Preamble:
Recently, a news about a man who went out to work for 8 months and came home to find that his wife was 7 months pregnant has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions. The man who originally thought that he could enjoy the joy of family life, but when he reunited with his wife, he found that his wife had raised an old man, and refused to do a paternity test, making him responsible for the child. Such family conflicts not only made him very painful, but also made the outside world see the existence of many social problems and triggered deep thinking.
1. The wife is 7 months pregnant but asks for a divorce
Fu Cheng and Wu Xiaohong are a couple from the countryside, the two got married and worked outside together, and finally returned to their hometown together to start a business, opened a hotel, and lived a happy life. However, just when Fu Cheng was going out to work for 8 months, Wu Xiaohong asked him for a divorce. I thought it was my wife who was lonely at home, so I didn't forget to call my wife every day while working outside with a worried mood, but no matter how he coaxed and persuaded him, Wu Xiaohong was very cold to him, and he didn't even want to answer the phone.
Fu Cheng felt more and more that something was wrong in his heart, thinking that his wife had betrayed him, so he was also apprehensive and curious when he went home. However, when he saw his wife, he found a scene that shocked him, it turned out that Wu Xiaohong was 7 months pregnant, and she also raised an old man at home, such a blow made Fu Cheng very difficult to accept, and the doubts and anger in his heart could not be described in words.
2. The family troubles behind the extramarital affair
Fu Wei thought that his wife's pregnancy was his own child, so when he learned the news, his heart was also full of joy and expectation, but Wu Xiaohong asked for divorce from herself, and refused to do a paternity test, directly making herself responsible for the child. Fu Cheng knew that he had lost to his wife, but he was not willing to give up easily, he felt that he and his wife had run the hotel together for so many years, and they could be regarded as a couple with feelings, no matter what happened, they could face it together, but now his wife was cold and ruthless to himself, and he was completely unwilling to communicate and solve problems with him.
Through communicating with his wife's best friend, Fu Cheng learned that the reason why his wife had an extramarital affair with another man was mainly because when he was working outside, the communication and companionship with his wife were very insufficient, and the family affairs often needed to be borne and handled by his wife alone, which made his wife very tired and helpless, so he inadvertently had feelings with other men. It turned out that his wife didn't love herself, but she slowly transferred her love and companionship to other men, which made Fu Cheng's pain in his heart more profound, and also made him full of helplessness and hesitation about marriage and family.
3. The wife refuses to take a paternity test when she is pregnant
Fu Cheng didn't communicate his thoughts and feelings with his wife, he felt that since something like this had happened, both the relationship and the family had hidden dangers and problems, so the two should be honest with each other and do spiritual communication and treatment together, but Wu Xiaohong thought that Fu Cheng was also suspected of cheating when he was working outside, so he couldn't fully believe in himself, and he didn't recognize that the child was his own, so he directly refused to do a paternity test. This practice made Fu Cheng very angry and helpless, he felt that his wife had now transferred his pain and difficulties to the child, and this behavior not only hurt himself a lot, but also was very detrimental to the child's growth, completely contrary to the responsibility and love that a mother should have.
Fu Cheng also thought about divorcing his wife, but when he thought that his children might grow up in such a family, he felt that he should work hard to protect his family and children, so he chose to solve the problem through the law, hoping that the law could give him justice, and his wife could be touched, understanding that his actions had hurt many people, and hoped that she could take the initiative to choose to do a paternity test for the sake of the child's growth and future, and she could also face the problems and difficulties in the court with herself again。
Epilogue:
Such family conflicts are not only emotional problems between a husband and wife, but also involve many social and family factors, such as the recognition of women's economic independence, emotional exchanges and communication in family relationships, and the influence of the family in which children grow up. I hope that in later life, every family can get along and communicate in an equal and respectful way, no matter what kind of difficulties and problems they encounter, they can face and solve them together, and they can also give their children a healthy and happy growth environment.