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In 1991, a talented young man was born in the beautiful Dalian - Xixi. Relying on her outstanding language talent and excellent academic performance, she successfully knocked on the door of Dalian University of Foreign Studies and Chinese to study Spanish.
With a keen yearning for the splendid culture of Spain, Xixi mustered up the courage to start the journey to Spain for further study alone.
When he first arrived in Spain, he inevitably felt strange and uncomfortable. The pace of life in a foreign land was very different from her life in the vast land of her homeland, which made her waver for a while, and even thought about giving up and returning home.
However, Hee Hee did not give up easily, she chose to face the challenges with a strong will and strive to adapt to the new life environment. Over time, she gradually opened up and integrated into the local student body, making many like-minded friends.
In the process, she gradually regained her self-confidence and perfectly integrated into the rhythm of life in Spain.
Just as Xixi's master's career was about to come to a successful end and he was about to leave for his hometown, the young man finally mustered up the courage to confess his passionate love to her. He was afraid that after Xixi left, the two would no longer have a fate.
However, at this time, Hee Hee was not ready to accept a foreign relationship, let alone marry abroad, and she was worried about the cultural differences and the troubles that leaving her hometown might bring to her future life, so she politely rejected his affectionate confession.
After going through ups and downs, the once enthusiastic young man quietly disappeared from Xixi's sight. Hee-hee originally thought that this person would gradually fade out of her memory as time passed.
However, one day two months later, he reappeared in the trajectory of Xixi's life, this time, not only bringing his determination and perseverance, but also that deep love and Chinese A2 certificate and an offer letter from a well-known company in Shanghai.
At this moment, subtle changes began to emerge in Hee-hee's heart, so she mustered up the courage to inform her parents about it. Amazingly, instead of objecting to this, her parents gave her full understanding and support, giving her the confidence to pursue her own happiness.
They thoughtfully admonished Xixi: "Whether you are at home or abroad, as long as you can find the person who is truly suitable for you, you can enjoy a happy and happy life." It was this belief, with the warm blessings of the parents of both parties, that Xixi and the young man worked together to successfully complete their graduate studies in 2015.
However, when Hee Hee was about to return to China, she made a decision that shocked everyone - she chose to stay in Spain and seek a teaching position that was closely related to her major. Her responsibilities are mainly to teach Chinese language knowledge to overseas Chinese and foreign students, and she is also actively involved in the cause of promoting Chinese culture, which has given her a great sense of accomplishment in a foreign country.
That summer, Hee-hee finally mustered up the courage to follow her boyfriend back to his hometown and officially meet his parents. In order to better integrate into each other's lifestyles, Hee-hee spent an unforgettable good time at her boyfriend's house. She found that the family was significantly different from the environment in which she had grown up, both in terms of living habits and academic atmosphere.
Hee-hee's father-in-law is a doctor with a dual license in brain surgery and neurosurgery, a former government councillor and a doctorate, while her mother-in-law has a double graduate degree in education, and her brother-in-law, Harvey, is a prominent lawyer. In such a family environment full of strong academic atmosphere, Xixi did not feel any pressure or constraints, on the contrary, the living atmosphere of this family seemed more free and full of laughter.
Thankfully, the in-laws soon loved Hee as their own daughter. The mother-in-law has established a deep friendship with Hee-hee, and the two are as close as sisters. Mother-in-law's attitude to life is more refined and elegant than Hee Hee, she often takes Hee Hee to shop together, every time she buys items, she fills a cart, and regularly accompanies Hee Hee to the nail salon for maintenance every month.
My father-in-law, on the other hand, is a romantic man who will carefully select gifts for his mother-in-law on every special day, and even cook delicious meals himself. These details all show the warmth and harmony of this big family.
In the hee-hee family, the father-in-law and her husband made a firm decision to give up their original stable and lucrative job opportunities for the sake of the family. In the family they build together, they are not immersed in the pursuit of money, but pay more attention to the quality of life and the true meaning of happiness.
On weekends, they always take time out to go out together and enjoy the good times that nature has to offer.
Hee Hee said frankly that choosing to enter the palace of marriage does not only depend on love, but also has a pair of sensible and understanding in-laws. She felt that she was very lucky to meet such wonderful in-laws, and her in-laws also deeply felt that the appearance of Hee Xi was a precious gift from God.
At the end of 2019, when Hee Hee was preparing to return to China to spend the Spring Festival with her parents, the sudden new crown epidemic forced her to return to Spain as soon as possible.
Soon after, she welcomed her precious son with great joy.
During her pregnancy, Hee-hee's pregnancy reaction was extremely strong, and her heart was full of worries because she longed for her mother's company but couldn't do so due to the epidemic. However, her husband is always by her side, not only taking on all the responsibilities of the family, but also often bringing joy to Hee Hee in a humorous way to help her relieve stress.
Although Hee-hee's parents are unable to be with their daughter in person, they will learn about Hee-hee's physical condition by phone every day and give her maximum support and care.
In November 2020, the child finally came to the world safely. In the process of naming the child, Xi Xi and her husband fully respected her opinion and decided to let the child's Chinese and Spanish names follow the mother's surname, and named it "Aoli" and "Oliver" in English.
According to Spanish tradition, after the birth of a newborn, the new mother undergoes a one-month "confinement". Although Hee Hee was not able to receive close care from her mother, the meticulous care of her father-in-law, mother-in-law and husband, as well as the selfless assistance of her aunt, made her feel the warmth and comfort of home.
During this period, the husband will personally deliver three meals a day to the bed, and even take care of the trivial tasks such as bathing the children and changing diapers.
After half a month of waiting and expectation, she finally stepped out of the door and walked out of that comfortable and warm family environment! In beautiful Spain, this small family of three lived an enviable and happy life. It is worth mentioning that the parents of the children are entitled to up to four months of paid maternity leave, which undoubtedly greatly relieves their financial pressure.
More importantly, every month before the children turn three, they can enjoy the subsidy of milk powder costs, which is undoubtedly a great support and help for them.
As new parents, they also have access to advanced medical care in Spain without any worries. The basic medical services provided by the Spanish healthcare system are almost entirely free, allowing new parents to take care of their children with peace of mind without having to worry about any financial problems.
It is precisely because of such considerate in-laws that Xixi can devote herself to work and life. She is an excellent hot mom, and after giving birth, she did not feel the pressure of raising children, but enjoyed it. Whenever she goes to work every day, her husband prepares delicious meals for her, while her father-in-law dutifully assists in taking care of the children. On weekends, they spend quality time with their children, with all the tedious tasks of bathing, feeding, and changing diapers.
In Spain, the Xixi family lives a leisurely life. Spain has up to 200 days of vacation per year, and the hustle and bustle of her work doesn't require her to commute to work on time, so she can relax at home as long as she doesn't have classes scheduled. Xixi deeply feels that Spain is a very suitable country to lie down, and her life is full of comfort and comfort.
One day, when Hee Hee was watching a video of her child playing and playing, she suddenly had a flash of inspiration and decided to share her son's cute moments with the world. So, she started learning editing techniques and set out to create her own social media account. On September 21, 2021, Hee Hee successfully opened a Douyin account called "Spanish Xi Travels" and released a video about how Spaniards go through the postpartum recovery period, which is her first Douyin work.
Since then, she has released a number of short videos about the production of children's complementary food.
In addition to sharing the baby's growth, Xixi also began to show the life of Spaniards, covering the Spanish medical system, government welfare policies, daily life of Spaniards, etc.
In just a few months, Ms. Hee Hee has won over 340,000 fans! It is precisely because of such careful and considerate in-laws that Ms. Xixi can devote herself to the intense work and rich life without any worries.
She is an excellent hot mom and did not feel any pressure from raising children after giving birth.
Whenever Ms. Hee Hee starts her day, her husband always prepares delicious meals for her, while her father-in-law takes the initiative to take care of the children. On weekends, the family spends quality time together, whether it's bathing, feeding, or changing diapers.
Ms. Xixi shared her life in Spain on the Douyin platform, which immediately attracted the eager attention and heartfelt blessings of the majority of netizens. The number of followers on her personal account has soared to 100,000 at an astonishing rate, making her one of the biggest influencers. With the continuous improvement of her popularity, Ms. Xixi successfully signed a contract with a well-known domestic media company and began to contact various advertising businesses with other Internet celebrities.
The daily life of Ms. Hee-hee's in-laws is full of warmth and touch. Although the two old men are close to their prime, and they have walked hand in hand for 36 years of marriage, their relationship is still as hot as their first love. In order to take better care of the family, the father-in-law resolutely decided to resign from the government council, while the mother-in-law took care of the family's affairs wholeheartedly, so that every day was exquisite.
Not only did they live their lives, but they also produced two outstanding sons. Her mother-in-law's attitude towards life is more refined and elegant than that of Ms. Hee-hee, she often takes Ms. Hee-hee to shop with her, and she regularly accompanies Ms. Hee-hee to the nail salon for care every month. My father-in-law, on the other hand, is a very romantic person, who will carefully select gifts for his mother-in-law on every special day, and even cook the dishes himself.
Hee Hee said with sincere emotion that choosing a suitable marriage partner cannot rely solely on love, and a reasonable father-in-law is also a very crucial factor. She is full of gratitude and is glad to have met such a kind and excellent father-in-law, and her parents-in-law also deeply feel that the existence of Xixi is like a priceless treasure given to them by God.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, the new year has come - in July 2023, Xixi, who has been away from her hometown for three years, finally returned to the beautiful Dalian with her husband and children. On the occasion of returning from the trip, in order to better connect with each other, Xixi intimately taught the family how to skillfully use WeChat, a practical social software, which was warm and touching, and attracted countless viewers.
At the moment when the Hee Hee family set foot in their homeland, her parents were already waiting at the airport in anticipation, and it was not difficult to see from their eager eyes that they missed their daughter endlessly.
In the process of learning to use WeChat, Xixi's husband and parents-in-law gradually gained an in-depth understanding of traditional Chinese culture and customs. After returning to China, Xixi and her husband and son have traveled to many famous tourist destinations, whether it is the first time to try the bathing center or taste Haidilao hot pot, which has brought them a new feeling like never before.
Xixi's husband is full of praise for Chinese cuisine, and Aoli has also developed a strong interest in these delicacies.
Because Hee Hee has been in the marriage hall for many years, her husband has always cared for her, and now that she has returned to the family again, her mother even thinks that she seems to have become a little lazy. However, the kind mother-in-law affectionately told her son-in-law to continue to cherish Hee-hee, which shows how satisfied she is with her son-in-law.
After spending a few days in China, her husband fell in love with the charm of the Orient.
He firmly stated that he will do his best to recommend his family and friends to visit China and experience this mysterious and fascinating country in depth. He is also looking forward to the opportunity to serve as an ambassador for the spread of Chinese culture, showcasing the understated luxury and unique charm of Chinese clothing to the world.
Then, Xixi enthusiastically led him and his son to experience a Hanfu feast full of cultural charm. He was deeply struck by the exquisite traditional Chinese costumes in front of him, which undoubtedly confirmed the intoxicating magic and unique charm of Chinese culture.
After accompanying the Xixi family on a full month trip to China, they bid farewell to this beautiful country with full memories and reluctance, and embarked on the journey back to their hometown of Spain. Although this unforgettable journey has come to an end, the wonderful story of their family is still widely circulated in the online world, which has aroused the warm expectations of many netizens, and they have urged Xixi to launch a new video to share as soon as possible.