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I came to China at the age of 12, was adopted as a daughter by my in-laws, returned to Vietnam at the age of 21, and now I just want to go back to China

author:Refreshing starry sky

Preamble:

Recently, a heartwarming story has caused heated discussions on the Internet, a girl from Vietnam, Xiao Jin, successfully found her biological mother and had a touching reunion with her in her hometown. The reason why this story has attracted much attention is not only because it is full of warmth and touching, but more importantly, Xiaojin's experience has brought people a lot of food for thought and inspiration.

I came to China at the age of 12, was adopted as a daughter by my in-laws, returned to Vietnam at the age of 21, and now I just want to go back to China

1. Identity and cultural identity

As a Vietnamese girl, Kim was sold by relatives to Henan, China, at the age of 12 and then adopted by a kind Chinese couple, and began her journey of growing up in China. In China, Xiaojin does not have an ID card, but she works hard to learn Chinese, adapt to life and study in China, and also build a deep relationship with her adoptive parents. At the age of 17, in order to live, Xiaojin came to Guangdong alone to work, although life was not easy, but she still insisted on working hard, and sent the money she earned back to her adoptive parents, doing her filial piety.

Through his own efforts, Xiao Jin finally succeeded in finding his biological mother and had a touching reunion with his mother. Such an experience will undoubtedly have a profound impact on Jin's identity and cultural identity. Over the years in China, Jin has become accustomed to Chinese life and culture, while also building a wealth of interpersonal relationships, and this identity and cultural identity may become an important factor in Jin's future life choices and decisions.

I came to China at the age of 12, was adopted as a daughter by my in-laws, returned to Vietnam at the age of 21, and now I just want to go back to China

2. Family Relationships and Responsibilities

In her heart, the importance of adoptive parents is irreplaceable, so she has extremely deep feelings for her adoptive parents, and at the same time shoulders the responsibility and filial piety to her adoptive parents. Although he has found his biological mother, Xiao Jin is not in a hurry to leave China, but chooses to stay in China to continue to live and work, which may have contradictions and conflicts between identity and family responsibility.

In the future, Kim may face a variety of choices and choices, and family relationships and responsibilities may become an important reference for her decision-making, whether staying in China or returning to Vietnam, it will take deep thought and courage to face it, and no matter what choice she makes, we should give her understanding and support.

I came to China at the age of 12, was adopted as a daughter by my in-laws, returned to Vietnam at the age of 21, and now I just want to go back to China

3. Transnational exchanges and development

Xiao Jin's upbringing fully demonstrates the importance of cross-border exchanges, as she studied and worked in China, and returned to Vietnam to find her relatives, which will undoubtedly bring rich experiences and insights to her life, and also bring more opportunities and challenges for her future development.

Transnational communication has become a common phenomenon in today's society, which can not only promote friendly exchanges between different countries, but also allow individuals to grow and improve in an all-round way, broaden their international vision, and enhance their cross-cultural communication ability, which is very beneficial for future development.

Epilogue:

Xiao Jin's story may be just a microcosm of many individuals in transnational contexts, but her experience has brought us a lot of inspiration and thinking, identity, family responsibility, and transnational development, which are all issues that we need to seriously consider in today's society.

In the face of increasingly diverse social realities, how should we understand and tolerate individuals from different backgrounds? How should we recognize and adhere to our own cultural identity on the road of our own growth? There may be no standard answers to these questions, but we can listen to more voices, feel and understand the different stories around us, draw strength and courage from them, and believe that with each other's tolerance and encouragement, everyone can bravely pursue their dreams and create their own wonderful life.

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