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I am an ordinary Chinese housewife named Li Ying. My husband Wang Yong and I have lived in this small city for more than 20 years, and our greatest pride has always been our son Xiao Ming. Xiao Ming is smart, sensible, and kind, which makes us extremely proud. Now, Xiao Ming is finally getting married, which is a happy event for us, but also a worrying thing.
During this mixed day, my husband and I have been busy preparing for our son's wedding. The son found a beautiful girl named Xiaoyu, and her family background is also good. Although my husband and I don't know Xiaoyu very well, looking at her gentle and considerate appearance, I believe that she will definitely become a good daughter-in-law of our family.
On the eve of the wedding, I decided to buy myself a 50,000 yuan jade bracelet, which is my long-cherished wish. I feel that as a mother, I should also have a gift to remember. So, I secretly went to the largest jade shop in the city, picked out a delicate jade bracelet, and wore it on my wrist with great pleasure.
I can't wait to get home and share my newly bought jade bracelet with my husband. When I opened the door, I was surprised to see a scene. Xiao Ming and Xiao Yu were sitting in the living room, their faces a little solemn.
I walked over and said with a smile, "What's the matter, you two look like you're a little annoyed." ”
Xiao Ming frowned, sighed and said, "Mom, Dad, in fact, we have something to discuss with you." ”
My husband and I looked at each other and couldn't help but feel a little worried. Could it be that something went wrong with the wedding?
I held back the anxiety in my heart, smiled and said, "Whatever, just say it, Mom and Dad will support you." ”
Xiaoyu raised her head, looked at me with some hesitation, and said softly, "Mother-in-law, it's actually about your jade bracelet." ”
I was stunned for a moment, but I didn't expect them to discuss this little matter with me. I smiled and said, "What's wrong with my jade bracelet?"
Xiaoyu said a little hesitantly: "I know mother-in-law, you like jade, but the price of this jade bracelet is too expensive, we don't think there is any need to spend so much money." ”
I was a little unhappy when I heard this, and I felt that as the first memorable gift in my life, the price of this jade bracelet was not too much. I couldn't help but say a little angrily: "This is my own money, do I have to get your permission to buy something?" Besides, I don't like jade bracelets to show off, but to keep them as souvenirs. ”
Xiao Ming saw that I was a little angry, and said busily: "Mom, we didn't say that we wouldn't let you buy it, we just think that the price is a bit high, can't you buy a cheaper one?"
I became even more angry when I heard this, and felt that my son and daughter-in-law did not respect me enough. I glared and said, "You don't think it's your turn to point fingers at me no matter how much I spend my own money! Besides, this price is not too high in my opinion, you don't know. ”
When my husband saw me arguing with the children, he hurriedly stepped forward and said, "Okay, okay, don't be angry, everyone." We can discuss the matter of this jade bracelet again. ”
I listened to my husband and calmed down a little, but I was still a little unhappy. I turned my head to look at Xiao Ming and Xiao Yu, and said softly, "Why do you want to interfere with my personal choice? This jade bracelet is my own wish, and I think it's worth it." ”
Seeing that I was resolute, Xiaoyu didn't want to say anything more, but said softly: "Mother-in-law, we just think that this price is a bit excessive, can you change it to a cheaper one?"
I was silent for a while, feeling a little aggrieved and feeling that my son and daughter-in-law were not as close to me as they used to be. But in the end, I relented and said, "Okay, since you guys think the price is too much, I'll go get a cheaper one." ”
I stood up, walked to the bedroom, and carefully placed the 50,000 jade bracelet into the jewelry box. The heart was a little heavy, and I felt like I had lost some of my dignity in front of my children. But for the sake of family harmony, I still chose to compromise.
After changing my clothes, I decided to go out and change the jade bracelet. I walked alone on the street, feeling a little angry and a little heartache. I felt like I had sacrificed some of my wishes for the sake of my family, but I didn't get enough respect and understanding.
In the jade shop, I changed to a slightly cheaper jade bracelet, although it is not as expensive as before, but I think it is quite satisfied. I took my newly bought jade bracelet and returned home with a heavy heart.
When I got home, I saw a scene that shocked me. Xiao Ming and Xiao Yu were carrying the things at home, and their faces were full of determination and determination.
I walked over quickly and asked, "What are you doing?"
Xiao Ming looked at me deeply and said, "Mom, we have decided not to hold this wedding." ”
My heart sank to the bottom, and I couldn't believe my ears. I cried and said, "Why? Is it because I'm going to buy that jade bracelet?"
Xiao Ming sighed and said solemnly: "Mom, it's not because of the jade bracelet. Although this incident also made us a little unhappy, more importantly, Xiaoyu and I found that there were too many differences between us, and we were not suitable for being together. ”
I felt a tingle in my heart when I heard this, and I felt like I was being used as a shield. I said in a trembling voice, "How can you do this? Marriage is not child's play, and the problems between you can be solved." ”
Xiaoyu raised her head, her eyes were full of tears, but her voice said firmly: "Mother-in-law, after careful consideration, we feel that this is the best choice for both of us. We don't want to push ourselves in marriage. ”
I felt my heart ach and I didn't know what to do. I knelt on the ground, grabbed Xiao Ming's hand, choked up and said, "Son, how can you do this to me? I have paid so much for you, do you give up on me so easily?"
Xiao Ming also had tears in his eyes, but he shook his head firmly and said, "Mom, it's not your fault, and it's not our fault. We just found out that we weren't suitable for each other and we couldn't force ourselves together. ”
I felt like my heart was wrenching, and I didn't know how to deal with what was happening in front of me. I felt like my marriage and family were completely broken at this moment, and I didn't know how to start over.
My husband came over, gently pulled me up, and said, "Ying, don't be sad. We can't change the children's decisions, but we still have each other. ”
I stood up trembling, wiped away my tears, took a deep breath, and tried to calm myself down. I knew that now was not the time to collapse, I had to be strong and face reality.
I took a deep look at Xiao Ming and Xiao Yu, and although my heart was full of pain, I knew that their decision was well thought out, and I had to respect their choice.
I said in a slightly trembling voice, "Well, if this is your choice, then I respect you." I only hope that you can find your own happiness. ”
Xiao Ming and Xiao Yu glanced at each other, and there was deep apology and heartache in their eyes. They knew their decision was a huge blow to me, but they also knew they couldn't push themselves.
We stood silently in the living room, the atmosphere heavy and helpless. My heart was filled with endless pain and loss, but I knew I had to be strong and face the reality.
The scene in front of me made me feel extremely heavy and lost. I knew that the cancellation of this wedding meant that it was not only a loss for me alone, but also a broken family. However, I also understand the children's decision that they cannot sacrifice their own happiness for the expectations of others.
"Mom, we're really sorry. Xiao Ming said softly, with deep apologies in his eyes.
I bowed slightly, trying to keep my voice calm, "I know, kid. It's not your fault, and it's not my fault. Some things are unpredictable and uncontrollable. ”
Xiaoyu also wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes and said softly, "Mother-in-law, we don't want you to be sad either." But we felt that there were too many problems between us and we couldn't force ourselves together. ”
There was a sharp pain in my heart, but I held back my tears and smiled faintly: "I understand your choice and respect your decision. I only hope that you can find your true happiness. ”
My husband walked up to us, patted Xiao Ming on the shoulder and said, "Child, no matter what happens in the future, you are our son, and we will always support you." ”
Xiao Ming's eyes were red, he hugged his father tightly, and said gratefully, "Thank you, Dad, thank you, Mom." I'll try. ”
My heart was filled with endless sadness and reluctance, but I knew that I had to be strong for the sake of the harmony of my family and the future of my children. I took a deep look at Xiao Ming and Xiao Yu, and silently prayed in my heart that they could find their own happiness.
In the days that followed, our family struggled to adjust our mindset and face life again. Although the cancellation of the wedding has caused us great pain, we believe that time will heal all the wounds and the future will be better.
I told myself that even if something happened to my family, I still had to be strong because I was not only a mother, but also a strong woman. I will use my strength to support the children on their path to happiness, and at the same time find a new life of their own.
Although the cancellation of this wedding has caused us great pain, it has also made us cherish each other's mutual understanding and support even more. In the days to come, I believe that we will be able to step out of the shadows and usher in a new dawn.
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