Every time I went to my mother-in-law's house, what I said was questioned by my mother-in-law, as if I was not sensible.
It's a very simple thing, but she just doesn't believe me.
At this time, I really felt that I was an outsider in my in-law's house.
In the in-laws' family, our words and deeds tend to receive more attention and judgment.
Sometimes, even the most simple topic or suggestion is questioned and questioned.
This made us feel unable to integrate into the big family of our in-laws, and our hearts were full of helplessness and coldness.
My in-laws' customs were very different from mine, and I tried to adapt to them, but I always felt out of place with them.
My mother-in-law always didn't understand why I couldn't do what they did, and it made me feel like an outsider.
Cultural differences are a common problem for in-laws.
We may have been born and raised in places with different habits and values than our in-laws.
Despite our efforts to fit in, some customs and traditions still alienate us and became one of the reasons why we were seen as outsiders in our in-laws' house.
Every time my relatives get together, I always feel like I'm a superfluous presence.
My relatives seemed to turn a blind eye to me, and no one took the initiative to communicate with me.
This feeling of being marginalized made me understand that I will always be an outsider in my in-laws' family.
At family gatherings, we want to be recognized and noticed by our families.
Sometimes our relatives seem to ignore our existence and focus only on their loved ones.
This feeling of being marginalized makes us more aware that we are always an outsider in our in-laws' family.
In the division of household chores, I always take on most of the responsibilities, while my mother-in-law only does a small part.
She always seemed to think that I should take on more of the housework.
This made me feel that I had no status in my in-laws' family, just an exploited outsider.