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In the dazzling international city of Hong Kong, you can see the luxury and respect of those wealthy aristocrats everywhere.
They love to chase expensive high-end brand clothing and pay attention to exquisite hand-made luxury shoes to show off their unique and noble temperament.
However, in this city that is keen on the pursuit of luxury, a legendary figure who exudes "anti-trend" charm from the inside out was born - Guo Jingjing.
As a bright star in Chinese sports and blessed with the glory of the Olympic gold medal, Guo Jingjing had the opportunity to choose a luxurious life commensurate with her honor.
However, to everyone's expectations, she turned a blind eye to these and still adhered to the unprecedented simplicity.
Whenever Guo Jingjing appears in the public eye, she always shows herself in a different manner. A simple five-cent hair ring casually pulls her hair, and a very ordinary long dress just reflects her elegant and generous temperament.
There are no gorgeous jewelry decorations, and there are no expensive fashion items, Guo Jingjing's dress can be described as simple to the extreme.
What's even more amazing is that Guo Jingjing actually married into the Huo family, a well-known wealthy family. As one of Hong Kong's leading wealthy families, the Fok family is helmed by Timos Fok with a large number of real estate companies and listed companies, and has a pivotal position in the entire Asian region.
However, why did this woman, who had sweated on the gymnasium with her arms and won numerous titles, still adhere to such a simple lifestyle after entering a wealthy family? This has undoubtedly aroused widespread speculation and questions from all walks of life.
Some people speculate that the reason why Guo Jingjing chose to marry the Huo family is nothing more than to live a luxurious and carefree life. However, her unpretentious dress and attitude to life are in stark contrast to this speculation.
Some people also questioned whether Guo Jingjing was oppressed and exploited by the Huo family, so she had to live such a humble life. In this regard, Guo Jingjing has always been secretive and has never publicly responded in front of the media.
As for the Huo family's lifestyle towards Guo Jingjing, it is also confusing, making it difficult for people to understand the mystery.
To delve into Guo Jingjing's shocking and mysterious charm, we must first go back to the colorful love story of her husband Huo Qigang.
Huo Qigang, the only heir of a wealthy family in Hong Kong, has attracted the attention of many women with his unique charm since he was a child.
In his early years, Huo Qigang fell in love with a lady named Lu Qingxin. Lu Qingxin was undoubtedly the most dazzling daughter of Hong Kong in that era, she not only had a beautiful face, but also showed outstanding wisdom and independent personality charm at a young age.
The love affair between two young talents from prominent backgrounds instantly became the focus of attention of the entire Hong Kong society. However, this high-profile relationship only lasted for two years, and it quietly came to an end when Huo Qigang graduated from university.
According to rumors, Lu Qingxin had already gained insight into the "ambitious" nature of Huo Qigang's heart at that time, so he chose to break up peacefully to avoid deeper harm that may be brought in the future.
Soon after the breakup, Huo Qigang quickly got together with another beauty, Lu Tianer, the daughter of the chairman of the Hong Kong South China Sports Association. Compared with Lu Qingxin's courage and outspokenness, Lu Tianer is more mature and steady, and she skillfully uses various opportunities to make the media successfully capture the images of their intimate interaction in the bar.
Faced with such conclusive evidence of scandal, Huo Qigang could only reluctantly admit the true existence of this relationship. And Lu Tianer behaved frankly and generously, and she unabashedly expressed her shock when she learned that Huo Qigang had a new love.
Lu Tianer's remarks undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Huo Qigang, and the outside world accused him of being "a young man", believing that he was the culprit of the breakdown of this relationship, which deeply hurt Lu Tianer's feelings.
In order to clear this stigma, Huo Qigang had to repeatedly emphasize on many public occasions that he admired those gentle and lovely women the most, and that his past emotional experience was just an episode on his way to finding true love.
However, such an explanation may seem pale in the eyes of outsiders. Because immediately afterwards, the media broke the scandal of Huo Qigang and popular movie star Zhao Wei dating intimately at KTV many times.
Although the parties have never admitted it, it is widely believed that this is undoubtedly solid evidence.
At the moment when time froze, Huo Qigang's scolding of "big hearts" spread like thunder everywhere, even if he later held hands with the diving queen Guo Jingjing sweetly and entered the sacred hall of marriage, the voice of doubt still kept ringing, asking him if he would still linger in the shackles of marriage, stabbing Guo Jingjing's kind and fragile heart.
In the face of the tide of doubts, Guo Jingjing did not make any defense for Huo Qigang in front of the media, she seemed to have her own unique opinions and thinking.
However, it is this silence that makes the outside world more worried about her situation, and they have speculated whether she will become another victim of Huo Qigang's "flowery" behavior.
After experiencing countless emotional entanglements, Huo Qigang finally found his own true daughter - Guo Jingjing. Their acquaintance is not a smooth romantic story, but full of doubts and controversies.
At first, the outside world generally regarded Guo Jingjing as the "culprit" who caused Huo Qigang to break up with his ex-girlfriend Lu Tianer. There are even rumors that when the relationship with Tian Liang was not over, Guo Jingjing had a secret love affair with Huo Qigang and became a "little three" who destroyed other people's feelings.
In the face of the indiscriminate bombardment of public opinion, Guo Jingjing chose to remain silent. She never defended herself in front of the media, but responded to those voices of doubt with practical actions.
In contrast, Huo Qigang's attitude was decisive and resolute. He has firmly supported Guo Jingjing in public many times, and has unabashedly expressed that he is the man who is extremely lucky to win the hearts of such outstanding women.
From Huo Qigang's words and deeds, it is not difficult for us to feel his deep love for Guo Jingjing.
However, despite Huo Qigang's firm protection, their road to love is still full of thorns. Whenever Guo Jingjing appears in the public eye, someone will always turn up Huo Qigang's past "flower heart" and accuse her of destroying other people's feelings.
However, as it is often said, "lovers eventually become married". After experiencing countless doubts and controversies, Huo Qigang and Guo Jingjing finally tied the knot in 2012 and walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand.
After marriage, Guo Jingjing is still under the pressure and suspicion of public opinion. Some people think that she married a wealthy family only to pursue material luxury, while others wonder if she was oppressed and exploited by the Huo family after her marriage and forced to live a simple life.
When faced with countless speculations and doubts, Guo Jingjing chose to remain silent. Through her unpretentious approach to life, she is a powerful counter to accusations that she is greedy for money, and her playful parenting is a testament to the respect and support she enjoys at home.
In fact, Guo Jingjing did not yearn for the wealth of the Huo family. She often wanders among the small street vendors in the city, buying affordable hair ties, flat shoes and other daily necessities, showing a style that is completely different from the elegant taste of other wealthy ladies away from the hustle and bustle of the world.
Guo Jingjing's unpretentious lifestyle has undoubtedly won the heartfelt appreciation of the Huo family. It is precisely because of this appreciation that the Huo family will give Guo Jingjing great autonomy and freedom of life, instead of oppression and exploitation as speculated by the outside world.
After many tests and twists and turns, Guo Jingjing finally succeeded in becoming the Huo family's red lady. With her noble qualities and philosophy of life, she deeply touched the hearts of this top wealthy family.
After marriage, Guo Jingjing still adheres to a low-key and simple style of life, which is in stark contrast to her glorious image of an Olympic champion in the past.
As the hostess of the family, she is passionate about going into the small shops and stalls in the city and picking out the daily necessities at affordable prices.
A hair tie of only five cents is enough to tie up Guo Jingjing's hair, and a pair of flat shoes that cost more than 50 yuan is enough to meet her daily travel needs.
This seemingly "stingy" consumption habit forms a strong contrast with the enthusiastic pursuit of luxury goods by other wealthy ladies.
Many wives of Hong Kong's wealthy people are always scouring fashion magazines for trendy items, expensive jewellery and designer handbags, striving to stand out from the crowd.
However, Guo Jingjing didn't care about this, and always showed people in a simple and simple dress.
It is this attitude of returning to the original and returning to the basics that has won Guo Jingjing the admiration and love of the Huo family. In the minds of the Huo family, perhaps money and wealth no longer have much value, but the simple quality displayed by Guo Jingjing is particularly precious.
In addition to living habits, Guo Jingjing's concept of children's education is also unique. She attaches great importance to nurturing children's independent spirit and ability, and will never spoil or spoil them.
Once, Guo Jingjing led the whole family to the beautiful Huashan for an unforgettable trip. Although the children were exhausted in the process of climbing, Guo Jingjing did not step forward to support them, but chose to silently inspire the children with her own actions on the side, encouraging them to continue to move forward with their own strength!
This scene can't help but attract the attention of countless passers-by, and at the same time, it also profoundly demonstrates Guo Jingjing's unique and eye-catching educational concept.
In order to further hone the children's self-care skills, Guo Jingjing will not hesitate to take them to the fields for hard work.
In the bustling city, children are often carefully cared for by their parents in a warm greenhouse, and they cannot experience the heavy manual labor, but Guo Jingjing allows the children to feel the mixed tastes of rural life, so as to cultivate their awareness of cherishing food.
In addition to focusing on cultivating children's independent qualities, Guo Jingjing also pays special attention to guiding them to develop simple living habits. Whenever they go out to play, Guo Jingjing's family always chooses to travel by public transportation, and will never be like other wealthy families, where luxury cars line up in a long line to swagger through the city.
Even on the occasion of celebrating Huo Qigang's birthday, Guo Jingjing has always maintained a simple and unpretentious style. That year, she made a simple but heartfelt cupcake with her own hands to share this joy with the children and spend this special day together.
When the guests saw such a scene, they also picked up the cake and tasted it, and the whole atmosphere was warm and real.
Guo Jingjing's requirements for children's dress are also simple and generous. They never wear any expensive jewelry, only ordinary T-shirts and trousers, and they look indistinguishable from ordinary children.
Even Guo Jingjing herself only wears cheap clothes of dozens of yuan casually, showing her casual and comfortable side.
It is precisely because of Guo Jingjing's simple attitude to life and unique educational concept that she has won high praise from the Huo family. They deeply felt the precious and rare qualities exuded by Guo Jingjing, which could not be bought by money.
What makes Guo Jingjing feel most gratified is that in her married life, the Huo family has given full respect and trust to her reproductive rights and the way she raises her children.
Unlike other wealthy families, the Huo family has never put forward any harsh requirements for Guo Jingjing's fertility issues.
Prior to this, when Guo Jingjing was not fully prepared, the Huo family had never exerted any fertility pressure on her. However, once she publicly expressed her intention to have children, the Huo family would not hesitate to provide all-round support and cooperation, and it was by no means as strong as some other families that they must have many children in order to practice filial piety.
As we can clearly see that on the major decision-making issue of childbirth, Guo Jingjing has absolute autonomy in the Huo family, and she has the right to freely choose the timing and number of births, without having to bear too many obligations to others or seek recognition, if such reproductive autonomy is put among ordinary people, it should be commonplace.
In those traditional wealthy families, the number of births of wives is often regarded as a "mission", and must be achieved according to the family's expectations, for example, after Xi Mengyao married into a wealthy family, she encountered her mother-in-law's strict fertility requirements - she must have four children, otherwise she will face all kinds of rejection and suppression.
In the face of such an unreasonable request, Xi Mengyao could only endure the grievances in her heart and bear it silently, however, Guo Jingjing had never experienced a similar predicament in the Huo family, on the contrary, when she expressed her desire to have children, everyone in the Huo family not only had no objection, but gave great support and understanding.
Not only on the issue of childbirth, but even in the way children are raised, everyone in the Huo family fully trusts and respects Guo Jingjing's decision-making.
Guo Jingjing advocates cultivating children's ability to be independent and opposes excessive spoiling, and she will personally lead children into the fields to feel the hard work of farming;
At the same time, when she goes out to play, she will deliberately not support her children, but encourage them to complete the whole process alone, this unique way of education may not be uncommon in ordinary people's homes, but it is unique in wealthy families.
Most of the children of wealthy families have been overly cared for by their parents since childhood, relying too much on maids and nannies to take care of daily life, and lack the ability to live independently.
When discussing this issue, what is surprising is that the Huo family did not disagree with this, but warmly welcomed Guo Jingjing's educational philosophy! Compared with other wealthy families, they may not be able to give their children such comprehensive free decision-making power and deep trust.
It is undeniable that the unique tolerance and understanding of the Huo family has enabled Guo Jingjing to feel unprecedented happiness and warmth in the Huo family.
Every concept and action she advocates has won the warm appreciation and full support of the Huo family, rather than any form of suppression or exploitation.
Undoubtedly, it is precisely for this reason that Guo Jingjing was able to gain a firm foothold in this prestigious and wealthy family, and pursued and lived the life of her dreams without hesitation.
After eleven years of ups and downs, Guo Jingjing has indisputably proved that she is Huo Qigang's best partner with her words and deeds, simple and unpretentious lifestyle, and the educational concept of patiently guiding children.
Looking back on the past, Huo Qigang is indeed surrounded by many outstanding women. Lu Qingxin was born in a famous family and has a beautiful face; Lu Tianer is mellow and skillful; and Zhao Wei is a hot film and television star, radiant.
However, these women failed to win the full understanding and support of the Huo family like Guo Jingjing.
In her married life, Guo Jingjing's simple quality won high praise from the Huo family. Her penchant for affordable everyday items is in stark contrast to the luxury pursuits of other wealthy ladies.
It is this attitude of returning to the true and returning to the basics that makes the Huo family see Guo Jingjing's inherent precious qualities, which are far from being measured by money.
At the same time, Guo Jingjing has also won the respect of the Huo family in terms of children's education philosophy.
She advocates nurturing children's spirit of independence and guiding them to experience the hardships of labor from an early age, rather than protecting them in a greenhouse. Although this educational concept is not uncommon in ordinary families, it is unique among traditional wealthy families.
The most convincing thing is that on the two key issues of reproductive rights and child rearing, the Huo family gave Guo Jingjing complete autonomy and trust, and never exerted any pressure or blow.
This unprecedented acceptance and tolerance undoubtedly made Guo Jingjing feel an incomparable warmth in the Huo family. Eventually, she found a harbor where she could settle down and live without scruples.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, Guo Jingjing, who was "selected" by the Huo family and married into a wealthy family, may endure all kinds of pressure and exploitation, and live a life full of constraints.
However, this is not the case, and Guo Jingjing enjoys privileges and freedoms that are difficult for others to match.
And being able to obtain these is precisely because of the noble cultivation and excellent character displayed by Guo Jingjing. She won the appreciation of the Huo family with her simple lifestyle, won the respect of the Huo family with her independent parenting concept, and then became a noble existence like the daughter of the Huo family.
From this point of view, Guo Jingjing is undoubtedly Huo Qigang's most ideal partner. With her words and deeds and excellent qualities, she won the full recognition of this top wealthy family, and made the originally controversial marriage end happily.
Time is like an arrow, 11 years have passed in a blink of an eye, but Guo Jingjing has injected a unique and eternal charm into the Huo family with a firm choice and unremitting efforts, making this century-old family that has gone through vicissitudes of life glow with a new atmosphere.