Love will inevitably have regrets, sometimes because the other party's love has changed, sometimes because of the hindrance of parents, and sometimes because of misunderstandings that cannot be resolved.....
We used to love each other, but no matter how hard you tried, it didn't work out in the end.
What do you do when you like the other person very much, but his love has receded?
Or maybe they are very reluctant to be together and want to be together forever, but the parents of both parties just don't agree and can't get along with each other, so how will you decide?
Deeply in love but without fruit, a woman who loves herself will do these 2 things, and I hope you are too.
01: Find a real reason to separate and accept it
The reason why men don't love you may not tell you the real reason.
For example, when you are dating, he will swear that even if your parents do not agree, he will stick to the end.
However, after two or three years together, when it came to the stage of talking about marriage, he said that his parents did not agree and had to break up.
Or he used each other's inappropriate personalities as an excuse to end the relationship.
Some girls will take it seriously and will find problems from themselves, thinking that as long as they work harder and have a better temper, their boyfriends will continue to come back and love themselves.
When his love is cold, he changes his mind, and he breaks up with you, a woman with a real vision will try to find the real reason why he is leaving, and accept it bravely.
They are not affected by emotions, no matter what the excuse the man chooses, you have to calm down and analyze the state of your relationship when you have been together recently, whether there are other situations around him, etc.
To completely let go of this feeling, what a cruel thing it is to you who you have loved so much. But a woman who really loves herself will be ruthless.
Since he, after weighing the pros and cons, feels that each other is not suitable and is unwilling to invest in his love anymore, it is time for your relationship to stop.
The reason why you feel reluctant and sad because of the loss of the other person is more because you don't love yourself enough, so you can't keep the person you love deeply.
What you have to do is not to find value and a sense of existence in this unequal relationship, but to learn to pay attention to yourself and make the core stronger.
02: Leave firmly and don't consume each other
Zhang Jingyi in the TV series "We Are Not Kind Enough" met He Ruizhi at work, she has a lot of personality and works hard.
He Ruizhi was immediately attracted, and later they became boyfriend and girlfriend.
Although Zhang Yijing looks cool on the outside, she is anxious and timid on the inside.
Since she was a child, she has been dependent on her brother for her life, and no one can protect her.
The elder brother was caught stealing again, which made Zhang Yijing more sensitive.
He Ruizhi loves Zhang Jingyi very much, even if his mother doesn't like it, he still insists and doesn't want to give up.
He Ruizhi also looked at the house, and he didn't mind his girlfriend's brother, the three of them could live together.
When he took the ring and proposed to Zhang Jingyi, the other party was very moved and wanted to love desperately.
Zhang Jingyi thought that there was still a possibility for each other, so she decided to talk to He's mother with a gift, hoping to get her consent.
However, He's mother just doesn't like her very much.
Zhang Jingyi knows that no matter how hard she tries, this relationship will not come to fruition. Even if she chooses to part with He Ruizhi, she may regret and suffer, but she has to do it.
He Ruizhi did not agree to break up, and came to the house many times to find her, but Zhang Jingyi did not compromise.
Her decision is correct, if they really get married, Zhang Jingyi's emotions will definitely collapse, and it is impossible to experience the happiness of marriage.