When we grew up, childhood memories were like a mirror, reflecting the complex and delicate feelings between us and our parents
But let's be honest, these memories are sometimes not so accurate, they are often colored by our emotions, and sometimes there are even some prejudices and misunderstandings
Have we ever wondered if our parents are really that bad, and have we done some particularly dangerous things and forgotten about them?
Recently, many netizens on the Internet have been sharing their memories of the "traumatic experiences" of their childhood
Hahaha selective amnesia [covering his face] That span covered everything
Prescient, it is recommended to promote it nationwide
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You're going to hit [tears run]
Your two kicks give off the feeling of a howitzer
None of the beatings were in vain, when I was a child, I used tweezers to stick them into the socket, and my father almost beat me to death [sweat]
Your dad has such a good temper, and normal parents have already beaten you up when you don't eat buns
You're the most outrageous, and it's smelly [covering your face]
When I was a child, my family ordered milk for me, and after a while, there was no more, and then I suddenly remembered to ask my mother why she didn't order milk for me, and maybe I would grow taller after drinking it for a while, but my mother said that when you were a child, you vomited and diarrhea when you drank milk, and you didn't dare to give me a drink, and I didn't have any impression [laughing and crying]
When I was a child, my neighbor's little boy burned rats to play, and the rats ran crazy and set him on fire, and everyone didn't know that he did it, just me and him knew [tears]
Hahahahaha
Laughing makes my stomach hurt [laughing and crying]
Sister, really, this beating is going to be beaten [look]
Hahahaha, how dangerous it is, I didn't dare to do it after I fought
My niece's kindergarten class, my sister's hairpin, came back and there was no one, I asked to give it to other children, and I don't remember any of the children [covering his face]
Hahaha, grandma really feels sorry for you
If it's really burned, you won't be able to share it here
You're really a tough seed [crying silently]
This is so ruthless thanks to Auntie's sharp eyes Did the rolling pin interrupt
My sister still remembers my mother chasing and beating her all over the yard with a broom, but she doesn't remember that she didn't take a nap, went to the neighbor's house next door, and trampled all the honeycomb coals in the yard that they had worked so hard to beat
First of all, I have to say that the way parents discipline us does have a great impact on our growth
The kind of corporal punishment and loud reprimand at every turn will definitely leave a wound in the child's heart, and that's right
But ah, you can't kill all parents with one shot, saying that they are all "beating" their children
To be honest, many times, parents discipline us harshly, but it is actually because they are really worried about us
Maybe we have done something dangerous, or we have gone astray, and they see it in their eyes and are anxious in their hearts, and they want to use that harsh way to pull us back on track
But in this way, we often regard it as violence and abuse, and we have a grudge against our parents in our hearts
Besides, our memories aren't all that reliable
Over time, those unpleasant memories tend to become blurry and may even be magnified
And those important details may be forgotten by us
That's why many people recall their childhood, only remember their parents beating and scolding them, but forget what bad things they did in the first place
This selectivity of memory really skews our evaluation of our parents
In this time of controversy and misunderstanding, it is really necessary to re-examine parental love
Try to recall and understand those childhood events in a more objective and rational manner
In this way, we can understand not only our parents better, but also ourselves
Do you have any similar experiences or experiences? Welcome to leave a message to share