Foreword: Sending to a nursing home is for the elderly, not for sinning!
Let's look at this, it's really unpleasant. On April 25, a woman in Quwo County, Shanxi Province, said that her 60-year-old father was tied to an iron pillar in a nursing home in Lechang Town, looking as if he had been abused. Think about it, the old man is so old, he should enjoy pure happiness, but who would have thought that he would suffer such a crime?
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The woman said that her father had been tied up several times and had recently been hospitalized because of the incident, and the doctor said he had a cerebral hemorrhage. She cried in the video and said that sending her father to a nursing home was to make his life better, not to make him suffer.
Later, a reporter went to find out, and it turned out that the old man's cerebellum was atrophied, and he couldn't take care of himself, as well as skin diseases. But the nursing home said that he was tied up to prevent him from hurting himself. The reporter called the person in charge of the nursing home a lot, but he never got through. At present, the civil affairs bureau and police of Quwo County have begun to investigate the matter.
Watching the video really makes people angry, even if the old man has a skin disease, it is easy to scratch and scratch unconsciously, and it will not be tied to an iron pillar for others, what kind of logic is this, is it not that if you are sick and do not go for treatment, you will be better if you tie up your hands and get sick? People spend money to send nursing homes to let you take care of them, not to let you be tied up and suffered!
Netizens hotly discussed:
A pair of parents can raise multiple children, but multiple children cannot afford to raise a pair of parents......
Netizens said: Nursing homes are illegal, and there is no reason for those who have children to send their parents to nursing homes, and your parents gave birth to you, and at that time the conditions were more difficult than now, and they didn't send you to full care!
Netizens said: People are really pitiful when they are old, raising children to prevent old age is just a nice word! Everyone will be old, how do you treat others now and how your descendants treat you!
The world is getting more and more incomprehensible. Do you know that many people go to nursing homes nowadays, obviously they are paid, but everyone always likes to say that those children who send their parents to nursing homes are not filial. If you think about it, many families are only children, or the children have gone to other cities, and the parents are old and there is no one to take care of them, so going to a nursing home is actually a good choice.
Just like me, when I get old, if I can't even cook, I will also choose to go to a nursing home. I don't want to trouble my children, who have their own lives to live. Moreover, even if the parents are old and sometimes confused, we can't tie them up, that would be too inhumane.
To be honest, the problem of nursing homes is really the problem of the nursing home itself in many cases, and it has nothing to do with whether the children are filial or not. Some children may not really know how their parents are doing in the nursing home, or they may not be able to manage it if they do. And those unfilial children, even if they know about it, they will not pursue it, let alone care about it.
Epilogue;
Nursing homes, which are supposed to be places for the elderly to enjoy their old age, are full of love and care. But I didn't expect that there was an old man tied to an iron pillar, which was simply unacceptable. The elderly are old, and they need to be taken care of physically and mentally, so how can we treat them like this?
I heard that people in nursing homes say that the elderly are tied up to prevent them from harming themselves. But I don't think the elderly can use this way even if they are not sober sometimes. There should be a more professional approach, such as chatting with them, or taking some medicine to help them calm down. I think I really need to look into it. The relevant departments should take immediate action to find out the truth and give justice to the elderly. Those irresponsible nursing homes and personnel should also be punished as they deserve.
We should also care more about the elderly, especially those who cannot take care of themselves. What they need is not only food and clothing, but also our companionship and love. We also need to tell them how to protect themselves and how to deal with things so that they can live with more peace of mind. The life of the elderly is not easy, we should respect them and love them. I hope this matter can attract everyone's attention, let us work together to give the elderly a warmer and better home.
What do you think about this?