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In the work "Fate", it is said: "All the accidents experienced in life are actually predestined, and this is fate." ”
In fact, behind every seemingly accidental phenomenon, there is a law of cause and effect. Everything we encounter in life is essentially the result of our own traits and behavioral choices.
What kind of person you are determines what kind of person you will meet, and your inner qualities and behavior patterns determine the direction of your life.
When you are fully focused on a goal, your personal magnetic field will vibrate at a specific frequency, attracting like-minded people and things in similar situations.
Therefore, if you want to make your life better and better in the years to come, the first thing to do is to start by changing the energy and attitude of your magnetic field.
Your magnetic field attracts people of the same frequency
Liu He, the deposed emperor of the Han Dynasty, was known for his hedonistic personality and was accustomed to a luxurious and indulgent lifestyle.
As early as when he was the king of Changyi, his behavior was quite peculiar, and he often sent people to search for beautiful women and delicacies.
Seeing this, the people around him all voted for him to cater to Liu He, causing the villains around him to become more and more inflammatory.
In 74 BC, Emperor Zhao of the Han Dynasty died without an heir, which unexpectedly opened a way to the dragon chair for Liu He, who had no connection to the throne.
On the way to Jingzhao, Jin Chen, who accompanied him, showed extreme excitement, forcibly possessed the beautiful folk woman when he saw it, and took it at will when he saw the delicacies.
In this regard, Liu He not only did not restrain him, but acted recklessly with him.
After Liu He ascended the throne in Beijing, he had no intention of restraining himself, but promoted the cronies he brought one by one, which plunged the entire Chang'an City into chaos.
This behavior aroused strong resentment among the court elders, and eventually the ministers joined forces to stage a coup d'état and depose Liu He from the throne.
At the end of his short 27-day reign on the throne, Liu He returned to his fiefdom and became the shortest-reigning emperor in the history of the Western Han Dynasty. As the "Book of Changes" says: "Respond with the same voice, seek from each other with the same breath." ”
The quality of a person determines his social circle, and a positive person will exude positive energy, which will attract people who also have positive energy and influence each other;
On the other hand, people who are dark-hearted, calculating, and calculating will be surrounded by a group of villains who are also scheming and morally deficient.
In many cases, life's encounters often stem from one's own characteristics and behaviors, the so-called "causal cycle, self-inflicted".
In the book "Meet the Unknown Self", Zhang Defen emphasizes the importance of self-knowledge, she points out: "What the external world reflects is essentially only a reflection of ourselves, and the real focus is only on ourselves." ”
In other words, we should learn to use one perspective to perceive others in order to deeply understand and observe the external world, and at the same time, we should use another perspective to look at ourselves, to deeply reflect on and self-attribute to the inner world.
Instead of wasting time and energy complaining about the injustice of fate or the wrongs of others, it is better to choose to cultivate your heart in peace, and constantly improve and perfect yourself.
By tapping into the goodness of our hearts and getting close to those who are full of positive energy, our lives will gradually get better and better.
Your magnetic field attracts the same amount of energy
In the work "Caigen Tan", it is said: "There is no completely different realm of bitterness and happiness, and confusion is not two mindsets, the key is whether you can change the perspective of thinking." ”
The journey of life is like the ups and downs of the terrain, with peaks and valleys, smooth roads and twists and turns.
In the face of the ups and downs of life, if you have a negative attitude, life seems to be full of hardships and hardships, but if you can change your concept and deal with it flexibly, you can often meet unexpected beauty around the corner.
No matter when and where you are, you should look at the problem positively and optimistically, and move forward with a firm attitude, then good luck will naturally come quietly.
Once upon a time, there was a scholar who, after several years of hard study, finally ushered in the important moment of entering Beijing to participate in the imperial examination.
On the way to the capital, he chose an inn for a while.
However, during the critical period approaching the exam, he had three rather strange dreams for three consecutive nights: one was to grow vegetables on the wall, the second was to hold an umbrella and wear a cloak on a rainy day, and the third was to sleep back to back with the person he liked.
These dreams frightened the scholar, so he sought out a dream interpreter for answers.
Unexpectedly, the dream interpreter shook his head again and again after hearing this, and gave a pessimistic interpretation: "Planting vegetables on the wall means that it is in vain, it is superfluous to wear an umbrella and a robe on a rainy day, and back-to-back with your sweetheart indicates that you will not have a chance, I am afraid that it will be difficult for you to succeed in this imperial examination." ”
When the scholar heard this, he suddenly felt that his future was bleak and he was depressed.
The innkeeper saw his sad face, so he stepped forward to ask the reason, and after learning about the scholar's dream, the boss laughed and explained: "These three dreams are actually auspicious signs - planting vegetables on the wall symbolizes that you can be named on the gold list, having an umbrella and a robe on a rainy day means that you are ready for everything, and sleeping back to back indicates that you are about to turn over and transfer." ”
After hearing this, the scholar suddenly became enlightened, put aside his previous doubts, and devoted himself to preparing for the exam. A few days later, he confidently took the imperial examination and finally got his wish and successfully entered the imperial examination.
Someone once said: "When people's thoughts begin to germinate, they have already paved a different trajectory for their lives." ”
People are often subtly influenced by their own words, whether it is a blessing or a curse, saying too much often becomes a reality.
When negative energy surrounds you, your surroundings and mental state will also be depressed.
At this point, any challenge may be over-magnified in your eyes, and a trivial issue can become a straw that crushes your life.
The desperate situation we perceive is often a reflection of our own mentality.
If you focus only on the thorns on the flowers, you will inevitably miss its beauty, but those who can find the flowers in the thorns will reap true happiness.
Stick to a positive and optimistic attitude and fill your inner power magnetic field with positive energy, so that you can tactfully avoid many troubles, keep life in order, and let good fortune follow.
Changing destiny starts with changing the magnetic field
The ancients once said: "A gentleman has the knowledge to shape destiny, destiny is created by himself, well-being comes from his own pursuit, and blessings and misfortunes are not determined by heaven, but are all caused by human behavior." ”
In other words, every encounter, every fate, and every achievement in life is in our own hands.
Stanley Ho, who was born into a wealthy family, was undoubtedly a genuine wealthy son until he was thirteen years old, and with his superior family background, he was once addicted to pleasure and neglected his studies, resulting in his academic performance always being at the bottom of his class.
However, when he was thirteen years old, fate dealt him a heavy blow.
His father left the country due to the failure of his stock market investment, and the family went bankrupt in an instant, leaving only orphans and widows to rely on each other.
At that time, Stanley Ho was even denied a bus ride because of the only dime fare, and his former classmates and relatives also looked at him coldly, and no one was willing to lend a hand.
After this hot and cold world, Stanley Ho deeply realized that only by being strong can he win real respect and help.
So, he learned from the pain, began to study hard, and in only one semester, he counterattacked from a scumbag to a top student, and successfully won a scholarship.
At this time, his father's friend Zhou Junnian noticed his diligence and potential and took the initiative to sponsor him to continue his studies.
Stanley Ho also lived up to expectations and was successfully admitted to the University of Hong Kong, and his talent and efforts attracted the attention of Ho Kam Tong, a well-known figure in Hong Kong at that time, and received his support and support.
It can be seen that when Stanley Ho's family was in decline, no one cared, and when he completely changed his habits and showed a positive spirit, nobles naturally flocked to him.
As he himself put it:
"It's human nature that people are often reluctant to form friendships with people who lack value.
When you are despised by others, you should not blame others, but first and foremost to improve yourself and change. ”
In the journey of life, there is no such thing as a shortcut,
If you want to meet outstanding people and climb the peak, you must abandon bad habits, be down-to-earth, and gradually temper and improve yourself.
Only the ocean is wide enough to gather many rivers, and only the plane trees are tall and tall to attract phoenixes.
As your influence grows, you will naturally attract the same level of connections.
When the opportunity has not yet appeared, we should be calm and pragmatic, concentrate on cultivation, and focus on the cultivation of skills and abilities;
When the accumulation reaches a certain level, you will be able to tenaciously get through the long solitude of breaking through the status quo and meeting that best version of yourself.
If you want to meet better people, enjoy a better quality of life, and become a better version of yourself, then you must first calm down, concentrate on cultivation, and enrich and perfect yourself.
The ancients once said: "Insight into everything in the world, all things are born from the heart." ”
No matter what kind of state in the world, or the good or bad experiences experienced in life, it is essentially caused by the magnetic gravitational force in the individual's heart.
When you meet the noble people in your life, you are attracted by your inner strength, and your success, no matter how big or small, is forged by your positive attitude.
If you want to reverse the wheel of fate, the key is to cultivate both internally and externally, and externalize positive and powerful energy in your behavior and internalize it in the depths of your mind, so as to create a positive and powerful magnetic field.
In a person's life, the most noble guide of destiny is actually oneself, and the quality and form of life completely depend on one's own choices and attitudes.
Here, I invite you to like and share, and may you cultivate a warm and powerful spiritual magnetic field, so that your life journey is full of joyful things, and all you meet are good people.