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Text: Sang Xiaozhi
Edited by Sang Xiaozhi
Preamble:
Once upon a time, who would have thought that when she was past the age of knowing her destiny, she would still have to show off her brilliant life on the stage.
Who would have thought that this high-profile figure would be so questioned and criticized for love and fertility?
How could an otherwise ordinary life go to such a tortuous and bizarre trajectory?
Her experience shocked the world, and also unveiled various discussions on the concept of marriage and childbirth in modern society.
Let's step into her world together, solve the mysteries of this fascinating soul, and examine a woman's dedication to love and family.
Zhong Liti: The difficult road of three marriages and three children
Zhong Liti has been an eye-catching beauty embryo since she was a child.
At the age of 17, she married a Belgian businessman, her first marriage.
The two had a lovely daughter after marriage, and the family was happy and happy, but because of the difference in life concepts and various other reasons, they finally chose to divorce.
This made Zhong Liti taste the impermanence and fragility of marriage, but she was not hit enough, and still yearned for and expected true love.
After the divorce, Zhong Liti did not give up her efforts to find true love.
A few years later, she met the music genius Yan Ming, and the two met late and fell in love at first sight, and soon stepped onto the red carpet.
For a time, the focus of the whole city was on this pair of enviable golden boys and girls, who were hailed as a "match made in heaven".
However, the good times did not last long, and the couple, who were favored by the outside world, finally broke up due to various contradictions, leaving two lovely daughters to become the only inheritance of this short marriage.
Zhong Liti once again tasted the impermanence and pain of marriage, but she still did not give up her dream of finding true love.
Zhang Lunshuo: A road to chase a husband thousands of miles away
After being divorced twice, once upon a time, even Zhong Liti herself had lost confidence in marriage.
Just when she was nearly halfway through her ambition and gradually dispelled the idea of marriage, a young "phoenix man" Zhang Lunshuo quietly walked into her life and rekindled her yearning for love.
Zhang Lunshuo was just an ordinary friend of Zhong Liti at first, and was even affectionately called "younger brother" by her.
Zhang Lunshuo, who is 12 years younger, is naturally difficult to enter Zhong Liti's eyes.
But the gears of fate began to turn slowly at this time, and a scene of twists and turns began on the road of chasing the husband.
Zhang Lunshuo's love for Zhong Liti gradually warmed up, and he cautiously approached this long-cherished goddess, always ready to show his sincerity and single-mindedness.
In order to get closer to her favorite Zhong Liti, Zhang Lunshuo took the initiative to invite her to participate in the reality show "If Love".
In the show, Zhang Lunshuo confessed to Zhong Liti and revealed his most sincere love: "I really like you, you will be the last person I like in this life..."
In this way, a crazy and sweet love story slowly heats up under the light of the spotlight.
Zhang Lunshuo's persistence finally touched Zhong Liti's long-guarded heart and made her believe in the power of love again.
Extravagant weddings and sweet honeymoons
After several years of perseverance and close togetherness, Zhong Liti was finally moved by Zhang Lunshuo's sincere love.
In this way, a strange couple with an "age difference of 12 years" was born.
In 2016, Zhong Liti married Zhang Lunshuo, who was only 34 years old at the time, with a net worth of hundreds of millions, and the newcomers who crossed ages naturally became the focus of attention for a while.
The entire entertainment industry is hotly discussing this deviant and strange couple, but they do not judge in the unexpected world, only focus on each other.
Soon after their marriage, Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo started their journey around the world, sunny beaches, starry deserts, alpine snowfields...... Even the most romantic honeymoon is a bit overshadowed.
It can be said that the newlyweds are living the happiest days in the world of two people.
They can't wait to see the beautiful scenery of the world and witness their hard-won marriage.
However, just when Zhong Liti thought that she had finally found her home in this life, a thorny problem ruthlessly pushed the two into the abyss of contradiction.
Disagreements due to fertility issues
However, in this sweet marriage, which is envied by countless people, the undercurrent is growing secretly.
The issue of fertility became the biggest point of disagreement between the loving couple.
Zhong Liti has been a mother for many years, and although she has experience in childbirth, she has also suffered a lot.
And Zhang Lunshuo, as a young man who has been single for too long, is the first time he has tasted this stage of life, and he is naturally full of desire for it.
Zhong Liti was over 45 years old when she got married, and her hope of conceiving naturally was too slim.
Despite several attempts, the two have never found out.
This made Zhong Liti feel extremely frustrated, she wanted to give up several times, but she couldn't bear to see her husband's disappointment.
In contrast, Zhang Lunshuo has a lot of opinions on fertility issues.
As a young man who has been single for too long, he naturally longs to have a biological child with his beloved wife.
This is the last dream in his heart, and Zhong Liti may be his last chance.
As time goes by, Zhang Lunshuo has become more and more eager for this wish, and he has invited his daughter-in-law to participate in reality shows more than once, hoping that Zhong Liti can accept his desire to have children under the witness of the national audience.
kneeling down to confess caused an uproar in public opinion
We all know that marriage is a matter between two people, and the internal affairs of any family should not be judged by too many outsiders.
However, due to the intensifying differences between the two on the issue of childbirth, some private details were inevitably exposed, which eventually caused an uproar in public opinion.
The doubts of public opinion hit like a storm, and the happiness that Zhong Liti had been accumulating before was instantly washed away.
53-year-old Zhong Liti, in order to meet Zhang Lunshuo's fertility wishes, actually knelt down in front of the national audience and confessed: "You are always the only one you love." "
A superstar who can be called an Asian goddess and has been well-known on the screen for many years wants to make such a "shameless" move in order to have a child, which makes countless netizens feel extremely shocked and distressed.
Some people think that this is a wife's tolerance and love for her husband, but many more are worried that it is just a compromise that Zhong Liti was forced to make.
Some netizens pointed out that Zhang Lunshuo's parents' "fertility wishes" for their daughter-in-law were too strong, and they even hoped that Zhong Liti would give birth to a boy.
But at Zhong Liti's age, it is really impossible to get pregnant naturally, not to mention that she still hopes to give birth to a boy!
This unreasonable demand is tantamount to an injury and a challenge to the personality and dignity of this strong woman.
What is the reason why Zhong Liti made such a self-sacrificing decision, which makes people wonder if she really gets the respect she deserves.
A dilemma in life
The 53-year-old Zhong Liti is now at an unprecedented crossroads in her life.
On the one hand, she carries criticism and doubts from the outside world; On the other hand, there are countless contradictions and struggles hidden in her heart.
She has three children on her back and three failed marriages, all of which remind her to cherish the precious fate she has now.
As a mature woman who has been married twice, Zhong Liti naturally knows the fragility of marriage and knows how to use wisdom to manage a relationship.
But the tangled topic of childbirth is also a huge life choice for her.
In her heart, there will be a contradiction between heaven and man: making a big fuss is a little reasonable, but if she can give birth to her beloved flesh and blood, wouldn't it be worth the effort?
But as we get older, this possibility becomes less and less likely.
This is undoubtedly a double-edged sword, poking at the most delicate part of Zhong Liti's heart.
On the one hand, she longs for her husband's understanding, and on the other hand, she also wants to be understood by her family, but these two dilemmas in life are tearing her heart apart.
Life has its own path of choice
Sometimes, we are often so swayed by the merits of the outside world that we forget why we chose this path in the first place.
Zhong's experience may be a good footnote to remind us that when we are faced with a major life choice, we must first ask ourselves about the voice in our hearts.
Don't be blinded by short-sightedness, everyone should take responsibility for their own life.
Although marriage is not achieved overnight, as long as you have good intentions and treat it with wisdom, it will eventually become a piece of sweet honey.
It is a gift of life, and it is also a responsibility and responsibility.
No one is free to dictate the lives of others, and everyone should treat all this with a normal heart.
All decisions need to be made with sincerity and prudence.
Let's work with Zhong Liti to pursue the final answer step by step on this tortuous road of life.
I believe that her courage and tenacity will surely illuminate the road ahead.
Epilogue:
Life is often unsatisfactory, only by maintaining a normal heart can we calmly deal with various encounters.
Zhong Liti's marriage history may have had ups and downs, but her love for life and yearning for happiness have never wavered.
This may be the reason why she has been able to regain her courage again and again.
I hope that everyone who chases their dreams can understand the preciousness of life and have the courage to be responsible for themselves.
When we encounter the trials of life, don't be confused by the thorns in front of us, and look at all these things with a broader vision, which is the only way to happiness.