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In this life, in fact, it is inseparable from dealing with others, but getting along with others also requires proportion, we must also be good ourselves, know how to get along with others, in order to gain good popularity, but also to make our life road wider and wider.
So, no matter who you get along with, remember these few words, this is wisdom!
1. In this life, don't be too wronged by yourself, anyone can live without it.
In life, we must learn to love ourselves, we must improve our self-confidence, be full of hope for our own life, and believe that we can live a good life.
Even when we are alone, we must be alone, don't pester others, don't bother some people who don't care about you, only know how to get along with yourself, your life will be really good.
Whoever the earth has left has turned the same way, and others have left you, and they also hope that you can live a strong life and live beautifully.
Life is our own, we all have to love ourselves, don't let ourselves be wronged, learn to see and not care, so that we can maintain relationships and distance from others, and only then can we live our own lives.
Second, between people, pay attention to a kind of two-way running.
In this world, in fact, it is indispensable to get along with others, if you want to have a good relationship, then you must work hard with each other, tolerate each other, understand each other, help each other, don't just want to take advantage, don't just want to be greedy for pleasure, but know how to pay for others, you can also get others to pay for you.
People are mutual, if you are good to me, I will be good to you, you have treated me well, I will also remember your good, so as to get along with you.
The relationship between people is actually very simple, they can all be kind and grateful, then the people you have helped will actually become your nobles and make your life better and better.
3. When getting along with others, there is no need to ask others to be the same as yourself.
Do you know what's the hardest thing in the world? It's putting your own thoughts into somebody else's heads.
Everyone has their own ideas, everyone has their own three views, in fact, it is difficult for you to change a person's concepts and thoughts, because different environments, different experiences, are destined to be different from each other, destined to be different between people.
We get along with others, even though we respect and appreciate others, and don't force others to be like us.
If you always force your will on others and let them do what they want, then it is actually a disaster for others.
Only by seeking common ground while reserving differences and allowing others to be themselves can people live in harmony with each other.
Fourth, sometimes, you don't have to be afraid of offending others, the key is to be yourself.
Writer Liu Tong said: "You must know that there is no kind of character in the world that can avoid offending people, since you will offend people, then be yourself, do yourself well, you are not afraid of offending people, because you can bear the consequences." ”
If you are always afraid of offending others in life, always embarrassed to reject others, always responsive to others, always want to get other people's attention, then you will try to please others.
In fact, the more you please, the more humble you become.
You have to be strong, some people are actually not worth your effort, and if you blindly give in, they will only make them gain an inch, thinking that you are easy to bully, and they will be unscrupulous towards you.
Therefore, when necessary, we must also let kindness show its edge, although we should be ourselves, don't be afraid to offend others, and don't be afraid to turn the other cheek.
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