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How easy is it to talk about? The traces on that stage came and went, and a generation of rich people were dazzled overnight!
It was a Foxconn year-end party in 2007, and neon lights flashed in the night sky of Taipei. On stage, a dancer in his early 30s is glamorous to the rhythm. Although her dancing posture is unconventional, it is full of introverted charm, elegant and charming, revealing intellectual temperament, which is simply the most charming scenery on the scene.
In this way, an inadvertent look back made a shopping mall old fritter and a corporate giant worth hundreds of billions of dollars fascinated - he is Guo Taiming, the founder of Foxconn Group who was able to make a career in Taiwan with the funding of his ex-wife Lin Shuru. Once upon a time, this merry president didn't know how many shopping mall celebrities he had seduced, but now he is also an ordinary dancer.
The dancer's name is Zeng Xinying. She has had an innate talent for the art of music and dance since she was a child, and she was born in a scholarly family, and she was born with an intellectual and elegant temperament. This temperament is imprinted in her dancing, even if it is not a trace of state, she still has an elegant and calm demeanor.
Perhaps in the eyes of ordinary people, a little dancer wanting to impress Kuo Shao Guo Taiming is tantamount to drinking water to quench his thirst. But in Zeng Xinying, what Guo Taiming saw was another shadow of Lin Shuru: innocent and kind, frank in doing things, and with a noble character that does not eat softly.
In the face of Terry Gou's countless overtures and gifts, Zeng Xinying has always been humble and polite. Once, Guo Taiming privately stuffed her with a stack of cash to use as a tip, Zeng Xinying returned it without hesitation, and said earnestly: "Please take the next class seriously." "
A word to wake up the dreamer. can buy many people's banknotes, but in Zeng Xinying's eyes, it is like nothing. She told Guo Taiming with actions: I am not the master who can get it by relying on these, let alone the kind of person who covets the wealth of the wealthy. Her independent personality deeply attracted Guo Taiming, who once started with human funding, and reminded him of Lin Shuru, who was worth pursuing with all his might.
As a result, the nightmare of marrying into a wealthy family gradually drifted away, and the fragrance of love bloomed in the hearts of the two. After some warm and slow communication and understanding, two people who seem to belong to different worlds met and passed a love process together, and finally entered the palace of marriage in 2008.
As soon as this marriage across classes and ages was exposed by the media, it immediately caused an uproar. Netizens are really envious, jealous and hateful of Guo Taiming's "young and powerful", but there are doubts about Zeng Xinying's motive for marrying into a wealthy family: Is she only for profit? Is she greedy for Guo Taiming's money?
However, Zeng Xinying gave the most powerful response with practical actions. Although she has been in the noble position of Mrs. Guo, she still adheres to her own way of life, in addition to serving the backbone of this 10 billion business kingdom wholeheartedly, she also runs her own dance studio on her own, and she does not slack off in her career, and does not eat any idle food of the Guo family.
The way she teaches her students is the same as in the past, and no one in the classroom can tell who she is today. Even though she works in the Guo family's huge mansion, she is still indifferent to fame and fortune and concentrates on studying dance. She has single-handedly handled the education of her three children, passing on her love for music and dance from generation to generation.
Such a noble temperament and tenacious character naturally won the appreciation of Guo's father-in-law and mother-in-law. Nowadays, everyone in the Guo family respects Zeng Xinying, and even the eldest son whom Guo Taiming once avoided is now filial to Zeng Xinying as his biological mother. With such a high degree of support and recognition of the entire Guo family, coupled with her tenacity and diligence, Zeng Xinying finally sat firmly on the throne of the hostess of the Guo family's tens of billions of assets.
However, whether it can be worthy of its name and long-term prosperity, there is still an important test waiting for her - how to control this tens of billions of business empires. Fortunately, Zeng Xinying never indulged in the lust of dogs and horses, but was cautious in words and deeds, diligent and thrifty. She has donated millions of dollars to the disaster area, and has taken the lead in promoting thrift and thrift at home to curb extravagance and waste.
Even working in the dance studio, she specially takes some housework as a daily lesson, teaching her daughters housework skills such as laundry and cooking, so as to ensure that they will not be too arrogant and lascivious in the future. Zeng Xinying is well versed in the traditional virtues of learning to be rich and not lewd, knowing honor and humiliation, and she knows that only by being innocent and humble can she stabilize her position in the Guo family.
This kind of self-cultivation and self-discipline character of course also makes Zeng Xinying have a clear conscience, in the face of all kinds of criticism and doubts from the outside world, she never responds, but uses practical actions to interpret the life concept of "truth, goodness and beauty" little by little. Her "goodness" is reflected in her contribution to philanthropy; "Beauty" is embodied in the elegant and intellectual temperament; "True" refers to her persistent pursuit of life and career, and has won the respect of others with hard work.
Looking back on her legendary life along the way, Zeng Xinying did not rely on her beautiful bones and phoenixes, but on her noble character and frank standards. It is these inner temperaments and ethics that allow her to excel in the melee of a wealthy family and become a well-deserved hostess of the Guo family's tens of billions of assets. From an obscure dancer to a wealthy housewife of supreme glory, she embodies the eternal truth that "virtue lives forever".
Whether an ordinary dancer can successfully marry into a wealthy family still depends on her own self-cultivation. It is not enough to have a gaudy appearance, it is necessary to have a matching noble temperament and tenacity. Zeng Xinying has used her life to interpret this truth: she treats people with humility and courtesy, takes diligence and thrift as her virtue, is not only good at running a family, but also works diligently to support herself, and is also enthusiastic about public welfare and charity. It is this all-round cultivation of both internal and external cultivation that has won her the support and respect of the Guo family, and has become the master of the tens of billions of wealthy families.
However, it is not easy to judge the merits and demerits of a person. From the perspective of the entertainment industry, Zeng Xinying, a dancer, can marry into a wealthy family, which is undoubtedly an inspirational story that has reached the pinnacle. But from the perspective of traditional values, what she did inevitably undermined some moral codes and gave people the impression of a "little three".
But no matter what, she finally "fulfilled" this cross-class marriage and found a new world for herself. From this point of view alone, Zeng Xinying's life wisdom and philosophy of life are worth savoring. She has been tolerant of all rivers, educated, and has lived a wonderful life in her own way.
Therefore, it is difficult for the world to judge the merits and demerits of a person. All we can do is try to understand everyone's situation and accept different life values with an open and inclusive mind. Just as Zeng Xinying explained to us "kindness, beauty, and great wisdom" with practical actions, everyone should pursue their own life value and meaning in their own way, and should not be limited and shackled by some inherent concepts.
So, what qualities and standards of conduct do you think Zeng Xinying is most worth learning from? What unique personal charm has helped her overcome many obstacles and finally reach the height of her dream life? Or, what do you think of her marrying into a wealthy family? Everyone is welcome to speak freely and share and discuss together.
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