Description: When we were preparing to see off our mother, what we didn't expect was that the plan to go out the next morning was opposed by our brothers and sisters-in-law. They felt that we were moving too quickly with the funeral ceremony and did not give a proper grace period. However, it makes me wonder if our filial piety really makes sense after my mother is gone.
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Everyone has their own way of dealing with bereavement, and it was not a hasty decision to choose to have the funeral ceremony the morning after our mother's death. We are well aware of my mother's wishes, and she often said to us: "After I leave, I hope you will not be too sad, there is no need to suppress emotions too much." "We hope to say goodbye to our mother in this way, to reconcile ourselves with our grief and pain as soon as possible, and to send her our most sincere wishes.
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However, my sisters-in-law expressed dissatisfaction and opposition to our decision. They think we're too eager to end our grief and don't give enough time to mourn. In their view, filial piety should be a long-term expression, not a short-lived ritual. However, we know that when our mother is gone, she will not want us to be immersed in grief forever, but to continue to live strongly.
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It is difficult to reconcile people's mouths, and the way in which bereavement is treated varies from person to person. Each of us has our own way of remembering, and there is no right or wrong choice in itself. Filial piety is not only reflected in the length of time, but more importantly, the expression of sincerity. Perhaps, when we say goodbye to our mother in this way, we are paying tribute to her in the truest way, inheriting her love and warmth.
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Tags: #孝顺的表达方式 #家庭关系 #追思与祭奠 #悲伤与痛苦 #母爱的传承
When it came to the decision to go to the funeral the morning after my mother's death, we were opposed by my brothers and sisters-in-law. They believe that filial piety should be an expression of a long time, not a short ritual. However, we are well aware of our mother's wishes and expectations for us. Mother's love is selfless, and filial piety should also be real. In the depths of our hearts, we know very well that everything we do for our mother's send-off is out of deep thought and gratitude for her.