Author|Xie Minghong
Editor|Li Chunhui
No matter how old you are, long live love. In the spring season, "Half-familiar Lovers" also ushered in the third season, of course, we still have to solve the old problem - how do adults fall in love?
Under the pressure of a fast-paced lifestyle and work, the space for love has been compressed into a good morning before the morning rush hour and dinner after the evening rush hour. Mature people shout every day that they want to fall in love and yearn for stable intimacy in their hearts, but they don't really invest time and energy, and they are "busy" and "casual". Therefore, the biggest change in this season's "Half-familiar Lovers" is: full-time love.
Don't overestimate your ability to balance work and love, and don't underestimate the charm of dedicating yourself to a relationship. Since working on this abrasive goblin requires us to spend time and energy, it also takes us to be serious about managing love. Speaking of which, the work can be changed, but the object can be changed, but it is very troublesome. Whether you have found the right person or not is directly related to the quality of life for the rest of your life, why is it not worth your special investment and withdrawal from daily life? If you can "touch" it if you move forward smoothly along the previous life track, it should have been "touched" a long time ago.
Therefore, according to Hard Candy Jun's understanding, full-time love is not only to create a peach blossom source of love, but also a realistic reminder: jump out and harvest love. As for what new connotations can be unearthed from "half-cooked", Hard Candy Jun is also suspicious and follows the whole season. It turns out that love is like a dish in every pot, with different methods and ever-changing tastes. At first, the couple who seemed to be "locked" broke up after a few issues, but the two who looked at no intersection came together because of a wonderful fate.
The love affair in the half-familiar world not only has the romance of the CP of the sweet dream, but also the unfinished CP of literacy, and the regret of Xu Li and Lu Jiajun's unsuccessful search for love. Perhaps the meaning of "half-familiar lovers" is not to be able to reap happiness, but to adjust oneself to a state of "ready". After going through the turmoil, he is still full of expectations and confidently holds the number plate of love.
Island Love
"I didn't want to spend the winter, I was tired of being heavy, so I flew to the tropical islands to swim. "I didn't expect this lyrics to be realized by "Half-familiar Lovers 3". The warm sea breeze of Sanya is accompanied by the sweet smell of coconut water, and the sound of rustling waves covers up the words of confession. I don't know how cheerful I would be if I could have a relationship in such an environment.
The magic of love is that every time it is written, it is a new story. The island love of "Half-familiar Lovers 3" is like opening a mature love illustrated book at twice the speed. The throbbing, sweetness, poignancy, and helplessness are all delivered in a more infectious way in the show, achieving a viewing experience of "watching others fall in love more than yourself".
In "Half-familiar Lovers 3", each pair of CPs has a different mode of getting along, which is not only based on the diversity of love, but also based on the diversity of people. The general public is afraid of breaking through the social barrier, and the social bull controls the audience. Zodiac enthusiasts are also happy to analyze the ambiguity of the water sign, the firmness of the earth sign, and the scorching direction of the wind.
Not to mention the MBTI, it is not too cool to self-test the offspring to enter the program test. According to Hard Candy Jun, Yu Jingyang is definitely an INFJ, and he is a little afraid of society at first, and he looks like an E person in the back, warming everyone at any time. Li Mengdie and Jiang Junlin once again proved that ENFP is the natural trap of INFJ, which is completely on the snorting point of Hard Candy Jun. Chen Qiaowei comforted Xu Li, who is a very typical ENFJ, because she has been drenched in the rain, so she will take the initiative to give others umbrellas.
Among several pairs of lovers, the synonym CP is the earliest to go both ways, and the high-end ambiguous pull is addictive. Ling Yi said that he wanted to see Ma Hanhan dance, and Ma Jinlong put forward conditions like a child: "Then you kiss me and I'll go." When he left the hut to give a gift, Ling Yi gave Lao Ma a lip balm, "Because the mouth should be used to say gentle words." ”
It really happens that CP being together is a source of joy, in Xie Nan's words, it is "weird, cute and lovely, without a head". Wang Zhen is always humorous, and Chen Qiaowei will pay for every cold joke. The lighthouse escape and the avatar who knows, let the audience get a stalk in the eyes of the lover. Please rest assured that the program team had already paid for the time when they escaped.
"Sweet Dream Descending" is the mildest but also the hottest, the warm and lovely Jiang Junlin and the domineering and cheerful Li Mengdie create a huge contrast and cuteness. Li Mengdie has always been worried that as a "catfish", she appeared in front of Jiang Junlin too late. And on the day of confession, Jiang Junlin solemnly told Da Meng: "Without you, my story has not yet begun." "Wow, I feel my soul numb when I see this. Kelvin generally doesn't confess, and when he confesses, it's a lore.
The road of literacy CP is tortuous but finally bright, the sunrise by the sea and the appropriate song "Meet" have the romantic atmosphere of an idol drama. In Su Rui, what we see is to open our hearts and let go of acceptance. Yu Jingyang is a firm choice of "I like you even if you don't get a response, I will silently stick to it".
In addition to love, sincere and warm friendship group portraits are also a highlight of "Half-familiar Lovers 3". There is no competition between them, more like brothers and girlfriends in a shared house. Jiang Junlin, who has always talked little, has endless words when he sees Lu Jiajun. Su Su, who was full of human attributes, revealed his heart in front of Jiang Junlin and took off his strong defense.
In addition to love, see yourself
In The Art of Love, Fromm says: "Love can only arise between two people who break out of their own circles of existence and unite with each other, and at the same time each person can experience himself out of his own center." Therefore, the "lover first loves yourself" in the mouth of the love center may not be poisonous chicken soup.
In addition to love, "Half-familiar Lovers 3" shines a glimpse of the spiritual world of each individual in the hut, which is a very rare humanistic care in Lianzong. As adults, when we engage in an intimate relationship, we must not only have the ability to deal with each other's problems, but also have the courage to look at ourselves and reconcile with the past.
The Shura field of "Half-familiar Lovers 3" is not a tense drama, but our helplessness in the face of intimacy. The scars we thought we had overcome or forgotten could once again stand in the way of a new relationship. Escape is not a way out, only by facing it head-on can there be a way out.
Everyone in the hut has more or less found themselves in the 21-day search process. Su Su was once obsessed with Wang Zhen, but ignored Yu Jingyang's kindness to her. In this three-way intersection of love, Wang Zhen clearly expressed that he belonged to his heart, Su Su was waiting for Wang Zhen to understand her inner struggle, and Yu Jingyang was waiting for an opportunity. In the snow of the dark night, Su Su and Yu Jingyang walked silently. This scene was thought to be over by half-acquainted observers, but Teacher Du Sujuan pointed out that this could be their beginning. Hard Candy Jun who crossed over from the tenth issue wants to say: Teacher Du is worshiped by me.
Xu Li once had a good impression of Jiang Junlin, but because of the closure of her heart, she chose to wait and see, misunderstood her mind and missed the ever-changing love. Jiang Junlin also generously admitted that he had a good impression at first sight, and just as he was about to develop further, Xu Li's "stop" seemed to hit his outstretched hand. Xu Li sincerely apologized, but they could never go back to that terrace dinner night.
It's a coincidence that CP seems to be relaxed and comfortable, but in fact, it is avoiding deep communication. This is also a common disease in contemporary love, a kind of alcoholic friend called "couple". It wasn't until they learned of their similar experiences at the Frozen Lodge that their relationship took a step further. Wang Zhen seems to be looking at their ten-year relationship from the perspective of his ex-wife for the first time, and Chen Qiaowei also has a deeper understanding of her marriage siege at that time. The boomerang that grows up is like this, and after many years, it hits the center of the eyebrows.
Seeing Shao Jiarong regain the piano that he hadn't played for 17 years, Shen Zheng said: "You have taken a big step on the road to healing yourself today. "Yes, on the surface, this is a Lian Zong guest who works hard to practice the piano and a beautiful man smiles. But in reality, it is a boy who is finally able to face the pain in his heart and regain the pride of the past.
And Shao Jiarong's listening also allowed Shen Zheng's strength to fight the disease to be gently grounded. The two ended up playing with their hands on the piano stand, and it was the two butterflies with injuries healing each other. Although the last two are still above the status of friends, this deep resonance is not inferior to the real couple's relationship.
"Half-Familiar Lovers 3" actually gave the people in the hut two opportunities. One is an opportunity to harvest love, and the other is an opportunity to re-understand oneself. Love is seeking common ground while reserving differences, and it is also seeking common ground while reserving differences. I love you not only because you are fascinating, but also because I see myself in you at some point.
How can Lianzong go further?
The subtlety of love is fleeting, and "Half-Familiar Lovers 3" makes a dojo in this fleeting. The hand-holding lights in Da Meng and Kelvin's car are dim and ambiguous, and it really happens that after CP has a deep talk, the navigation should be commented on "Although it is slow, we are still moving forward", Su Su and Yu Jingyang found that the lights were turned off in the snow, and Yu Jingyang asked: "Are we still going forward......
These small moments are where love turns decay into magic. Compared with the solemnity and unrepeatability of confessions, they are more mundane and repetitive. In an intimate relationship, small touches and small romances can happen repeatedly.
It should be said that the breakthrough of "Half-Familiar Lovers 3" is an endogenous self-transformation and breakthrough. On the basis of the "half-cooked IP" that has completed the good word-of-mouth accumulation and the construction of users' minds, the program has continued to seek inward for three consecutive seasons, excavate more dimensional and three-dimensional youth love ecology, and escort it with delicate production and operation capabilities.
On the one hand, the 21-day full-time love has allowed the show to have a fuller love interaction. After withdrawing from the anxiety of reality, love becomes more pure and surging. As Mr. Du said, the hut is not a utopia, but a bridge to reality. The seeds of love cultivated through the hut can be further tested by reality and continue to grow. The unfinished literacy CP, after leaving the hut, went to each other's cities, ate hot pot, watched the movie, and did what they wanted to do. Although it is still in the stage of deepening its understanding, it is already a huge step forward from the inside of the hut.
On the other hand, "Half-familiar Lovers 3" broadens the sipping point of Lianzong, not only the sweetness of love, but also the rare friendship and reconciliation with self. Through the main thread of love, it takes care of the lives and ideals of contemporary young people, so that audiences from different circles can see their own shadows. wants to have a patriarch like Lu Jiajun who cares about and takes care of himself, and envy Su Su and Jiang Junlin for talking about everything, and becoming another wishing pool in the audience's comments.
The setting of the frozen story pushes the meaning of "Half-familiar Lovers 3" to a broader youth spiritual world. The frozen past may not be completely related to love, but also the sealing of some pain points in growth. The note that Su Su has kept is a reminder to become stronger. Ice is not the goal, ablation is. Holding on to the defects is not the goal, reconciling with oneself is.
Love is present, and so are romantic feelings. In Hard Candy Jun's heart, the peak moment of the first season is what Lola said to Wang Nengneng "that kiss one"; the best tidbits in the second season are that the freezing rain in Hubei accelerated the speed of the engagement period between the two parties in Tianchao Sanshui; and the most sweet highlight in the third season is the kiss after Da Meng said to Jiang Junlin, "You are my boyfriend, aren't you". Hard Candy Jun can't say that XX is the ceiling of Lianzong or something, because the touches they gave me at that time were all top-notch, and they couldn't be compared, let alone compared.
Semi-mature IP has gone through three seasons, and the iterative growth of it can be described as significant. Love is precious, but individual growth and spiritual enrichment are also one of the cores of "half-ripe". The so-called half-ripe means that we spend our youth as a price, understand what we want and what we don't want, and when love comes, we still take the initiative to embrace it, and we are still enthusiastic and simple.