Many parents who have daughters like to dress their daughters beautifully. Every time I take my daughter out, the neighbors will praise my daughter for how good-looking, and at this time, parents feel very happy and feel a special sense of accomplishment. At the same time, it can also allow her daughter to cultivate a good temperament from an early age. But what if the family is a boy?
Let me give you an example, when I was pregnant, I really wanted to have a daughter so that I could help her dress up beautifully. But I ended up giving birth to a son, and to be honest, I was a little disappointed. At first, I also tried to dress up my son to be handsome, but my husband always said that boys should be poor, otherwise they will not value things when they grow up. I listened to him, and it became casual to buy clothes for my son. Later, my son got older and dirty, and I didn't care much about him all day. As a result, he slowly became sloppy, and now that he is in elementary school, he still doesn't know how to match clothes. I taught him many times, but he couldn't remember.
As another example, my son was very naughty when he was a child, and he was always dirty, which gave me a lot of headaches. I thought he would be fine when he grew up, so I didn't pay much attention to him. However, now he is not only not getting better, but even more sloppy. Every time I see the neighbor's daughter, dressed up beautifully and cleanly, I feel a little envious, and I feel that it is better to have a son than to have a daughter.
In fact, many parents think that girls can't be sloppy, but they don't care too much about boys. As a result, many boys dress ill-fitting and even start wearing nondescript clothes when they are in elementary school. This is all because parents do not properly guide boys on how to dress themselves from an early age. Girls need to be neat, and so are boys. A person's appearance is like a business card, and temperament is as important to girls as it is to boys. Therefore, parents should really guide their children well and let them develop good habits of cleanliness and tidiness.
A few tips for parents
Rule 1: Dress up the boy simply and don't make it too weird
Adults have their own aesthetics, but when dressing up your child, don't forget that they are still children. Don't use an adult's eye to choose clothes for them. Some parents dress boys in suits, put melon skin hats on their heads, and even drag pigtails, which looks really strange and is not good for children. To dress up your child, it is best to show their innocent and lively side by choosing brightly colored and simple clothes. Studies have also shown that children prefer bright colors such as red, yellow, blue, and green. Therefore, when choosing clothes for your child, try to choose those with lively colors and simple and generous.
Rule 2: When dressing up a boy, don't forget to care about their health
Children are growing up, so be careful not to affect your health when dressing them. For example, tights can restrict your child's activities and make them uncomfortable. Some parents find elastic pants convenient, but they are not good for boys. It's best to choose the kind of bib pants that have buttons on both sides, which are loose and comfortable. Boys sweat easily and have soft hair, so it's best not to give them perms or high ponytails. If you really want to tie braids, you should also choose a good rubber band, or add some wool. Also, don't put makeup on boys, the chemicals in cosmetics can hurt their skin. In short, when grooming your child, don't forget to care about their health.
Rule 3: It is also important to dress up the boy and save money
Now that the living conditions are better, when buying clothes for children, you still have to consider the affordability. Of course, it is okay to buy famous brands, but it is easy for children to feel that life should be luxurious, which is not conducive to their growth. Finally, don't forget to dress the boy for the correct gender. Don't let them dress as men or women as women, it's not good for their physical and mental development. As a parent, respect your child's gender identity and don't dress them up according to your preferences or expectations.
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