The breeding of a sense of distance
In today's society, I have increasingly observed a more and more obvious lack of closeness between grandchildren who have been brought up by the elderly and the elderly. This phenomenon made me think deeply about what causes this sense of distance to grow. In this article, I will explore the changes in family structure, the increase in work pressure, and the lack of family education, hoping to reveal the reasons behind this social phenomenon.
Family change and family estrangement
I have experienced first-hand the selfless devotion of older siblings to their children in the family. Before I started a family, their children were raised by their parents, and they worked hard day in and day out. During this time, the old people were almost busy with housework, and they were exhausted. Since then, I have made up my mind that I will never let my parents take care of my children for me, so that the elderly will not be trapped in a hard daily life again.
Work pressure: a victim of family affection
As nephews and nieces enter the workforce, their return visits become increasingly sparse. Geographical distance becomes a reasonable reason for them not to return home. However, the old people are still thinking about these two children, and their thoughts make people feel the depth of family affection. Whether this sense of alienation is a product of family change or the neglect of family affection by the younger generation is worthy of our in-depth consideration.
Lack of family education
After the mother's illness, the nephew and niece symbolically returned home for a few days, however, three months later, the old man died, and they did not return home again. Even the old man's request to go to the tomb during Qingming was ignored by them. Whether this behavior is the result of the lack of family education, or whether the fast pace of modern life has led to alienation between people, it is worth reflecting on.
Social hot spots: filial piety and unkindness
In an era of material affluence, we see some children with shocking attitudes towards their parents. The busyness of work has become the reason for them to alienate their family affection, and the lack of human affection makes the old man feel disappointed. Whether this is a problem of parents or education in today's society is worth pondering.
Conclusion: The death of family affection
In this modern society, the attitude of some children towards their parents is really emotional. They don't seem to see everything that the old man has done for them, and they can't see the selfless family affection. And now, when the old people need to reciprocate, they are faced with the indifference of the children. This can't help but make people feel sad, how much they have paid, but in exchange for such helplessness. Perhaps, we need to re-examine family education and pay attention to the inheritance of family affection, so that the next generation can know more about filial piety and closeness.
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