My significant other and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for a long time. Once upon a time, we were also like a glue couple, but the trivialities and pressures of life gradually changed all that.
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It was an ordinary night, and we were arguing over a few trivial things. Anger and disappointment filled my heart, and I couldn't help but shout to him, "I've really had enough! From tonight, let's sleep in separate rooms!" and he was silent, without rebuttal, and seemed to acquiesce in the decision.
Since then, we've each spent each night in a different room. At first, I thought it was good, at least I didn't have to face each other's quarrels and conflicts. But as time went on, I felt a deep sense of loneliness and loss.
One day, I was looking through our old photos in my room, and those fond memories flooded back to me. I think back to the happy times we used to spend together, the days when we traveled, cooked together, and laughed together. Tears blurred my vision, and I asked myself: How did we get here?
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I decided to talk to him. That night, I knocked on his door. He sat on the bed with a hint of exhaustion and helplessness in his eyes.
"We can't go on like this, this life is not what I want. I said.
He looked up at me and said in a low voice, "I don't want to do this either, but the problem between us seems to be unsolvable." ”
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"No, there must be a way. We can't just give up on our marriage. I said eagerly.
We began to reminisce about the good things that had been and poured out our inner feelings to each other. We found out that we still love each other deeply, but we are blinded by the pressures and contradictions of life.
"Let's work together to change from tomorrow. He said, taking my hand.
From that day on, we started trying to rebuild our relationship. Together, we made some plans, such as scheduling a weekly date and chatting together every night to share each other's feelings. We also began to pay more attention to each other's needs and learn to be understanding and tolerant.
Although there are still traces of sleeping in separate rooms, our marriage is slowly coming back to life. We know that this is a long and difficult road, but we are willing to move forward hand in hand, for our love, for our family.
As the days passed, our efforts finally paid off. We have regained our former intimacy and tacit understanding, and sleeping in separate rooms has gradually become a memory of the past.
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Now, we look back on the days when we slept in separate rooms, and we are full of emotion. It makes us understand the preciousness and fragility of marriage, and it also makes us appreciate everything we have now. We believe that as long as we have love in our hearts, our marriage can always be happy.