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I'm going to go back to my hometown for two weeks, because my brother is also going to bring the children home and get together by the way. I packed my luggage and took off all my jewelry, because I was afraid of irritating my family, I was afraid that my sister-in-law would be unbalanced and quarrel with my brother, and I was afraid that my mother would say it.
I am very afraid of revealing my wealth, showing my wealth in my mother's house, my mother's family thinks you give less, and I am afraid that they will think I spend too much.
So it's better to pick and search points.
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The question is, will you package yourself when you go back to your parents' house to let your family see that you are doing well, or will you deliberately pretend to be poor and sour?
Netizen 1:
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I think this mother has no malice, because the older generation is used to saving, so I can't see young people spending money lavishly.
Netizen 2:
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Personal experience: How to let relatives know that they are not doing well? It is up to my mother to publicize it.
Netizen 3:
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Of course, I hope that my children will live well, and the mother of a primary school classmate in my village is not the same, boasting about her daughter's high salary, tsk~
Netizen 4:
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The same mother, don't say she's not happy, blame you for hiding it from her.
Netizen 5:
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My mom also thinks I'm wearing rustic, she doesn't know that I'm afraid of getting dirty when I get dressed.
Netizen 6:
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How can it be so serious? I think it's good to keep a low profile.
Netizen 7:
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Don't buy it, it all ended up being my brother's.
Netizen 8:
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I'm really getting 3,000 a month.
Netizen 9:
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The nephew is closer than the daughter, so I advise you to keep a proper distance from your mother.
Netizen 10:
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Because others think they are stronger than you, they are very happy, and people seem to be like this, jealous of being better off than themselves, and more willing to make friends with weak people.
Netizen 11:
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Fortunately, I don't have any money, otherwise I would have been scolded by my mother.
Netizen 12:
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It's the same for everyone.
Netizen 13:
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I can understand your thoughts, and fellow workers can understand this feeling.
Netizen 14:
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Having said that, is it necessary to be so entangled in a few days when you go back? You don't have to walk the red carpet like a star, and you still talk about wearing clothes and accessories.
I think it's a pretty simple question, just follow your usual style. For example, I am used to scribbling, I have neither gorgeous expensive clothes nor expensive jewelry, I don't need makeup for daily wear, and I don't have relatives to borrow money from me at all, because what economic level is inseparable from my mother's credit!
For example, when I bought a house and a car, when I didn't buy it, my mother would say: Oh, I don't have any money, I can't afford it for so many years, I just haven't saved the money. After buying it, she would say: the children in the family have to go to school and repay the loan, and the salary is not high, so the pressure is very high.
I did live a poor life, and facts speak louder than words.
Friends, how do you "package" yourself when you go back to your hometown? Welcome to like, leave a message, and forward.
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