My marriage was betrayed, and I chose to be brave enough to let it go
Recently, I experienced a great change in my life. What was supposed to be a stable marriage became shattered in an instant. And all of this stems from the scene I ran into by chance in the hospital.
My name is Mao Xiting, I am Chinese New Year's Eve years old, and I am a clerk in the court. Married to Zhou Wei for two years, we have planned a bright future together. However, reality hit me hard.
That day, I just wanted to visit a friend in the hospital, but I unexpectedly bumped into an intimate scene between Zhou Wei and another woman in the corridor. That woman was none other than his first girlfriend Zhao Yinjing. Seeing her lying on the hospital bed, Zhou Wei guarding her, my heart swelled with a strong sourness.
I knew I wasn't supposed to peep into other people's privacy, but at that moment, I couldn't control my curiosity. I originally thought that Zhou Wei was a responsible and responsible man, but I didn't expect him to do such a betrayal of his marriage.
In the face of Zhou Wei's explanation and Zhao Yinjing's tears, I chose to be calm and rational. I know that crying and pestering won't solve anything, it will only make me more embarrassed.
So, I filed for divorce. It was not a spur of the moment, but a deliberate decision. I didn't want to continue to immerse myself in this broken marriage, and I didn't want to hurt myself even more.
When I shared the news with my friends, their reactions were mixed. Some expressed understanding and support, believing that I should be brave enough to pursue my own happiness, while others advised me to give Zhou Wei another chance, believing that there would inevitably be bumps in the marriage.
However, I knew that my heart had already made a decision. I don't want to struggle and suffer anymore about this marriage that has lost trust. I believe that there are better people waiting for me in the future, which is worth cherishing and having.
The divorce process was not easy, but I chose to face it calmly. I know it's a painful process, but it's also a process of growth. I will learn from this experience and make myself stronger and more mature.
Now, I've started my life all over again. Although there is still pain in my heart, I have learned how to face and heal. I believe that in the days to come, I will meet a better version of myself and better people.
For Zhou Wei and Zhao Yinjing, I no longer have any resentment and concern. I just hope that they will be able to face their choices and stop hurting each other and the people around them. After all, life is too short, and we should all cherish the happiness and beauty in front of us.
In conclusion, I would like to say that marriage is a matter for two people, and it needs to be managed and maintained by both parties. When one of the parties betrays and hurts, the other party should stop the loss in time and be brave enough to let go. Only in this way can we get ourselves out of the predicament and meet a better future.
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