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A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

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A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

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(This article declares: This story is pure fiction, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please do not sit in the opposite number!)

Preface

I have a North Korean mother-in-law, and that day I accompanied my wife, who had been married to me for three years, to visit her parents. Her mother looked at her wife with distressed eyes: "Girl, you married into China, and you are more miserable than your mother in North Korea." ”

My wife took the gift I had prepared in advance and handed it to her mother: "Mom, it's okay, marry a chicken and follow a chicken, everything I do now is what I should bear, this is Haozi's filial piety to you, you can take it." ”

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

Mother-in-law: "You can take it back quickly, your mother and I really feel sorry for you, take it away and take it back." ”

01

I am a young man who married a North Korean daughter-in-law, and I met my current daughter-in-law on a tour group. Coincidentally, I have always been in awe of the matter of resisting US aggression and aiding Korea, and there is a movie about the events of that year.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

The ice sculptures of that year were even a place where I burst into tears every time I watched them, and seeing the tenacity of my ancestors has always guided me to go to Dandong and Yalu River to have a look.

Three years ago, I finally went to the Museum to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, and when I first entered the exhibition hall, I was greeted by real pictures and texts. I watched every story of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea with awe.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

"On October 1, 1950, U.S. forces crossed the 38th parallel in an attempt to occupy the whole of Korea. On October 8, North Korea sent a request to China for rescue...... "Just as I was reading the text on the wall, I was suddenly attracted to a crying girl next to me."

I looked around her, and she was alone, staring at the words on the wall and crying silently, and the emotion of that scene suddenly distressed me. I walked towards her with the paper in my pocket.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

"Do you need paper, I just have it here!" I asked her first.

She turned to look at me and said, "Thank you!" and took the paper from my hand. I asked her, "Are you alone, and if you're upset, you can tell me." She didn't reply to me, still looking intently at the photo in front of her.

I can't say anything, after all, I'm not familiar with it, so I'll go ahead first. Further on, there are exhibits of the things used by the previous warriors.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

When I saw the single clothes of the Chinese People's Volunteers, it was really hard for me to imagine what it was like to have a cotton coat at minus 40 degrees.

As southerners, we can't understand that in Dandong, when you actually put your hand outside without gloves, you can feel the cold air stinging your skin like a needle, and what kind of will did the ancestors rely on to persevere to the end.

While my mind was still spinning, the girl stood next to me and said, "I'm really grateful for their efforts to have our current North Korea, so I'm sad!"

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

"Are you North Korean?" I looked at her questioningly.

"Yes, I've heard my parents talk about the past since I was a child, and this time I finally had the opportunity to come here, and I was shocked to see it with my own eyes. She explained to me earnestly, "What about you, where are you from?"

"I'm from Guangyuan, Sichuan, I don't know if you know that place?" I replied to her.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

She showed a hint of surprise on her face: "I don't know Guangyuan, but I know in Sichuan, I went to college in Chengdu!"

I was also shocked: "Huh, you go to school in Chengdu?"

"Yes, my home is from Sinuiju City, just across the Yalu River. When I was in high school, I liked entertainment, and I wanted to go to college in Liaoning at that time, but the teacher suggested that Sichuan Media was slightly better than Liaoning Media, so I went to Chengdu. ”

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

I listened to her tell me about her experience, and I became interested in the girl in front of me with her own thoughts. The next visit was that we walked together, and listening to her tell me about her understanding of history, I felt more and more interesting about the girl in front of me.

We added each other's contact information before leaving, and agreed that if she went back to school, we would meet for dinner.

02

I went to school in Guangyuan, although it is not Chengdu, but it is not far away, and it is only two hours by high-speed rail. On Saturdays and Sundays, we will contact and make an appointment to go to the surrounding places, because we have the same three views and a lot of common language.

After a while, our relationship changed, and my identity changed from friend to her boyfriend. We video chat almost every night, and if I see something delicious online, I will mail it directly to their school.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

Although there were quarrels in the relationship of the whole university, it was always sweet, and I was one year older than her, so I graduated early. I found a state-owned enterprise unit in Guangyuan, and through my own efforts, I achieved the middle level little by little.

At that time, I was bent on having a stable job and income before she entered society, so that I could be qualified to propose marriage to her.

On the day of her graduation, I was dressed up. I bought a large bouquet of flowers and stood at the gate of Sichuan Media's school, waiting for her to come out. She was very beautiful that day, dressed in a junior school dress, and rushed towards me.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

"Brother Hao, how long have you been here? She put her arms around my neck and pressed her hand around me.

I hugged her in a circle, then put her down unhurriedly, took out the ring I had prepared in advance, and said to her, "Wait for my daughter-in-law, how long is sweet." ”

Her two little hands hurriedly covered her grown mouth, and her eyes unconsciously began to roll again. I touched her head and said, "What's the matter, why are you sad?" ”

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

I saw her desperately shaking her head into a rattle and said, "No, Brother Hao, I suddenly found out that I am the happiest woman in the world, and I have a boyfriend who loves me so much." "I hugged her for a long time.

That afternoon I took her to a nearby western restaurant, where I formally proposed to her that I wanted to take her home to meet her parents. She also nervously asked me if I needed to prepare anything, I am a little fat now, it is not good-looking, can I lose weight and go again.

I hung his nose: "Silly chick, I haven't seen you before, don't be nervous, my parents have seen you, I just want to introduce you to them ceremoniously." ”

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

Later, I remembered that North Koreans don't marry outside, and I asked her, "By the way, I seem to have heard that North Koreans don't marry outside, and I don't know if your parents can approve of the marriage between the two of us." ”

She comforted me and said, "Don't worry, my parents are quite open-minded, and I feel like they will support me if I like them." ”

So we went to each other's homes, and of course my parents liked her very much, and there was no doubt about it, as soon as we met, they said that it was a matter for both parents to meet, and to see when the date was set.

But their family seems to be a little worried about their daughter, after all, they are married far away, and they are afraid that their daughter will be wronged after marrying in China. I assured my uncle and aunt, "I will be good to her wholeheartedly, don't worry." ”

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

My sincerity finally touched her parents, and we got married.

03

After marriage, our family held her like a baby, never asked her to do things she didn't like, she also felt very happy, and often told me that she chose the right person, and now she is really lucky.

But life often doesn't go as I want, and something unfortunate suddenly happens to me. When my father went downstairs once, he accidentally slipped his foot and fell from the second floor. The edge of the staircase knocked the back of his father's head, causing an intracranial hemorrhage.

Although his father was able to save his life after receiving even treatment, his intelligence remained at the age of seven or eight forever. In order to treat my father's illness, our family also took out all their savings, and I had to go out to work to get more money in order to live.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

My North Korean wife helped me take care of my father at home, and when I was away, my mother always praised me for her sensibility. Taking care of my father is meticulous, not crying out about hardship or tiredness.

I worked in the factory for about two years, and I saved some savings, and it was the first time I went home. Although I usually video chat with my wife, I was really distressed when my wife actually stood in front of me.

When she first married me, she was an innocent little girl, and now she wears a ponytail at random, and her clothes are still stained with food, and you can't tell that she is still a girl under thirty years old.

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

I hugged her for a long time and didn't let go: "I'm sorry baby, I've let you suffer for so long, and after marrying me, I haven't enjoyed a single day of happiness." ”

Before I could finish kissing me on the mouth, trying to stop me from talking in this way, I was immersed in her gentle breath.

She stroked my cheeks with both hands and said to me, "I am your daughter-in-law, this is my home, my parents live at home, I don't have to work hard, I should do it." ”

Fortunately, everything came to an end, I took half of the money I earned to my mother, half to my daughter-in-law, and said to the family: "I want to take my daughter-in-law back to my mother's house, three years, I have never gone back to see my mother-in-law, and I always can't get over it." ”

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

My mother was very supportive and gave me some money to buy more things to go back to. I took my wife to the car home, and she kept comforting me on the way: "I am so happy, although I am married far away, I still have my husband to accompany me home." ”

I don't really like that, because only I know how much my wife has suffered for me. When she got home, her mother looked at the child distressedly, and when she saw the calluses on her wife's hands, the sourness came up.

I stepped forward guiltily: "Mom, I'm sorry, I didn't take good care of her, I disappointed you and Dad." ”

Her mother wiped the tears from her eyes and said, "Don't talk about this silly boy, is your father better? ”

A North Korean girl married in China and returned home to visit her relatives after 3 years, mother: Your life in China is too hard

Although her parents never complained about me, but my heart was always unbearable, looking at the busy father-in-law and mother-in-law in the kitchen, and seeing the daughter-in-law who helped me pour tea next to me, I not only sighed: "I am really the happiest person in the world." ”

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