The mainland's fertility rate has fallen sharply in recent years, because those who feel that they are not yet up to the role of parents, and that social pressure is increasing, and having children is a burden when they do not have enough financial means.
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Recently, a netizen uploaded three children were locked in their homes alone, what happened? It turned out that this netizen was originally a food delivery person, but when delivering food, he found that three children were locked in their homes, the eldest was only four years old, and the youngest was only eight months old. Netizens asked where the child's mother went, and the child said that the mother went to work, only ate one meal a day, and waited for the mother to come back before she had anything to eat.
It's hard to imagine how these three kids managed to stick around with just one meal a day. When the netizens first delivered the fast food, the three children were so hungry that they cried, the house was dirty and messy, and the children were urinating and defecating on the road. And the three children are still young, and they all emit a sour smell on their bodies.
Netizens couldn't bear to leave them alone after delivering the meal, so they returned home and got some clothes, and when they were thinking about helping them take a bath and change out of Zhang's clothes, they found that there was no water in the house, so they asked a neighbor to borrow water, and when they helped the child take a bath, they found that the earliest child had not changed his diapers for a long time, and his ass was rotten.
The neighbor revealed that the mother of the three children went to work early and returned late and could not take care of the three children. The neighbors were happy to help, but the child's mother was a little withdrawn and refused the neighbors' help. The mother often locks her three children alone at work because she doesn't want to accept help from her neighbors.
Therefore, the neighbors only dared to send sweet potatoes and steamed buns to the children after the mother went to work. When the owner of the restaurant found out about this, he also bought a lot of snacks for the three children. The children's situation at that time was very pitiful, presumably their mother was not at home at work every day, and the children also lacked maternal love, right?
Leaving the three children who are not yet mentally mature and don't know how to take care of themselves at home alone, presumably this mother chose to do so out of desperation. The older child was still able to be eaten by the neighbors, but the eight-month-old child could not eat it and had to drink milk. Some netizens said, why can't they take care of their children and still give birth?
Another netizen replied that it may be because he was young and ignorant, he had a child with someone else when he was a teenager, and her husband did not treat him as well as before, so he abandoned his wife and children. Everyone felt that it made sense, and they all felt that the father of the child was irresponsible and put the burden of the three children on the woman.
The child's mother is also forced by the pressure of real life, does not have enough economy and ability to support so many children, in order to have a bite to eat for the child and herself, she can only go to work non-stop, and she can't take care of the child. Some netizens said that they were afraid that after knowing about this incident, the children would go hungry every day, and they would cry when they thought about it.
However, according to the latest news, the local women's federation has intervened in the matter and is helping the child's mother to solve the current difficulties. The Women's Federation helped the mother find a job where she did not have to leave early and return late, so that the child's mother could have more time to take care of the child, and also provided the whole family with subsistence allowance and human and material assistance.
I hope that with the help of the Women's Federation, the life of this mother and her three children can gradually improve, and I also hope that the father of the child can appear and take the initiative to take on the responsibilities and obligations that should be fulfilled, so that this mother can reduce some pressure and you will not become so withdrawn.
When everyone is in great difficulty, you can ask for help from the society, ask for help from everyone, and I believe that more people will help this mother and three children. It is hoped that the state can also vigorously introduce policies to help the poor solve the problem of food and clothing. As long as one side is in trouble and all sides support, the society can be beautiful and harmoniously developed.