Recently, an ordinary housewife Li Juan encountered such an incident, her excellent eldest nephew Li Peng suddenly announced her marriage, but the story behind it is far from as simple as it seems.
Li Juan is a typical housewife, and her life in a small town is plain and comfortable. The eldest nephew Li Peng has always been her pride, smart, handsome, and has had a smooth journey, from a famous university to a well-known enterprise, every step has been so steady. But that day, a phone call shattered the silence.
"Juan'er, your eldest nephew is married, do you know?" the mother's voice was full of anxiety. Li Juan's heart sank suddenly, how could it be that she got married? Why didn't she hear any news? Could it be that she missed some important family gathering?
In her mother's narration, Li Juan gradually pieced together the whole picture of the matter. It turned out that Li Peng's wedding was quite hasty, and he did not even pay attention to the most basic etiquette of notifying relatives and friends. What shocked her even more was that the standard of wedding gifts was ridiculously high, and the gift money of 50,000 yuan was acceptable.
Li Juan's heart was mixed, disappointed, angry, and puzzled together. She remembered that when her daughter got married, she only gave her younger brother a gift of 5,000, but now her eldest nephew's request was so excessive. She didn't understand, what the hell was going on?
Li Juan decided to discuss countermeasures with her younger brother. She knew that her brother had always doted on her eldest nephew, but this time, she felt that she had to let her brother understand the stakes. She took a deep breath and set out on her way to her brother's house.
Along the way, Li Juan's heart was uneasy. She didn't know what her brother would think, or if he would feel as disappointed and angry as she was. But in any case, she felt the need to make it clear, after all, family harmony is the most important thing.
When she arrived at her brother's house, Li Juan told her brother everything that had happened. After hearing this, the younger brother frowned, obviously feeling the seriousness of the matter. He was silent for a while before he spoke: "Sister Juan, I know that my eldest nephew has always been a little conceited, but I didn't expect him to make such a high request for courtesy. I'll talk to him. ”
Hearing her brother's words, Li Juan breathed a sigh of relief in her heart. She knew that her younger brother was a sensible person and would not condone her eldest nephew's excesses. But she also knows that this matter is not so easy to solve. After all, she also knows something about the eldest nephew's character, and once he decides something, it is difficult to change it easily.
A few days later, Li Juan received a call from her brother. On the other end of the phone, the younger brother's voice was a little heavy: "Sister Juan, I talked to my eldest nephew, but he was very resolute and insisted on asking for a gift of 50,000 yuan." Li Juan's heart sank, she knew that this matter might not be so easy to be good.
Li Juan and her younger brother decided to talk to their eldest nephew again, hoping to find a solution. They came to the eldest nephew's house, and in the face of the eldest nephew's stubbornness, Li Juan's heart was full of helplessness and disappointment. She knew that the family might be rifted because of this, but she also knew that no matter what, she would do her best to maintain the unity and harmony of the family.
This is what Li Juan has been experiencing recently, a wedding that should have been full of joy, but because of the excessively high standard of etiquette, it caused family conflicts. I don't know if readers and friends have encountered similar things?
Li Juan and her younger brother stood at the door of their eldest nephew's house, with mixed feelings in their hearts. They understand that this conversation may not change much, but even so, they will try their best. After all, family harmony is more important than anything else.
Knocking on the door, the eldest nephew and his wife appeared in front of them. The eldest nephew's expression was a little cold, obviously not satisfied with the previous conversation. Li Juan took a deep breath and tried her best to keep her tone calm and firm: "Peng Peng, we know that you have always been excellent, and we are also proud of you. But this time, we really feel that the gift request is a bit excessive. Family harmony should not be measured by money, don't you think?"
The eldest nephew was silent for a while, as if thinking about Li Juan's words. His wife was also on the sidelines, looking at them with a complicated expression. After a while, the eldest nephew spoke: "Aunt Juan, I know what you mean. But I also have my considerations, I hope that my wedding can be grand, which is also an explanation for myself. ”
Hearing this, Li Juan felt a burst of emotion in her heart. She understands her eldest nephew's thoughts and his insistence. But she knows better that family harmony requires everyone's joint efforts. So, she continued: "Peng Peng, we understand your thoughts. But have you ever thought about how much pressure the exorbitant requirements can put on your family? We hope you can understand our difficulties and think about it for this family. ”
This time, the attitude of the eldest nephew seems to have softened. He lowered his head and was silent for a while, then raised his head and looked at Li Juan with a firm gaze: "Aunt Juan, I understand." I will reconsider the matter of etiquette and communicate with my family. Thank you for your understanding. ”
Hearing the words of the eldest nephew, Li Juan and her younger brother were relieved. They know that the conversation, while difficult, has at least made some progress. Family harmony requires everyone's efforts and dedication, and this time, they have taken an important step.
Life is always full of unknowns and uncertainties, but as long as we have love in our hearts and cherish our family, we will be able to overcome all difficulties. Li Juan believes that after this incident, the family will be more united and cherish each other more. And all this is because they all have a common goal - family harmony and happiness.
Family is our eternal harbor. No matter how the outside world changes, home is always our warmest support. Let's cherish our family, cherish each other, and create more beautiful memories together!
After reading this article, do you also feel deeply that family harmony requires the joint efforts of everyone, and understanding and communication are the keys to maintaining family harmony. If you have similar stories or ideas, you may wish to leave a message in the comment area to share, let us work together for the happiness of the family!
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