Have you ever noticed that there are always people around you who will say things like this:
"Oh, don't you have any money? The last time I asked you to borrow money, you didn't borrow from me!"
"Heck, our company has been laying off employees recently, and I'm afraid I won't have a job. ”
"Oh, your job is so good, why don't you find a partner?"
……
When we hear these words, don't believe them, because they don't really care about you, they hate you.
Someone said, "If our feelings are all used to be disliked, then what's the point of life?"
We need to know that there is no one in this world who will treat us sincerely.
No matter how nice we are to others, others will not appreciate it.
So, stop trying to please people, because there aren't many people who are really nice to you.
- Unwilling to communicate with you and treat you as a transparent person
There is a good saying: "The most important thing between two people is communication." ”
If a person is unwilling to communicate with you and always treats you as a transparent person, then it means that he does not have deep feelings for you.
I read this story online before:
In order to make her boyfriend pay attention to herself, a girl will send WeChat messages and phone calls with him every day. But she found that her boyfriend would only reply: "You pay more attention to your own rest." ”
Later, the girl finally couldn't take it anymore and she told him the truth: "I don't want to share anything with you, because I feel that my affairs should be solved by myself." ”
The boyfriend was silent for a long time after listening to it, and then said, "Okay, then let's break up!"
So, a person who is unwilling to communicate with you is actually disgusting you.
When he dislikes you, he naturally doesn't care about your feelings. We don't want such people.
- Always saying things that make you sad is actually disgusting you
Someone said, "If you don't love someone, then please don't hurt her, because some people once they fall in love do it for a lifetime." ”
Sometimes, when a person always says something to you that makes you sad, in fact, she doesn't love you anymore in her heart. Because you can't hide your love for someone, even if you don't say it, you will show it in action.
Especially when you find that your lover often says these things to you, it means that he is already disappointed in you. If he loves you, then he will tolerate all your shortcomings. If he doesn't love you, then he will look down on you and dislike you in all kinds.
Someone said, "If a person really loves you, he will not dislike you." ”
Because when a person really loves someone, he becomes very gentle, considerate, and attentive. They will give us all their patience and then think of us wholeheartedly.
And when a person always dislikes us, it means that they don't care about us anymore. So, when a person always says these things to us, don't be stupid enough to believe them anymore. Because they don't really care about us, they dislike us.
- Ignore your business
As the saying goes: "Falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan." ”
If a person always ignores you, then he is disgusted with you. We need to know that people who are really good to you will not ignore your affairs.
He may give you a hand when you need help the most, he may help you when you are struggling, or he may criticize you when you make mistakes.
And those who don't love us tend to be indifferent to us, and when we encounter difficulties, they always prevaricate us with various reasons.
I have a colleague who is one of those people who always says to people, "I don't have any money right now, so I can't help you." ”
Although he himself is not really without money, he is never willing to ask for help.
Because he feels he is capable, he is reluctant to help others.
If a person does not even have the courage to help others, then he must be a person who has no confidence in himself.
If you meet someone who ignores you like this, give up early, because he is not worth cherishing.