Preamble:
Today, let's talk about it -- why were we so poor in the past, and we still don't forget the past? Our older friends have all gone through that period of time, and although life was tight at that time, there were some things that made our hearts warm and we couldn't forget it. I deliberately went to the Internet to take a look, listen to what everyone has to say, and let's discuss it together.
I remember back then, how sincere and heartwarming the family affection in my heart was. Although poor, their families love each other and snuggle up tightly.
Some people say that the family affection at that time was like a fire in winter, lighting up the whole home. Although there is material abundance now, that sincere family affection seems to be impossible to find.
Memories of the old policeman: In the era when there were no mobile phones, life had a different flavor
The article is well written, but maybe it's not like that at all. The food, the letter, is a bit romantic. But what's going on, the beacon fire has been burning for three months, and the family letter is worth 10,000 gold.
Why can the family letter be worth 10,000 dollars, because the beacon fire has been in for three months. A person who has not heard from his relatives for a long time does not know whether he is alive or dead, and of course that letter is very meaningful.
But will anyone endure the torment that lies ahead for the sake of that faith being meaningful?
That's right, it's like when you're poor and you can't get enough to eat, and when you're so hungry that your chest is pressed against your back, and you suddenly give you a steamed bun, you will think it's the best delicacy in the world! Is the steamed bun the most delicious delicacy? Obviously not, it's because when you are lacking, your demands and desires are lowered.
The degree of material abundance is unimaginable in the past, as long as people who have really experienced those years are impossible to miss those days, they will miss something or someone at that time, but they will not miss the life at that time!
Listen to the letter from home in the semiconductor: a distant longing and concern, an affectionate confession on the radio: the interweaving of love and parting
When I was a child, I watched cartoons on TV, and I couldn't wait 20 minutes in advance, and adults were not allowed to change the channel, and even the advertisements before the animation could be memorized. Now you have to fast forward to watch the movie at double speed. There are only a dozen good movies a year.
Me too, I can't calm down and read a book, or chase a drama. It feels more and more cyberpunk, technology is growing, lifestyle is getting faster and faster, but the spiritual life is declining, there is less and less romance to remember, there is more and more cheap entertainment, and most people are like this [smile]
Generally speaking, only the old man is nostalgic, and nostalgia means that he has not been able to keep up with the times and cannot find his excitement in the new environment, so he will filter the things in his memory, pick out the good things to give himself psychological comfort, and by the way, diss the newcomer who walks in front
In the past, people would take ten or twenty dozens of photos of themselves in their lives, when they were young, when they were young, when they were young, when they were young, when they were classmates, when they were classmates, when they were married, when they were young, Put it in a photo frame, family to see, relatives and friends to see, you can still see it when you are old, just these photos;
Now take photos with your mobile phone anytime and anywhere, as well as videos, countless photos, wonderful moments, colorful, but there are not a few photos washed out, they are only in the space of the device, delete them in a few years, and delete them in a few years
It's like a bear breaking corn until the end...... Nothing was left.
Newspaper clippings: a unique way of communication in a long-distance relationship, newspaper hunting and literary collision: fun and growth in newspaper clippings
At that time, there was a lack of material, but there were few ideas, and the pressure of competition was also very small, and most people lived a step-by-step life, which was also a kind of stability.
Now that there is material abundance, there are many more thoughts, and the pressure of competition is also great, and it is inevitable to think twice, and the psychological burden of restlessness partially offsets the pleasure brought by material abundance.
Therefore, compared to the present and the past, it is not easy to feel one-sided happiness. For example, a calm lake or a rushing stream, which is more beautiful?
[Covering your face] You must have never tried to feel bored in your free time.
I used to be really poor, I didn't even have the money to rent a novel, what was it like when I started reading a torn blue blood sword for the seventh time?—— have you ever had that experience of forcing yourself to relish?
I can't stand it until I go back.
Precious memories in the old days: the unique charm of the era without mobile phones, looking for a more heartfelt way to fill the emptiness
Thirty years later, everyone uses brain waves to communicate, and in an instant they know everything, looking back at today, everyone is holding their mobile phones and smirking, and they also think that today's people are romantic [cool]
I didn't read the last two paragraphs carefully [covering my face]] but when I was a child, I didn't have to read a newspaper carefully when I went to the toilet wall.
In 08, I went to Guangzhou to study at university, and my girlfriend went to university in Sichuan. Although there were already mobile phones at that time, communication was very convenient. But we keep a diary every day. I also write and she writes too. Maybe just a few sentences a day or half a page. Write down things or thoughts that are not said on the phone, or talk to each other. Send it to the other person every three or two months, and then write it again in the other person's notebook. I wrote it like this for two or three years, and there were several books. Until we end up off-site.
Unfortunately, at the end of last year, we divorced and broke up
Although I was poor before, I had hope and hope, and now I have indeed gotten better. But now, everyone has no confidence and no hope for the future.
Poor and happy, there is always a time when the memories always deepen the happiness, and the unhappiness is blurred.
It's like traveling through time and space to see the warm time of a father and son, I like your words, which is why I like to visit Zhihu [smile] [like]
Some kind of happiness jumps on the page, and it has nothing to do with the amount of money, which is very powerful [Like]
If you don't suffer from poverty but suffer from inequality, unevenness will cause involution, and if you are too volatile, you will be unhappy
[Yuhong Class] evokes my memories, and no one has mentioned this name for many years, which is equivalent to the current preschool class
This is the real parental kindness, and those who are born only to give food and clothing are born, this kind of unkindness
We always think that hardship comes from poverty and weakness, and we are busy getting rich and strong, but we lose our love [tears] Answer: Lord's father's heart is so soft [Praise]
Good parents do not give their children generous material things, but give them spiritual wealth, happiness, happiness, exercise together, and play together in middle school
The neighbors at that time were also a point of nostalgia.
Everyone lives in a compound, and when they look up and don't look down, the neighbors will lend a helping hand if someone has something going on.
Netizens said that the neighborhood friendship at that time was more valuable than gold. Although the living space is spacious now, the close neighborhood relationship is becoming weaker and weaker.
Despite the poor living conditions at that time, there was a lot of fun. There are no TVs or mobile phones, so let's get together, talk and laugh, work together, and eat together.
Some people say that the happiness at that time poured out from the bottom of the heart, unlike now, when there is more material, but the happiness seems to be getting less and less.
Also, everyone at that time had an innocent original heart. Full of hope and longing for the future, full of love and passion for life. Netizens said that the original intention is always worth cherishing.
So, although the old days were so poor, everyone still misses the past.
At that time, the family affection, neighborhood friendship, simple life and original intention are irreplaceable now.
Our middle-aged and elderly friends, who have experienced that time, should cherish the current life, although people live spacious, but the sincere neighborhood relationship, but gradually drifted away.
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