards Aunt Li is very bad.
Uncle Wu is unwilling to pay for living expenses, nor is he willing to give Aunt Li pocket money, he said that he has the ability to support Aunt Li, but Aunt Li's image is not good enough and her appearance is not high enough, and she is far away from the wife in his mind.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens. Many people agree with Uncle Wu's point of view, believing that men should maintain a clear understanding of the issue of marriage, and marrying a young and beautiful wife not only makes a man's face shine, but also a symbol of a man's identity and status. If a man's conditions are good enough and his economic strength is strong enough, he is fully qualified to find a young, beautiful, gentle and considerate wife and live a happy and fulfilling life.
More people accuse Uncle Wu of being unrealistic, he is not young, there are women who are willing to marry him, support and take care of each other with him, and spend the rest of their lives together. Uncle Wu requires women to be beautiful and slender, and also requires women to be able to live, understand tastes, be diligent and thrifty and take care of their husbands, he is unwilling to give a bride price and is not willing to bear living expenses, in this case he makes a lot of requirements to women, how can he find a satisfactory marriage partner?
Some people also ridiculed: "Blind dates for the elderly are very practical, men pay attention to women's appearance, and women pay attention to men's money, which is not like blind dates, but more like talking about business!"
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