What is Atmosphere?
Atmosphere is the character of life, the wisdom of life, and the realm of life.
Atmospheric people know how to tolerate the faults of others and reflect on problems from themselves, and atmospheric people know how to face the tribulations of life calmly and have fun with them.
As the old saying goes, "If you are generously compatible, you will be able to do both." ”
Atmosphere often determines a person's life pattern and luck!
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Atmospheric people, treat people generously, do not care
Xue Xuan once said: "Only wide can accommodate people, and only thick can carry things." ”
A person with an atmosphere is generous in heart, open-minded, and able to endure what ordinary people can't bear and tolerate what ordinary people can't.
Historically, the story of the guilty plea is well known.
Lin Xiangru returned to Zhao because of his completion, and after returning to China, he was given a position, which was much higher than Lian Po.
After Lian Po learned about it, he was very unconvinced, and he threatened to be as good-looking as Lin and see who was more powerful.
When these words reached Lin Xiangru's ears, he chose to avoid them, and many customers were puzzled, thinking that Lin Xiangru was timid, but then his words impressed everyone.
Lin Xiangru said that the reason why the Qin State did not dare to invade our country was precisely because of me and Lian Po, and if we did not agree, wouldn't it give the enemy a chance.
After Lian Po learned of this, he was ashamed, so he took the initiative to come to the door to ask for the guilt.
Lin Xiangru accepted it calmly, and the two became friends and worked together to make many contributions to Zhao Guo.
"Caigen Tan" said: "Zhang Ben, who makes one step higher in life and regresses is progress; treating others with a point of leniency is a blessing, and benefiting others is the foundation of self-interest." ”
In fact, throughout history, many successful people have the ability to turn enemies into friends, they tolerate people, tolerate things, and have an admirable mind and courage.
Atmospheric people, in the way of dealing with people and dealing with others, have gradually developed a pattern and knowledge, accumulated good fortune for themselves, and the road of life is getting wider and wider!
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A person of the atmosphere is free and easy about things, and does not sink
Mr. Lin Qingxuan once said: "Nine times out of ten, if life is unsatisfactory, I often think about one or two, but I don't think about eight or nine." ”
Everyone's life can't be smooth sailing, and if you sink into it, you will only crush yourself.
You might as well be an atmospheric person, have a free and easy heart, and learn to see openly.
The fate of the poet Su Dongpo is very bumpy, he has never been proud in his career, and he has been running all his life, and those twists and turns are hidden in the poems.
But in our impression, Su Dongpo can be described as a full optimist, he can live a good life, and write the famous sentence "The taste of the world is Qinghuan".
People often say that good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a thousand, and Su Dongpo is the most interesting soul for hundreds of years.
When he was degraded and destitute, he could create his own peerless delicious Dongpo meat that has been passed down through the ages.
When you can't open the pot at home, you invent the way of "looking at the meat to stop your cravings", which makes the whole family laugh.
Although there are many hardships and pains in life, he can still live his life with flowers, brows stretched, and at ease.
Lao Tzu once said: "Fortune and misfortune depend on each other, and everything is good and bad." [WeChat public account: Guoxue Life]
But where there is a shadow side, the other side is the sunshine, life, turn a corner, turn out, you will see the brightness.
In life, many things are inevitable, and if you indulge in them, you will only make yourself slumped.
It's better to think from a different angle, have Su Dongpo-style open-mindedness and optimism, and write a new movement for your life!
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Atmospheric people, open-minded to themselves, not attached
The Tao Te Ching says: "Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear." ”
In fact, the enemy of each of us is not others, but ourselves.
Once upon a time, there was an old monk who, when going down the stairs, accidentally stepped on an object and made a "chirp" sound, and the old monk thought that he must have accidentally stepped on a frog to death.
At night, the old monk dreamed that there were countless frogs asking for his life, and he was scared into a cold sweat, and early the next morning, he took his apprentice to the Buddha to repent.
Even so, he still felt uneasy in his heart.
Later, when a disciple was cleaning the yard, he found a flattened eggplant, and it turned out that the frog that made the chirping sound was the flattened eggplant.
When the old monk learned the truth, he instantly felt relieved.
In fact, in life, many times we will also encounter such a situation, what bothers us is not the outside world, but from our own heart.
As said in "The Legend of Lu Xiang": "There is nothing in the world, and mediocre people disturb themselves." ”
Only by truly letting go of oneself and reflecting on oneself can life be calm.
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Be a generous person, you will be blessed!
Li Siyan said: "Mount Tai does not let the soil, so it can become its big, and the river and the sea do not choose a trickle, so it can become its deep." ”
It is precisely because of the inclusion of all things that there is the height of the mountain, the width of the sea when the sea embraces all rivers, and the breadth of the land when it nourishes all things.
If a person is atmospheric, he can accommodate the infinite and vast world and sea in his heart.
To be a man, we must know how to be tolerant and considerate of others, to learn to see things openly, to learn to be free and easy, and to ourselves, to be open-minded and not attached.
Be a man with atmosphere, be warm and considerate, and think about others, so that you can meet the source left and right;
Be a man with an atmosphere, be calm and calm, and do not panic in case of trouble, and you will be able to have a bright future;
Atmospheric life, broad-minded, open-minded, self-conscious and healthy.
Being a man is the realm that everyone should pursue, and only when the atmosphere becomes a great tool can the atmosphere be invincible.
For the rest of your life, be an atmospheric person, if you are atmospheric, you will be blessed!