Regarding this point, as early as more than 2,000 years ago, Master Meng saw it thoroughly. Roughly speaking, people are visual creatures and like to look good.
For example, if the host has placed a vase on a round table facing the door, it is necessary to look good so that the guests will be attracted at a glance. But it can't just be good-looking, otherwise if the guest asks the host, "This vase is beautiful, but it's not an antique, so what is it used for?" The host replied, "Ah, don't you think it's beautiful?" The guest replied: "It's beautiful." But what's the use? Does the host have to reply: Isn't it enough to have a beautiful vase, but what use does it need? Isn't that putting the cart before the horse to make people laugh out of their big teeth? The role of the vase is to hold flowers, and the shape and pattern are to meet the different preferences of the owner, but its essence is to arrange flowers.
Just like we usually buy water bottles, we have to carefully choose our favorite ones every time, but in fact, it is not all for drinking water. But we're still happy to pick and choose. After all, everywhere you look, everything you like is what you like, and you feel comfortable thinking about it.
That's why I say that a woman's appearance matters. Whether it's an interview, a job, a blind date, or a party, in the same competition, good looks are a powerful killer move, killing shameless women like us and have no power to fight back.
However, it is not enough to be beautiful, the so-called red face is easy to age, and only the inner beauty can last for a long time in the precipitation of the years. A woman with an empty appearance, just like a gorgeously decorated rough house, is admired one second, and the next second is dumbfounded, which is a big disappointment.
Compared with external beauty, inner beauty is the real attraction, but we also have to admit that a person who does not pay attention to external beauty, then she may not even give people the opportunity to observe inner beauty, and the first hurdle is to "go home".
If you can't make a vase, it's not advisable to give up on yourself. The opposite of beauty is never ugly, it's lazy. Take a little more time each day to dress yourself up a little and you're a picture that pleases the eye.
