Everyone's aesthetic and receptive level is different, especially in a family setting, where family members may have their own expectations and standards for future family members. But it's important to understand and respect each person's individuality and choices.
In this case, the man brought the blind date girl home, but his family could not accept her dress, especially the color of her hair, which was considered whiter than her grandmother's hair. This reflects the first impressions and possible biases of family members about the girl.
First of all, the man should communicate with his family to explain how he feels about the girl and why she chose to dress this way. He can help the family understand that everyone's appearance and style are unique, and that doesn't mean she's not fit to be a part of the family.
Second, if the family has a strong negative view of the girl's dress, the man can consider working with the girl to explore whether there are adjustments that can be made to better fit into the family environment. But this should be done on the premise of respecting the girl's personal choice, not forcing her to change her style.
Above all, the family should be a place of love and inclusion. Family members should be accepted and respected regardless of their dress, appearance, and personality. If family members are not receptive to a girl's dress, then they should also try to understand and accept her personality and choices, rather than using it as a reason to exclude her.
In conclusion, for this situation, communication and understanding are key. Men should help build a relationship of mutual respect and understanding between the family and the girl to ensure that the blind date can go smoothly and lay a good foundation for future family relationships.