In the world of feelings, we often hear the saying that love is priceless, and money has nothing to do with it. However, in real life, some girls have ruined their happiness because of the bride price.
Why is the bride price an invisible shackle that destroys girls?
First, we need to understand the meaning of the bride price. The bride price refers to the gift money or money that the man gives to the woman at the time of marriage. In some regions, this has become a customary practice. However, the bride price is not a necessity for marriage, and it should not be a weight to measure love and dignity.
However, some girls see the bride price as a quid pro quo, believing that only by asking for the bride price can they prove their status and value in the eyes of the man. This kind of thinking often stems from their misunderstanding of love and marriage, believing that the bride price is a stepping stone to marriage and a guarantee of a stable marriage. Behind this concept, they hide their fear and insecurity about love.
From the psychological level, girls who ask for bride price often have low self-esteem and dependence. They may feel that they are in a weak position in the family, lack self-confidence and independence, and need to prove their worth and status through the bride price. At the same time, they may also be too dependent on the economic conditions of the man's family, hoping to obtain material security and security through the bride price. This state of mind makes it easy for them to lose their reason and judgment when faced with the issue of bride price.
However, when the bride price becomes an object of exchange and comparison, it loses its original meaning. This kind of behavior will not only destroy the emotional foundation of both parties, but also hurt one's own dignity and worth. Because in marriage, true love and respect are priceless and should not be measured in terms of money.
The bride price is not the only measure of love and marriage. A person who truly loves you will not give up respect and love for you because of the bride price. Instead, they will respect your wishes and decisions and face life's challenges with you. And those who only value the bride price often only see you as a tool to meet their material needs, and such people are not worthy of our cherishing and giving.
As girls, we should be brave enough to pursue our own happiness and get rid of the shackles of bride price. We should learn to love ourselves and focus on our own inner needs instead of being swayed by the eyes and expectations of others. We should cherish our dignity and worth, and not give up our principles and bottom line in order to meet the expectations of others.
At the same time, we also call on all sectors of society to work together to break the shackles of bride price. The government and social organizations should strengthen publicity and education on the concept of marriage, and guide people to establish a correct concept and values of marriage. The media should also play the role of public opinion supervision, expose the vanity and comparison psychology behind the bride price, and make people aware of the harmfulness of the bride price.
For those girls who have fallen into the whirlpool of bride price, please wake up as soon as possible. Let go of those nihilistic ideas and expectations, and re-examine your values and life goals. Be brave enough to face reality, actively seek change, and don't let the bride price become a heavy shackle in your life.
In this wonderful world, love is incomparably precious and pure. We should feel and understand the essence of love with our hearts, and abandon worldly prejudices and constraints. Let's work together to pursue true love and enjoy the beauty and happiness that love brings.
The bride price is not a necessity for marriage, and it should not be a weight to measure love and dignity. We should get rid of the shackles of the bride price and pursue true love. Only in this way can we find happiness that truly belongs to us in this world.