In love, we often lose ourselves and fall into selfless giving, only to find that the other person does not cherish our emotions. At this point, how should we choose?
Let's dive into this with some real stories.
Xiao Liu and her boyfriend used to have a passionate relationship. She was always wholeheartedly committed and unconditionally devoted to him. However, when she needed his support and understanding, she often felt lonely and helpless.
When Xiao Liu's boyfriend was cold and ruthless to her, she chose to leave. Even though it wasn't easy to break up, she eventually got out of that unhealthy relationship. Because she understands that she deserves better.
Another story involves the issue of borrowing money. Some people always borrow money from us and complain about how life is not going well. However, when we need them, we find that they always find all kinds of excuses to avoid them. Such people are likely to simply use our compassion to satisfy their own selfish desires.
And a person who truly loves us will not let us bear too much financial pressure.
Cold violence in relationships is also an issue to be wary of. When our significant other is indifferent to us during an argument and ignores us for days, it often means that they lack the ability to solve problems and lack respect and care for us.
To make matters worse, some people will behave infidelity in their relationships. They are always in an ambiguous relationship with other members of the opposite sex, but they are indifferent to us. Such people are likely to no longer love us, so what's the point of us being nostalgic anymore?
In relationships, we need to learn to protect ourselves and stay sober and sane. When we find that a person is not worth more from us, we should leave decisively and stop being nostalgic. Because everyone deserves to be cherished, not hurt and neglected.
Let's work together to find people who truly love and respect us, and live happily ever after.