It's a good thing to have someone who loves you, but you can love yourself when no one loves you.
Being overly dependent on others is not a good thing. But who can do it so well, say not dependent?
In all things in the world, it is important to learn to refrain from it. After all, after a dimension, it becomes a bad thing.
A person is good to you, to you all the way, when you get used to it, you have to enjoy the other party's good to feel that life is interesting, then in case one day you don't enjoy it, you will collapse, but all things, not what you want to get.
Learn to be relieved, learn to let others leave you, learn that others no longer love you.
In love, you can enjoy it, but you always have an ego in your heart and an independent mind.
Enjoy it when it's time to enjoy it, and learn to exercise restraint and learn to endure loneliness when it's time to endure it.
People just need to be able to bend and stretch, be rational, and don't mix everything together.
When you have to do something, you have to switch to the corresponding role, after all, you need to do a lot of things to live, and many things need you to deal with, first be able to control the rhythm of life, let yourself live decently, and then talk about other things.
When you lose someone's care and love, feel uncomfortable, and feel like your life is a mess, it's time to start reflecting on yourself. It's not about reflecting on why he doesn't love you anymore, but also about whether you've lost yourself, don't know what your goals are, and don't know what the main line of life is.
It is not terrible to have problems, but it is very necessary to reflect on them in time and stop losses in time.
It's not good to rely on anyone, after all, independence is the background color of life, you can choose to rely on, you can also choose independence, you can live well in both options.
Your independent, clear, logical thinking is your capital to be loved, and nothing else.