On March 26, a girl from Shangrao No. 1 High School in Jiangxi Province was suspected of cheating in the exam by the teacher, confiscated the answer sheet, and told her that she needed to be demoted, and the whole school was criticized.
That night, something sad happened. The girl could not accept the blow and jumped from the bathroom on the 5th floor of the dormitory building, and finally died.
The incident quickly sparked heated discussions online. Some people think that the psychological quality of girls is too poor, and some people question whether the teacher's education method is reasonable.
In December 2021, a private high school in Japan also committed suicide after a student cheated on an exam, was caught and punished by a teacher.
The parents of the deceased believe that the child committed suicide because of improper teaching by the teacher. Therefore, on the 8th of this month, they officially filed a lawsuit against the school and demanded 100 million yen in compensation!
The school where the incident occurred is Seifu High School in Tennoji District, Osaka, Japan. In the perception of Osaka people, Seifu is a school attended by smart children who can read.
In addition to the high admission rate, the school also attaches great importance to the physical training of students, and has produced Yukio Iketani, the third place in men's gymnastics at the Seoul Olympics.
Such a prestigious school is naturally very strict in the management of students. It is said that every student who has a clean breeze must shave his "fresh head"!
The length of the hair, including how high the back and sides should be, is regulated, and it can only be 3 mm!
Japanese media reported that the deceased A-kun was a student in the second year of Qingfeng High School. On December 6, 2021, he was caught cheating by his teacher during the final exam of the school's second term of ethics and politics.
Subsequently, the teacher called Mr. A to the student guidance room, and several male teachers surrounded him to reprimand him and asked him to write a reflection book. His mother, too, was called to school.
A's mother said that after she came to school, she was taken to the principal's office with her child. They were then reprimanded by five male teachers, and the whole process lasted for four hours.
At that time, a teacher asked the child why it was not good to cheat, and the child replied because he was very cunning.
But another teacher, who was not satisfied with this answer, kept repeating the coward next to him, and the child hung his head and responded, "I am a coward."
In the end, I and my children tearfully apologized to the teachers.
In response to Mr. A's cheating, the school also imposed the following 7 penalties on him:
1. 0 minutes for all subjects
2. Suspension for 8 days (no contact with classmates)
3. Copying 80 volumes of scriptures
4. Write a book of reflection
5. Write a journal of reflection
6. Write your experience
7. Cancel the school recommendation
Jun A's mother claimed that on December 6 and December 7, the child copied the scriptures late and persuaded him to come. But on the morning of December 8th, the child was gone!
After calling the police, the police found Mr. A, who had lost signs of life, near their home. It is estimated that the time of death was around 2:30 a.m.
In the suicide note left by Mr. A, there is this sentence: "I am more afraid of continuing to live as a coward by the people around me than the fear of death." ”
A-Jun's mother believes that Qingfeng School often instills and emphasizes the idea that "cheating is something that cowards do" in the morning meeting.
After the child was caught cheating, the teachers kept reminding him that he was a coward, and he was punished multiple times, which brought a lot of fear and pressure to the child, which led him to finally commit extreme behavior!
However, a third-party committee set up by the school has denied Mr. A's suicide and is directly related to the school's guidance.
A senior lawyer said that there was indeed a problem with the school's guidance method. Why did a situation arise where cheating had to be made, why the student was not listened to carefully in the instruction, and whether the student was inadvertently negated in the process and the word "coward" was imposed on the student.
Let's take a look at what netizens have to say:
"Think about other students, cheating is really despicable and a major offense that is absolutely prohibited. In this trial, are we arguing only about the school's handling of the case? If the conversation turns to the cause of suicide, the family environment and the parent's handling may also be pointed out. If parents are stressed out and have to get good grades, then parents may be more responsible than school. It can be very shocking to think that parents are also responsible, but how should it be argued?"
"If life at that school is difficult, it's good to change schools. If you transfer to a local public middle school, if you have the academic ability to enter Qingfeng Middle School, you should be able to cope with it. While it is true that there have been instances of over-instruction, it is also possible that parents have been insisting that their children go to that school. Children are often overwhelmed by adult pressure. ”
"Anything that happens, it's the responsibility of the school or the responsibility of others. As a parent, I would appreciate it if my own child received thorough instruction at school. At the same time, I would also tell my children that cheating is a violation and that most people don't do it. Those who cheat do cause big problems in the common test, but in any case, cheating is a mean act. Schools cannot be blamed for insufficient parental guidance and support. Rest in peace. ”
"As a school with a reputation for strict instruction, students attending it should know this. Who is forcing people to push their limits even if they don't cheat? Schools don't specifically tell a student to improve their grades. The school doesn't care who it is, it just wants students to get into a good university and improve the reputation of the school. The people who wanted that child's grades to improve, who wanted him to go to a good university, put pressure on that child. There was no place for that kid to run. ”
"There are questions about whether educational guidance is effective (e.g. preventing cheating or cheating again). This is a private school, though, and they can choose to transfer or not go to school. Also, if someone thinks that it's better to be considered a coward than to die, then this kind of thinking is also problematic. Parents may be in a state of deep grief and anger, but can they be told, 'Even if they are seen as cowards, they can live and clear their stigma,' and will they have the opportunity to experience the world beyond the high school they attended?"
Hey, in the most cherished time of life, it is undoubtedly very sad to end your life because of cheating once. What do you think about the occurrence of such incidents?
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