In life, we often encounter all kinds of people and things, some people can have the courage to admit their mistakes after making mistakes, and humbly accept the criticism and correction of others, while some people will choose to make unnecessary excuses, or even shamelessly cover up their mistakes. Recently, a news about plumber Jing found that his wife Feng had an affair with the leader Zhu has attracted widespread attention, and Feng actually used "it won't be bad after a few clicks, don't care" to justify, such behavior undoubtedly makes people feel very shocked and indignant.
1. The nature of justification
The so-called "justification" is actually derived from the 37th chapter of the "Chronicles of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty" written by Feng Menglong in the Ming Dynasty, which refers to the interpretation when one of his own opinions or behaviors is criticized by others, and the antonym of justification is sophistry and sophistry.
2. Feng's erroneous defense
In real life, we often encounter some people like Feng, who obviously make mistakes, but still choose to cover up their mistakes with meaningless justification, and even think that others have no right to accuse themselves, which will not only make people feel helpless, but also make the people around them feel extremely disgusted.
Take Feng's extramarital affair as an example, knowing that his behavior has seriously violated marital morality, but the party concerned can still take it for granted to justify "it won't be bad after a few hits, don't care", such an excuse not only can't get her rid of responsibility, but will make more people question and condemn it.
3. The importance of self-reflection
In fact, no matter what the situation, when we make mistakes, the courage to admit mistakes and self-reflection is more important than useless justification, because only by correctly recognizing our mistakes can we improve and progress, and meaningless justification will only make others question our character, and even be ridiculed and ridiculed by others.
Feng's extramarital affair, if she can seriously reflect on her mistakes and have the courage to admit her mistakes, maybe her husband will give her a chance to start over, but unfortunately, she chose a meaningless defense, even if such a marriage starts again, it may not have a happy ending.
Fourth, maintain the concept of social morality
In addition, in the face of some behaviors that obviously violate social morality and moral concepts, we should also have the courage to supervise by public opinion, and publicly condemn such behaviors, so that under the pressure of public opinion, they can assume their due responsibility and punishment, instead of evading punishment through unnecessary justification, so as to better maintain social fairness, justice and good atmosphere.
Epilogue:
No matter what the situation, we should learn to have the courage to admit mistakes, humbly accept the criticism and correction of others, and when others make mistakes, we should not easily believe their meaningless justification, because such justification is likely to be just others are making strong arguments, and we should have the courage to expose and condemn some behaviors that violate social morality and moral concepts, so that such people can consciously reflect and review in the condemnation of public opinion, so as to arouse more people's attention and thinking about social morality.