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I am an ordinary housewife named Wang Lihua. My husband works in sales for a small company, while I take care of the family and take care of the kids. We live on the outskirts of the city, and although life is ordinary, it also has its own warmth and busyness.
My husband and I are both in the city, and our relationship is harmonious. My father-in-law was a capable old man who worked as a workshop director in a factory before he retired. My mother-in-law is a gentle and considerate housewife who loves me and my husband very much. We are close to our parents, and we have a lot of daily contacts, so we will help each other if we need anything in life.
One day, my father-in-law suddenly fell seriously ill and was rushed to a hospital in the city for hospitalization. My mother-in-law was anxious and my husband was commuting between the hospital and home every day. As for me, I naturally became the main person in charge of bringing my grandchildren.
There are many families in the community where we live, and most of them have children. There is a neighbor near my house, surnamed Li, who has a very good relationship with our family. Uncle Li is a retiring worker, warm and sincere, and Aunt Li is a kind and considerate housewife, the same age as my mother-in-law, and the kind of aunt who is always smiling. They have an eight-year-old son named Xiao Ming, a smart and lively boy, who is a classmate of my son Xiao Hua.
During that time, my days were filled with the noise and laughter of the children. In the morning, I will send Xiao Hua and Xiao Ming to the primary school in the same community, and then I will continue to take care of my grandson and do some housework. Xiao Ming would also come to my house to play after school, and the two children became a pair of good friends, talking and laughing, while I was busy beside me.
The Li family also tried to help me a lot, especially Xiao Ming's mother, who often brought some home-cooked meals to my father-in-law during the days when he was in the hospital and helped me share some housework. Uncle Li also often cares about my father-in-law's condition, and I am grateful every time.
During this time, I felt that my sense of responsibility became heavier and heavier. During the days when my father-in-law was hospitalized, I went from an ordinary housewife to a pillar that the family relied on. Facing the endless needs of children and the pressure of housework every day, I feel a little struggling, but I also feel that I have become fulfilled in this state of life.
After Xiao Ming of the Li family came back from school, he often pulled my son Xiaohua to play with him. The two of them are of the same age and have compatible personalities, and they have become a pair of playmates. Sometimes, when I watch them laugh in the living room, I feel that this scene is particularly warm, and I secretly feel that the busyness of life can sometimes become lighter and more enjoyable because of the laughter of the children.
My mother-in-law calls every day to inquire about her father-in-law's condition, and although she is old, she still cares about her husband wholeheartedly. I could feel her anxious and helpless, but she was always trying to look strong and unwilling to worry us. I know that this period of time is also extremely difficult for her, after all, it must be very painful for her to deal with all this alone.
One weekend morning, I had just sent off Xiao Hua and Xiao Ming, and I was going home to do some housework. Suddenly, the phone rang, and I picked it up and saw that it was Aunt Li calling. There was a little anxiety in her voice: "Lihua, are you at home? Can you come over for a while?" I have something I want to discuss with you. ”
I immediately agreed, a little worried, not knowing what was going on. I hurriedly put on my coat and walked to Li's house. When Aunt Li saw me, she hurriedly invited me into the house, and said anxiously: "Lihua, in fact, I want to ask you, can you help take care of Xiao Ming these days? Uncle Li and I have some things to deal with, and we may have to go out for a while." ”
I breathed a sigh of relief in my heart, it turned out that I was just helping to see Xiao Ming. I smiled and said, "No problem, Aunt Li, Xiao Ming can rest assured that I will take care of it." If you have something to do, you can be busy, and I will take care of things at home. ”
Aunt Li listened to my promise, the expression on her face softened a lot, and she looked at me gratefully: "Thank you Lihua, it's really helpful." Uncle Li and I are going to go out for a few days, you can look at Xiao Ming's diet and daily life, if you need anything, just ask. ”
I waved my hand again and again and said, "This is a help between neighbors, so you're welcome." If you have something to do, hurry up, I will take care of Xiao Ming's affairs. ”
Aunt Li listened to my words, nodded with satisfaction, and then gave some instructions with concern, and then went out with Uncle Li with confidence. I sat in the living room, watching the sunlight outside the window spill in through the glass, and I felt warm in my heart.
During this time, I began to have the opportunity to observe more about the life of the Li family. The relationship between Uncle Li and Aunt Li also seems to be harmonious, and they are full of thoughtfulness and understanding for each other. I often see Uncle Li take the initiative to help with some housework when he comes home, and sometimes take Aunt Li to go for a walk or visit the nearby vegetable market. Seeing them like this, I can't help but sigh that this is the real tacit understanding and tolerance between husband and wife.
With this feeling in mind, I began to cherish my relationship with my husband even more. Although we would quarrel over trivial matters, I began to understand the importance of mutual tolerance more through the grind of life. As a result, my relationship with my husband has become stronger, and we have learned to understand and trust each other more.
As the days passed, I felt myself slowly growing up in such a family environment. Although the trivial things in life are busy, but through the laughter of the children and the help of the neighbors, I gradually realized the beauty and warmth of life.
It was then that an unexpected conversation gave me a new appreciation for my family role.
One afternoon, I was busy tidying up the house in the living room, and Xiao Hua and Xiao Ming were having fun next to me. Suddenly, the doorbell rang. I put down what I was doing, walked to the door and opened the door, only to see a middle-aged man I didn't know standing outside.
When the man saw me, he smiled and said, "Hello, is it Wang Lihua? I'm Mr. Wang, and I'm your husband's colleague." ”
I was a little surprised, and wondered how my husband's colleague could suddenly come to the house, but I politely invited him in. Mr. Wang walked into the living room, saw Xiao Hua and Xiao Ming playing, and said with a smile: "Your children are so lively." ”
I smiled and nodded, then asked, "Is there anything I can help with?"
Mr. Wang looked around and said with a little seriousness: "Actually, I came this time to talk to you about something, about your husband's work. ”
Hearing this, I was a little nervous, and I didn't know what was wrong with my husband's work. I immediately asked with concern, "Is there something going on with my husband's job?"
Mr. Wang waved his hand, smiled and said, "Don't be nervous, it's actually about some work arrangements, the company has some projects that need to work overtime recently, so I want to invite your husband to join." However, overtime may be longer and require more cooperation. ”
I was relieved that it was just a matter of work. I smiled and said, "That's fine, I'll discuss it with my husband." Thank you for coming and telling me this. ”
Mr. Wang was also relieved to see me say this, and then chatted with me for a while, asked about my father-in-law's condition, and then took his leave and left.
I closed the door with some emotion in my heart. My husband has more responsibilities at work, and I realize that my role in the family may be even more important. I had to be stronger to support everything in my family.
In the evening, my husband and I sat in the living room, drinking tea and talking about what happened today. After listening to my description of Mr. Wang's visit, my husband nodded and said, "The company does need to work overtime on some projects recently, and I will try my best to cooperate." ”
I was relieved and said with a smile, "Although overtime is hard, it is also for the family." ”
My husband gently hugged my shoulders, and his eyes were full of tenderness: "Lihua, you have always been the pillar of the family, and I am very grateful to you." ”
I smiled and shook my head: "It's all the responsibility of the family." ”
That night, I looked at my husband with some emotion, and I knew in my heart that everyone has a different role to play in the family, and I will firmly take my responsibilities.
It was then that an unexpected conversation gave me a new appreciation for my family role.
A few days later, I was preparing dinner when I suddenly received a call from my husband. His voice was a little anxious: "Lihua, I just received a notice from the company that I need to travel for a few days recently and may have to go to another city." Can you help take care of your father-in-law and the children?"
I was a little surprised when I heard this, but I immediately agreed: "No problem, you can go with confidence, I will take care of everything at home." ”
The husband breathed a sigh of relief on the other end of the phone: "Thank you, Lihua, it's really helpful." I will be back as soon as possible. ”
When I hung up the phone, I was a little worried. My husband's business trip meant I had to work harder to deal with the family affairs. However, I also knew that it was an inevitable part of family life and that I had to learn to deal with it on my own.
That night, I told my mother-in-law about my father-in-law's admission to the hospital, and she was silent for a while, then sighed and said, "This child is really not easy. ”
I comforted her and said, "Mother-in-law, I will try my best to take care of my father-in-law, so you don't have to worry too much." ”
My mother-in-law looked at me with gratitude in her eyes: "Lihua, you are a good daughter-in-law of our family, thank you for taking care of us all the time." ”
I smiled and shook my head: "This is what I should do." ”
That night, I went back to Li's house to pick up Xiao Ming. When Aunt Li saw me, she smiled and said, "Lihua, thank you for your hard work, help take care of Xiao Ming these days." ”
I smiled and waved my hand: "Neighbors help each other, it's not hard." ”
Aunt Li looked at me, her face full of gratitude: "Your family Lihua is really a good daughter-in-law, I really envy it." ”
I felt a warm heart when I heard this, and said with a smile: "Aunt Li has won the award." ”
In the past few days, I have been busy taking care of my father-in-law and children, although it is a bit hard, but I feel relieved to see that the old and young in the family are living safely.
One night, I was watching TV in the living room, and Xiao Hua and Xiao Ming were having a lot of fun on the side. Uncle Li came back suddenly, saw me and smiled and said, "Lihua, you've worked hard for the past few days." ”
I smiled and said, "Uncle Li is polite, Xiao Ming and Xiao Hua have a lot of fun together." ”
Uncle Li nodded and said with emotion: "Yes, we are so lucky to have such a good neighbor as you." ”
I looked at Uncle Li's expression, and I also felt a burst of warmth in my heart. The help and understanding between neighbors makes each of our families a better place.
The experience during this period has given me a deeper understanding of family. Everyone has a different role to play in the family, and my role has gradually become firm and important.
That night, I sent Xiaohua home as usual, and then returned to my own home. I was busy preparing dinner in the kitchen when I suddenly heard the doorbell ring. I quickly dried my hands and walked to the door to open the door, only to see Aunt Li standing outside the door, looking anxious.
I hurriedly asked, "Aunt Li, what's wrong?"
Aunt Li looked at me with a somewhat panicked expression: "Lihua, I'm sorry to disturb you, I have a little matter here and I want to ask you for help." ”
I quickly said, "It's okay, you can come in and sit down for a while and tell me what's going on." ”
Aunt Li entered the house, sat on the sofa, and said, "Actually, Uncle Li and I have some things to deal with, and we may have to go to other places for a few days." We're a little worried about Xiao Ming, and we want you to help take care of him, do you think it's okay?"
When I heard this, my heart moved, and it turned out to be like this. I smiled and said, "Aunt Li, of course this is okay." Xiao Ming and Xiao Hua have a good time together, and I am happy to help take care of him. ”
Aunt Li listened to my promise and breathed a sigh of relief: "Thank you, Lihua, it's really helpful." We may be leaving tomorrow, and Xiao Ming's daily life will be troublesome to you. ”
I hurriedly comforted her and said, "Aunt Li is polite, this is help from neighbors." ”
When Aunt Li heard me say this, a grateful smile appeared on her face: "Lihua, you are such a good person, we are so lucky to have a neighbor like you." ”
I smiled and shook my head: "Aunt Li has won the award." ”
Aunt Li chatted with me for a while, told Xiao Ming some habits and preferences, and then said goodbye and left. I looked at her back and sighed to myself, the mutual help between neighbors is the real warmth and beauty.
Early the next morning, Uncle Li and Aunt Li of the Li family set off for other places. According to Xiao Ming's work and eating habits explained by Aunt Li, I began to take care of Xiao Ming.
In the past few days, Xiao Ming has been very happy at my house. Xiao Hua and I took turns to play with him, sometimes doing some crafts together, sometimes watching cartoons, Xiao Ming was always smiling, and had a good time with us.
In the past few days of taking care of Xiao Ming, I have gradually discovered some of his uniqueness. He likes to draw, so I got some colored pen paper and painted a colorful landscape with him. Xiao Ming was so happy when he saw his work that he took the drawing paper to show off to his parents.
In the evening, Xiao Hua and I sent Xiao Ming back to Li's house. When Aunt Li saw us, she said very gratefully: "Lihua, thank you for taking care of Xiao Ming these days, he has been praising your family for being good since he came back." ”
I smiled and said, "Aunt Li is polite, Xiao Ming is a sensible child, we have a lot of fun together." ”
Aunt Li nodded, with a smile on her face: "If there is anything in the future, your family can come to us at any time." ”
I smiled and said, "Okay, Aunt Li, neighbors have to help each other." ”
Seeing off Aunt Li and Xiao Ming, I also felt a burst of satisfaction and warmth in my heart. The relationship between family and neighborhood has enriched my life, and I have come to understand the true meaning of family.
The experience of these few days has given me a deeper understanding of my family role. In the family, everyone plays a different role, and I am aware of the importance of myself in this role. Despite the challenges and difficulties that life may encounter, with the support and help of our family and neighbors, we can get through every difficult time in life together and create a better future.
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