My name is Li Ming, I am 36 years old, and I am an ordinary employee of a small company. My wife's name is Zhang Xue, who is five years younger than me and is a full-time wife. Our married life is uneventful, but overall it's fun. My father-in-law, Uncle Zhang, and my mother-in-law, Aunt Li, are both traditional elderly people, and they have too much interference and expectations for us.
Our family of four lives in an old two-bedroom apartment, with four walls and barely enough to eat. Zhang Xue has always hoped to move to a place with better conditions, but my salary is really limited, so I can only live there. My parents-in-law often criticize us for having a poor living environment, which affects their quality of life in their later years. The atmosphere at home is often a little oppressive because of these trivial matters.
One day, a former colleague of mine came to me and said that he had recently started a small business and was temporarily short of funds, and wanted to borrow 30,000 yuan from me for a turnaround. That's more than a year's worth of my salary! I beat a drum in my heart, but I finally agreed.
"Xue'er, I recently borrowed 30,000 yuan to a friend to do business, don't worry, he promised to pay it back to me in a few months. "
Zhang Xue frowned and asked, "Why do you believe him? What if he defaults on his debts? You have lent us all our living expenses for a year!"
I explained again and again: "Don't worry, he is my old colleague, he is very honest, he has helped me before, I believe in his personality." As I spoke, I couldn't hide the anxious look on my face.
"You, how can you lend money to outsiders indiscriminately, what if we lose all our money?" My father-in-law yelled at me.
My father-in-law glared at me fiercely, and the anger on his face did not subside: "You poor bastard, you will make trouble for me!"
"You're such a reckless person, you never think twice! If you lose your money, our family will be on the streets!" Zhang Xue angrily reprimanded me.
I lowered my head, thinking that there was some truth in what she said, and that I was really too brainless. But it's too late for me to regret it now.
Zhang Xue saw that I bowed my head and was silent, so she shook her head and walked away disappointed. I looked at her back, and my heart was mixed.
"Brother Li, have you had anything on your mind lately, and are you having any difficulties at work?" My colleague asked me with concern.
"It's not a big deal, it's just a little trouble at home. I forced a smile on my face, but my eyes were tired.
Actually, I'm still very enthusiastic about my work, but the recent troubles at home have really affected my mood. I try to focus on my work, and I want to use it to forget about the distractions at home for a while.
Zhang Xue sat alone in the living room, lost in thought. She couldn't help but recall her married life with Li Ming: at the beginning, it was a good family affair, and the two of them had a very strong relationship. But after getting married, Li Ming's financial situation has been poor, and his life is in dire straits, and they often quarrel over these trivial things. However, Li Ming is sincere and treats her very well, so she lives a hard life.
Thinking of this, Zhang Xue couldn't help but sigh again. She turned on her phone and sent a text message to her best friend: "Brother Ming is stupid again and has lent out all our money for a year, what should I do?"
"Look at it, your son-in-law is a poor bastard, and he causes you trouble all day long!" The mother-in-law counted her daughter.
The father-in-law also said politely: "That's right, you young people are too stubborn to listen to others." We are so old, how can we not do it for your good? You can let him borrow money indiscriminately, if you lose all our old capital, you don't regret it!"
Zhang Xue lowered her head and was silent. She understands her parents' good intentions, but sometimes feels that they are too arbitrary. However, she didn't know what to do at the moment.
"Brother Li, there is something wrong with my business, and the money is not back for the time being, you can give me a few more months. An old colleague called, his tone full of apologies.
My heart was half cold, 30,000 yuan is an astronomical amount of money for me! If we don't even get back the capital, our family will be destitute.
"When the hell are you going to pay it back? If you keep putting it off, we're going to be kicked out of the house!" There was despair in my voice.
"Brother, don't worry, I will definitely return the money to you as soon as possible!" The old colleague hung up the phone in a hurry.
I covered my face and fell into deep thought. If we really can't get back the 30,000 yuan, our family will have to live on the streets. I'm starting to regret my decision and I can't wait to smack myself in the mouth!
"Have you done something bad by borrowing money? Otherwise, how could you not even get the principal and interest back?" Zhang Xue asked me, her tone full of doubts.
"You've lied to us for so long, I'm about to be mad at you! Who the hell are you lending money to? Zhang Xue's tears burst out of her eyes, and her trust was completely broken.
I watched my wife cry and felt guilty. I understood that I had indeed done something wrong and that I had deceived her in trust. But I was also for the good of my family at the time, so I made the wrong decision.
"You bastard, I knew you couldn't do anything good!" My father-in-law scolded me fiercely.
"For the good of the family? He lost all the savings of our family, do you say he is for the good of the family? You young people are too naïve, you are deceived and still exonerating that kid!"
I kept my head down and let my father-in-law's scolding fall on me. Actually, he was right, I did make the wrong decision and caused problems for everyone.
Seeing her father-in-law's angry appearance, Zhang Xue silently shed tears. She remembered the bits and pieces of herself and Li Ming, from falling in love to getting married, he has always been an honest and kind person. But it was this mistake that wiped out all the good things.
"Who the hell are you lending money to? Why is there no news at all, and how are we going to live?" Zhang Xue asked me in a choked voice, her tone full of disappointment.
I was silent, my eyes darkened. I don't know how to explain it, and I don't know where to say it. Looking at my wife's red eyes from crying, my guilt and self-blame reached its peak.
In this way, our family fell into an unprecedented predicament. My father-in-law and mother-in-law hated me for falling on me without iron, and I could only bear it silently. Zhang Xue no longer understands me as much as before, and hangs her head all day long. We were strangers to each other, and there was an oppressive atmosphere in our home.
Just when I was in great pain, the old colleague finally called and said that his business was finally improving and that he was willing to return the money he had lent me. As soon as I was reborn, I bought a large bouquet of flowers and rushed home.
"Cher, I was wrong, really wrong! I was just confused and deceived at the beginning. But that person finally paid off the debt, and we can get out of the situation for the time being. I knelt in front of Zhang Xue and said sincerely.
Zhang Xue was moved by my actions, and her tears broke down again, only this time she cried with joy. She hugged me tightly, as if she wanted to rub me into her arms.
"Fool, when are you going to have some eyes?" Zhang Xue choked up and said, "But it's okay, I will always forgive you and support you." "
I was moved to tears and hugged my wife hard. I know that she truly forgave me, and she still loves me.
In this way, we hugged each other and cried, releasing the pressure in our hearts. When my father-in-law and mother-in-law saw this scene, they finally scolded, glad that our family was finally able to get together again.
Since then, my mindset has changed dramatically. I no longer dare to make hasty decisions and think twice about every step. I work hard to earn more money for my family and make a better life for everyone.
Once, I was drinking with my colleagues and the topic inadvertently brought up the matter again. I sincerely said to everyone, "I have had enough of that lesson, and I am no longer the rash person I used to be. I will use my efforts to make up for my past mistakes and let my family live a happy life. "
My colleagues were touched by my words and wished me a bright future and a happy family.
In this way, the life of the family returned to its former harmony. When my parents-in-law saw that I had sincerely changed my ways, they finally let down their guard and began to understand me. And Zhang Xue's love for me is also deepening, and our relationship is more harmonious than ever.
One day, my father-in-law suddenly took my hand and said, "Ming'er, although you have done something wrong, you are sincere and a good man." You young people should live a good life, and in the future you will be filial to us, and we will be satisfied. "
I nodded again and again, and my heart was extremely warm. As long as my family is happy, I feel that everything is worth it.
Looking back, I learned so many lessons. I learned the value of honesty, the importance of my family, and where my faults were.
I said to Zhang Xue: "In the past, I was too self-righteous and irrational. Although I suffered a big loss this time, I finally gained an eye and knew what is the most precious thing. "
Zhang Xue nodded, with a relieved look on her face. Looking at her happy appearance, the regret in my heart was finally swept away.
Although we are still living in poverty, we are happy as a family. Zhang Xue often told me that her greatest wish was that we could save money, move to a better environment, and live a carefree life.
I will try to fulfill her wishes and create happiness for her with my hands. We will strive for the future of our children so that they can grow up without worries.
With this lesson, I cherish everything in front of me even more. As long as we are together, no matter how bumpy the road in the future is, we will be able to grow old with our children and have a quiet time.
After that setback, the trajectory of my life changed dramatically. I started to take my work very seriously and put most of my time and energy into it. The leadership also saw the change in me and decided to give me an opportunity to take charge of a small project.
"Brother Li, this opportunity is precious, you must seize it. "My colleagues are cheering me on.
I nodded solemnly, my eyes were determined: "I will definitely do my best to live up to everyone's expectations." With that, I stepped into my new office.
That night, I excitedly told Zhang Xue the good news. Unexpectedly, her reaction was beyond my expectations, she hugged me tightly, and said in an excited tone: "Great, Brother Ming, this is a great opportunity! You must seize it, and you will have hope to reach the peak of life in the future." "
Seeing my wife support me so much strengthened my heart. With Zhang Xue, a strong woman, fighting side by side with me, I have nothing to fear.
"Don't worry, Cher, I will definitely do my best to make your dream come true one day. I said affectionately.
"Ming'er, you have to make the most of this opportunity. If you can make a profit, we old people will be relieved. My father-in-law patted me on the shoulder and said.
My mother-in-law also told me again and again: "Yes, yes, you have to work hard, and you will be filial to us in the future." As long as your family is happy and healthy, we will be content. "
I nodded respectfully, impressed in my heart. With the love and expectation of my family, I will endure hardships and stand hard work in the future and never disappoint their expectations.
In this way, I threw myself into my new job. Day in and day out, I stayed up all nights and racked my brains just to make this project the best it could be.
"Brother Li, why have you been working so hard lately? "My colleague advised me.
I shook my head and smiled slightly: "It's okay, for the sake of my family and for the future, I should do my best." "
Zhang Xue was also very distressed when she saw me working day and night. But whenever she advised me to rest more, I would firmly say, "Cher, don't worry, I am fighting for our bright future." As long as we work together, we will be able to break new ground. "
That's it, a month, two months, three months...... Time flies. I finally got through the hardest days and the project was successfully completed.
"Brother Li, you have done a great job! The success of this project is inseparable from your credit. "The leader personally presented me with an honorary trophy.
I burst into tears of emotion, and my heart was filled with joy and pride. This honor is not only a personal affirmation for me, but also the greatest reward for my family's hard work.
That night, I held the trophy high and said to Zhang Xue: "Xue'er, this is the fruit of our common struggle! From now on, we will live a good life." "
Zhang Xue burst into tears with excitement, hugged me tightly, and murmured, "Great, Brother Ming, I'm proud of you! You are the best man in my heart." "
Since then, my career has been on the right track. Salaries have also been rising, and the quality of life has improved dramatically. We moved into a brand-new big house, and Zhang Xue finally got her wish and lived a comfortable life.
"Cher, you see, we finally have our own house. From now on, we will live a carefree life. I put my arm around my wife's shoulders and said.
Zhang Xue nodded, her face full of happiness: "Yes, we finally got out." Thanks to your unremitting efforts, we can have a better life today. "
When my parents-in-law saw that our life was becoming more and more prosperous, they finally put their hearts at ease and often said to us: "You young people should live a good life, and you will be filial to us in the future." "
With a stable economic foundation, Zhang Xue and I have a more harmonious relationship. We often go on outings on weekends to get some fresh air and enjoy the beauty of nature. Sometimes I also play chess and cards with my parents-in-law, and I have a lot of fun.
"Xue'er, look at that white cloud, doesn't it look like a cute little white rabbit?" I pointed to the sky and said in a childish tone.
Zhang Xue smiled and nodded: "Yes, it seems to be telling a bright future." "
We looked at each other and smiled, our fingers interlocked, and our faces were full of happiness. With this stable life, I'm so glad I didn't give up in the first place.
Looking back, I have learned so many lessons. I understood the value of honesty and trustworthiness, the importance of family, and the value of struggle.
Now, I have a happy family and my career is finally improving. I will spend the rest of my life hand in hand with Zhang Xue to realize the ideals of our youth; will also be filial to their in-laws, so that they can support their old age.