Some people have never found their true love, not because fate has not yet come, but even if fate has come, they may not be able to seize the opportunity. These people often fail to understand themselves accurately and are overly dependent on others, but never think about how to demand of themselves. As a result, they can only be like a waste, but they get very little.
Wang Yi is 42 years old and has not yet met a suitable partner for marriage, which makes her feel a little stressed.
Since high school, Wang Yi has often pursued the opposite sex because of her outstanding appearance. After graduating from college, she broke up with her four boyfriends in just three years.
Wang Yi's best friend once thought that she would be the first person to get married, but unexpectedly, most of her classmates around her have started families, and she is the only one who is not married.
Wang Yi has always had a stable job, but her salary is not very high. Unlike women who pursue careers and achievements, she prefers to enjoy a relaxed and comfortable life. Compared with love, money is more important to Wang Yi. She needs a stable income to meet her living needs.
Wang Yi has such a view of marriage, partly because of her physical attractiveness. She used to be pursued by too many suitors, which made her very picky. The average boy was no longer able to meet her requirements.
I have to say that despite being forty years old, Wang Yi's appearance still looks very young. She is more than happy to spend a lot of money on her beauty, and most of her income is used to maintain her appearance. With such a young and moving appearance, people really can't help but suspect that she is only in her twenties.
In the dating market, we need to face reality. No matter how beautiful you look, if you have nothing else, the other party will think twice about choosing you. After all, finding a truly suitable partner requires a good match. If one side is too strong and the other is too weak, then problems are bound to erupt in the future. When choosing a partner, we should not only look at appearance, but also consider how well it matches in terms of personality, hobbies, values, etc. In this way, you can truly find a suitable partner for yourself and enjoy a happy life.
Although the truth seemed clear, she still couldn't fully understand it. grinding all the way, eventually causing her to lose her advantage and dominance.
One: Asking the man to add his name to the real estate certificate, but it turned out to be sarcastic
Through the introduction of relatives, Wang Yi met an older leftover man who was two years younger than him. The man didn't get married because he had been in a relationship that lasted for ten years. However, in the end, his lover chose the rich man and abandoned him mercilessly.
Since that injury, he has developed an instinctive distrust of women. Although he didn't dare to enter the marriage easily, due to family pressure, he finally chose the blind date.
Judging by the conditions, he is quite good. He owns a car and a house, and also has a high savings, although his appearance is average, but he is very down-to-earth and motivated, and he is a suitable person to live. Wang Yi also had a crush on him at first, but when it came to the issue of the house, she held her own opinion.
She felt that this house was bought by him before marriage, and if there was a problem in the marriage in the future, she would not get anything, and she would have no sense of security, so she asked the other party to add her name to the real estate certificate, and said in the circle of friends:
"If you want to marry me, you have to be willing to pay, there is no free lunch in the world. ”
Hearing that she was so arrogant, the other party repented, said that he would not marry anything, and replied in Wang Yi's circle of friends:
"You're not lunch, you're counting leftovers at most. ”
After finishing speaking, he immediately deleted Wang Yi's WeChat. He knew she would definitely refute, but he didn't want to dwell on it any longer. At this time, he suddenly remembered why Wang Yi had never been married.
Two: A truly beautiful love must be evenly matched and go both ways
Marriage is not a safe haven for one person, and happiness requires both parties to work together.
A good love and marriage requires both parties to work together to maintain. If you want to wait for someone to give you love and a perfect material life, then you can only watch the passage of time, and even the man you once hated will turn to dislike you. We should be actively involved in the relationship, supportive, understanding, and tolerant of each other, and experience the joys and challenges of life together. Only in this way can we attain true happiness and fulfillment, enjoying the wonderfulness and spiritual pleasure that love and marriage bring.
If you want to marry a good, meaningful man, rather than compromise on an unhappy marriage, then take action and work hard for that happiness. It is a precious gift that only you can get. So, be brave and go after what you want and don't hold back.
In this world, there is no opportunity to enjoy feelings, and only through 100% effort can you get the results you want. Only by becoming an excellent self can you attract the man you expect. We must keep working hard, become better, and constantly improve our abilities and qualities in order to win true love.
Zhang Ailing once said: "I have been looking for a feeling, the feeling of holding a pair of warm hands and walking forward steadily on a cold day." ”
Affectionate people are not only based on material things, but may be when you are stepping on the ice in the harsh winter, someone will give you warmth and share the details of daily life with each other, which is quite tempting.
Although finding a partner on a blind date may not sound romantic, if you have the right attitude towards marriage, you can likewise meet the real person you like at some point.
If you can treat people with sincerity, you will definitely be able to meet a happy love.