I have to say that the views of post-00s men and women on premarital cohabitation are very different from those in the past. It is no longer the traditional concept of "getting married and having children", they pay more attention to personal feelings and free choice. In this era of rapid change, let's listen to how a post-95 young man named Xiaojun views premarital cohabitation.
Xiaojun, 28 years old, family background and personal work situation
Xiaojun comes from an ordinary rural family, and his parents are both farmers. He studied computer science in college and fell in love with programming during college. After graduating, Xiaojun chose to stay in the city and become a programmer. He works for a technology-based company, and although the work is intense, he loves the industry and pursues his dreams and career.
My name is Xiaojun, and I am a typical post-00s generation, even though I grew up in a relatively traditional rural area, my ideology is very different from the past. I have an open and tolerant attitude towards premarital cohabitation.
Back in college, my girlfriend Xiaofang and I started our love journey. At that time, we were all very young, full of hope and hope for the future. Although we have not yet considered getting married, we are willing to support each other and face the difficulties and challenges of life together. So, we decided to try cohabitation before marriage.
At first, I was a little hesitant and apprehensive about living together before marriage. After all, in an environment where I grew up, such behavior was not accepted by conventional wisdom. However, I believe that life needs to be explored and experienced by myself, whether it is failure or success, I am willing to try it in my own way.
We found an apartment that was not too small and started our life together. In the beginning, we had a lot of difficulties and frictions. For example, differences in living habits, communication problems, and so on. However, we did not back down, and after going through one run-in after another, we gradually learned how to understand and tolerate each other.
Through living with Xiaofang, I have come to understand how important it is to rely on each other and trust each other. We shared the pressures of life and faced difficulties and challenges together. Living together before marriage allowed me to understand Xiaofang better, her strengths and weaknesses, and gave me a clearer idea of our future.
Now, I've been working for a few years now, and Xiaofang has managed to find a job that she loves. We still live together and our careers are constantly evolving. Although we are not married, we have not wavered in our feelings for each other.
For premarital cohabitation, I would like to say that it is not only a way of life, but also a responsibility for love and the future. Through cohabitation, we can get to know each other more realistically, avoiding the embarrassment and contradiction of discovering problems only after marriage. It is only by living together that we can better understand and support each other and build a strong foundation for future marriages.
Of course, premarital cohabitation is not an option for everyone. Everyone has their own values and way of life, and we should respect each other's choices. Although social attitudes are changing, we still need to know how to respect tradition and respect the choices of others.
The views of post-00s men and women on premarital cohabitation are indeed different from those in the past. They are more focused on personal feelings and free choice, and are willing to get to know each other better by living together before marriage. As Xiaojun said, living together before marriage can help couples build a stronger foundation and better understand and support each other. However, everyone has their own choices and values, and we should respect each other's decisions, whether they choose to live together before marriage or to keep traditions.